I think there can be an element of both. No doubt my wife enjoys the physical variety and particularly a big cock. She often refers to how deep inside she can feel it, 'like snake'. But there are definitely mental aspects as well. For her there is an excitement from the thought of being impaled on a big cock, of submitting to it, all mental. When she was a part time ...... she says it was always an exciting boasting point to share with her girl friends that she'd had a big cock.
Big cocks bringing orgasms is a myth.
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I would somehow disagree by experience. My wife had for about 8 Month a Lover who did have a pretty big dick. When my wife saw him first time in front of her first thought he will never fit. My wife’s first impression was wrong he did fit. When my wife had the first time sex with him I could hear groaning of pleasure and climaxing several times on him.
At some point he came out nude und asking for an ashtray. Even hanging soft and wet he had still an very impressive size, apart from it he was cut which did explain that he was able to fuck my wife that long.
I send him to the kitchen and rushed to the bedroom where i found my wife still with her open legs and a bit exhausted. I commented that I could hear her climaxing she answered with a little smile. Oh dear with his size there is no other choice.
Her new lover came back with cigarettes and ashtray and I left them alone.
About half an hour later i could hear my wife lusty groans mixed with what i identified as yes, yes... and this time she was screaming her climax.
In this time I had my office about 900 miles away and was flying in every weekend to see my family. Her new Lover which we both called meanwhile "donkey dick" as a pilot had no normal weekends. My wife saw him 2 to 3 times in a month for one night while I was still away.
Sometimes when he was in town during my weekend he texted us and I picked him up from the airport hotel to spend the night with us. We than fucked my wife both where I usually fucked her first because he stretched my wife penetrating her and I would have had no chance after him.
She went on a short vacation trip with him where she took her notebook along. Sometimes she put that notebook on the desk of the Hotel room and I could watch them fucking. Oh my wife loved it to be fucked and looking in her sexual excitement at the screen of her notebook to see me rubbing my dick.
My wife ended this relation after that trip because he was hormon controlled and it was just too much for her. She returned what she called "Over killed" and had for some time no desire for Sex
At some point he came out nude und asking for an ashtray. Even hanging soft and wet he had still an very impressive size, apart from it he was cut which did explain that he was able to fuck my wife that long.
I send him to the kitchen and rushed to the bedroom where i found my wife still with her open legs and a bit exhausted. I commented that I could hear her climaxing she answered with a little smile. Oh dear with his size there is no other choice.
Her new lover came back with cigarettes and ashtray and I left them alone.
About half an hour later i could hear my wife lusty groans mixed with what i identified as yes, yes... and this time she was screaming her climax.
In this time I had my office about 900 miles away and was flying in every weekend to see my family. Her new Lover which we both called meanwhile "donkey dick" as a pilot had no normal weekends. My wife saw him 2 to 3 times in a month for one night while I was still away.
Sometimes when he was in town during my weekend he texted us and I picked him up from the airport hotel to spend the night with us. We than fucked my wife both where I usually fucked her first because he stretched my wife penetrating her and I would have had no chance after him.
She went on a short vacation trip with him where she took her notebook along. Sometimes she put that notebook on the desk of the Hotel room and I could watch them fucking. Oh my wife loved it to be fucked and looking in her sexual excitement at the screen of her notebook to see me rubbing my dick.
My wife ended this relation after that trip because he was hormon controlled and it was just too much for her. She returned what she called "Over killed" and had for some time no desire for Sex
What an odd assumption..trying to relate the sex you see in a lifestyle club to sex elsewhere is a bit like
considering the porn you watch as something real. Even less valid is the idea that men with
big cocks aren't more satisfying for many women, simply because you observed a few guys in a swinger
club having sex with other women and apparently not satisfying those women.
I fully agree with you.
For me is clear that my girlfriend has more pleasure with a well endowed sex partner. SHE SAID THAT LITERALLY.
I'm not going to say that ALL the women in the world enjoy it, but at least in our case it is. That's why I don't see the point in the comment of the other user. You can't say "big cocks bringing orgasm is a mith". Maybe your wife or girlfriend is not particularly aroused by it, or she has a small vagina. Those are specific circumstances.
But in general (and I'd say, more than 90% of the men and women I had contact here and other forums) women enjoy more with a thicker and bigger penis.
My girlfriend can easily have more than 10 orgasms with our current bull. And that's amazing to hear. And, that didn't happen with other bulls before.
As I’ve said before, the only ones who can answer this are women.
It seems most replies here are from men either speculating or paraphrasing what their female partners have told them. I’d rather know what women themselves think about this.
It seems most replies here are from men either speculating or paraphrasing what their female partners have told them. I’d rather know what women themselves think about this.
