Bareback Discussion

I hooked up with a hotwife couple recently. We discussed before hand we would play with condoms first with bareback as an option at a later time. We were all tested already.

In the spur of the moment she hopped on bare (that's fine with me I prefer it). I just found it interesting she was down for bare as soon as we got going.

Any other couples that decide on bare in the spur of the moment?
I can’t speak for everyone, but in my experience, every couple I’ve met in this lifestyle prioritizes safety, and I respect that. It's non-negotiable for me too. No one’s trading their health for a thrill, and that’s how it should be.

That said, with regular, tested partners, things can shift if everyone’s on board. Bareback can be part of the deal, but only with clear, consensual communication upfront, especially if pregnancy’s a desire. Lay it all out, no surprises.

I’m not into pregnancy fantasies myself, not after a woman once tried to deceive me and her husband about it. That kind of trickery kills trust and ruins the vibe. Be honest, talk openly, and you might get what you want. Dishonesty? That’s a hard pass. You’re not playing fair if you go there and you're not a good person.
 
My GF typically uses condoms for guys who are not tested. Has it ever happened where she went bareback with a guy who she shouldn't have? Yes. She isn't perfect. But it's the exception.

What you did was responsible. You were both tested, so I can certainly see how that could end up with condoms going out the door.
 
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Like most people, our preference is very much bareback.

it's super easy and pretty cheap to get an std panel. There are even free services that do this. We make it clear with potential playmates that we will provide and ask for the paperwork when we meet. If they can provide it they're in. If not, they're out.

That's how we manage to always play bareback.
Yes and once you know everyone is safe and clean you can definitely enjoy yourself. Very freeing and a fantastic time.
 
Never would I disrespect someone like that if we had previously agreed to condoms. There would have to be a conversation about it beforehand. Breach of swinger etiquette, not cool
Had they not been tested I would have definitely not allowed it. After meeting them at their home and feeling the good chemistry it was definitely on. They are cautious people open to the full experience.
 
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Like most people, our preference is very much bareback.

it's super easy and pretty cheap to get an std panel. There are even free services that do this. We make it clear with potential playmates that we will provide and ask for the paperwork when we meet. If they can provide it they're in. If not, they're out.

That's how we manage to always play bareback.
My insurance will pay for a total and complete battery of sexual tests twice a year with no expense to me the only catch is the results are reported to my doctor and I have to have my doctor's order to get the test. She writes me an open-ended test order that is good for a year that I can take in anytime and have the test done at the first available appointment the lab has
 
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