Bareback Discussion

I hooked up with a hotwife couple recently. We discussed before hand we would play with condoms first with bareback as an option at a later time. We were all tested already.

In the spur of the moment she hopped on bare (that's fine with me I prefer it). I just found it interesting she was down for bare as soon as we got going.

Any other couples that decide on bare in the spur of the moment?
I can’t speak for everyone, but in my experience, every couple I’ve met in this lifestyle prioritizes safety, and I respect that. It's non-negotiable for me too. No one’s trading their health for a thrill, and that’s how it should be.

That said, with regular, tested partners, things can shift if everyone’s on board. Bareback can be part of the deal, but only with clear, consensual communication upfront, especially if pregnancy’s a desire. Lay it all out, no surprises.

I’m not into pregnancy fantasies myself, not after a woman once tried to deceive me and her husband about it. That kind of trickery kills trust and ruins the vibe. Be honest, talk openly, and you might get what you want. Dishonesty? That’s a hard pass. You’re not playing fair if you go there and you're not a good person.
 
My GF typically uses condoms for guys who are not tested. Has it ever happened where she went bareback with a guy who she shouldn't have? Yes. She isn't perfect. But it's the exception.

What you did was responsible. You were both tested, so I can certainly see how that could end up with condoms going out the door.
 
Like most people, our preference is very much bareback.

it's super easy and pretty cheap to get an std panel. There are even free services that do this. We make it clear with potential playmates that we will provide and ask for the paperwork when we meet. If they can provide it they're in. If not, they're out.

That's how we manage to always play bareback.
 
Like most people, our preference is very much bareback.

it's super easy and pretty cheap to get an std panel. There are even free services that do this. We make it clear with potential playmates that we will provide and ask for the paperwork when we meet. If they can provide it they're in. If not, they're out.

That's how we manage to always play bareback.
Yes and once you know everyone is safe and clean you can definitely enjoy yourself. Very freeing and a fantastic time.
 
Never would I disrespect someone like that if we had previously agreed to condoms. There would have to be a conversation about it beforehand. Breach of swinger etiquette, not cool
Had they not been tested I would have definitely not allowed it. After meeting them at their home and feeling the good chemistry it was definitely on. They are cautious people open to the full experience.
 
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Like most people, our preference is very much bareback.

it's super easy and pretty cheap to get an std panel. There are even free services that do this. We make it clear with potential playmates that we will provide and ask for the paperwork when we meet. If they can provide it they're in. If not, they're out.

That's how we manage to always play bareback.
My insurance will pay for a total and complete battery of sexual tests twice a year with no expense to me the only catch is the results are reported to my doctor and I have to have my doctor's order to get the test. She writes me an open-ended test order that is good for a year that I can take in anytime and have the test done at the first available appointment the lab has
 
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We had our second threesome but not with the black guy as he did not want to do a complete blood analysis. We found a good lover who accepted to do it especially for the occasion. We agreed that it was for safety, in case the condom break and to allow extended foreplay. Finally, they never used a condom. We spent 2h30 together taking turns on her. He came 3 times in her pussy, me twice. Now she wants only bareback for the next lovers (so we are asking them to do a full blood analysis)
Nice! Do you see your self ever wanting to please her bull with her like giving him oral ???
 
Nice! Do you see your self ever wanting to please her bull with her like giving him oral ???
Life is full of surprises. Before our first threesome, I thought my excitement would come only from sharing her, from being active during sex… At the time, we agreed that the guys she slept with shouldn’t cum in her mouth, and to me that felt completely natural. But my mindset has changed a lot since then. Now, what turns me on the most is seeing her being completely taken by another man, and even wishing that she might be willing to fuck them alone, without me there. One of my deepest desires now is to watch her let the next guy cum in her mouth—and I’m dying to know if she’ll swallow every drop, as I so badly hope she will.
 
A few of my wife's raw encounters with long term lovers.



 
We had our second threesome but not with the black guy as he did not want to do a complete blood analysis. We found a good lover who accepted to do it especially for the occasion. We agreed that it was for safety, in case the condom break and to allow extended foreplay. Finally, they never used a condom. We spent 2h30 together taking turns on her. He came 3 times in her pussy, me twice. Now she wants only bareback for the next lovers (so we are asking them to do a full blood analysis)
It is very important to be safe. I could have hooked up with one of the regular well known housewives on here but she insisted on bareback and when I refused she ignored me after that ....
 
In all honesty, max enjoyment in the lifestyle does require some financial resources/disposable income. STD testing is one of those things that's easy to do regularly and in such a way as NOTHING gets reported to your doctor. There are several places in our area that do this on a walk in basis, or even by appointment. The cost is minimal compared to many other things
 
In all honesty, max enjoyment in the lifestyle does require some financial resources/disposable income. STD testing is one of those things that's easy to do regularly and in such a way as NOTHING gets reported to your doctor. There are several places in our area that do this on a walk in basis, or even by appointment. The cost is minimal compared to many other things
I don't care what my doctor knows.
 

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I don't care what my doctor knows.
Some people do, as mentioned earlier by someone in the article. Also, anything your doctor knows...the government knows. All of your medical records are stored in a data base for easy access now, as you find out if you visiit various health professionals these days. That may not be a problem for you but for some it is.