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This is a very personal thing. Every women is different. For me, I like a large cock. I like to look at one and I like it when one is inside me. I definitely orgasm harder with a large cock. I like the full feeling I get with a large cock. Can I orgasm and enjoy a normal size cock? Yes. It's just not my preference. Obviously the guy it's attached to makes a difference too. He needs to be polite, respectful, gentle, with nice muscles, a nice personality and nice looking. I've also talked to women who like guys with smaller cocks. So, we're all different in what we like, and that's a good thing.
She did tell me about one guy who'd fuck her on his boat in Sheepshead Bay (Brooklyn, NY) he was small, maybe 4" (she showed me spreading her fingers) but he'd get into the rocking of the boat and in a position that hit all her spots, so at what was maybe 4" she considered him one of her best partners.
It's a good technique when the penis is large enough to be uncomfortable for the wife when she's under her lover (missionary). The lover has to be careful not to slip down, though - he needs to stay "riding high." We discovered this when we were with a couple. The husband had to use this position when he was in my wife. Big cocks are great to talk about and look at, but some women can't handle all of the length comfortably.All men should learn about the C.A.T. sex position, i.e. the coital-alignment-technique position, as it delver female orgasms.
Coital alignment technique - Wikipedia
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Yes indeed, excessive length can cause troubles. I had to wear a toy rubber bagel around my shaft with my first wife: www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/how-deep-are-you.16409/post-207151
Depends on the woman for sure. Been with women who simply can’t come from penetration only, to size queens who only want (deep) penetration and don’t care about cunnilingus
Good technique - wish I'd thought of that when my wife's BF was over. She was always pushing him back from her and asking him to ride her higher. Big cocks aren't always the blessing they are supposed to be, but if he didn't go all the way in she loved it. His wife warned us about his large long cock beforehand so we kind of knew what to expect. It was frustrating for him too, as he wanted so badly to be all the way in my wife when he nutted. I can sure understand that!
That's sort of what my wife does when she's ready to cum, except she does it with her on top and likes me propped up with some pillows behind me to achieve the angle she finds best. Then she just sort of grinds on me and has me suck on her tits. Only problem is, I can't cum from that and it takes me a lot longer to cum than her...
Not mention most guys exaggerate their size adding an inch or two lol.
Sorry, I accept the opinion of every user here, but as a bull, I have to say that ALL THE WOMEN I met during my life told me that sex with me was completely a huge difference compared to their previous lovers, or in the case of a married woman, to her husband.
But as I already wrote in different posts before, when you are above average, you need to be very careful. I don't know how other guys do it, but in my case, I can say that IT TAKES A WHILE until I can start having normal sex with a woman. Not all the women are the same, not all teh vaginas are the same. But IN GENERAL, a thicker penis is more pleasant than a thin one. Longer doesn't mean better if they don't enjoy cervix stimulation.
But as I already wrote in different posts before, when you are above average, you need to be very careful. I don't know how other guys do it, but in my case, I can say that IT TAKES A WHILE until I can start having normal sex with a woman. Not all the women are the same, not all teh vaginas are the same. But IN GENERAL, a thicker penis is more pleasant than a thin one. Longer doesn't mean better if they don't enjoy cervix stimulation.
My wife doesn't totally agree with this concept
That is amazing. Thank you for sharing that picture of her 😍
This is Tom, the husband (we share th account here)
In our case, Nerea is a real sizequeen. She didn't know until we started plaing with big dildos and she had her first vaginal orgasm. Since then we introduced a few more toys and finally we started sharing when she was ready for that.
I can say that she enjoyed mucho more with very well endowed men.
I also have to say that penis of 11 or 12 inches doesn'r exist, as some people here pretend to say. But we already met at leat two guys of 9 inches. (measured my my wife and myself) compared to most of us here, they look like horses 😂😂😂
Women have told me that it's not a length thing, more girth. They like the feeling of being stretched (but not too much). But in terms of size, small is a problem for enjoyment. It's difficult for them to get it to hit the right spot.
In terms of technique, I just let partners ride me and use my cock how they want. Some are embarrassed because they don't want to be seen losing control, but once we get past that barrier (ie that first orgasm), then they just keep coming back for more. One partner rode me for hours on-and-off, coming repeatedly. The bed was so drenched we had to move to another room to ......
In terms of technique, I just let partners ride me and use my cock how they want. Some are embarrassed because they don't want to be seen losing control, but once we get past that barrier (ie that first orgasm), then they just keep coming back for more. One partner rode me for hours on-and-off, coming repeatedly. The bed was so drenched we had to move to another room to ......
Hi Jennifer here. While I agree that it's not the length of the wand but the skill of the magician that makes the rabbit pop out of the hat, I have had some very amazing orgasms on big thick cocks.... I do also want to say that the majority of men I fucked and orgasm with don't have big cocks.
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