Saccharomyces
Male
I can’t speak for everyone, but in my experience, every couple I’ve met in this lifestyle prioritizes safety, and I respect that. It's non-negotiable for me too. No one’s trading their health for a thrill, and that’s how it should be.I hooked up with a hotwife couple recently. We discussed before hand we would play with condoms first with bareback as an option at a later time. We were all tested already.
In the spur of the moment she hopped on bare (that's fine with me I prefer it). I just found it interesting she was down for bare as soon as we got going.
Any other couples that decide on bare in the spur of the moment?
That said, with regular, tested partners, things can shift if everyone’s on board. Bareback can be part of the deal, but only with clear, consensual communication upfront, especially if pregnancy’s a desire. Lay it all out, no surprises.
I’m not into pregnancy fantasies myself, not after a woman once tried to deceive me and her husband about it. That kind of trickery kills trust and ruins the vibe. Be honest, talk openly, and you might get what you want. Dishonesty? That’s a hard pass. You’re not playing fair if you go there and you're not a good person.