Big cocks bringing orgasms is a myth.

Regarding our experiences (both wife and husband) the size of a cock does matter, but only to a degree or extent.

Size matters when the male organ is unfortunately too small. We mean the clinically small ones, not talking about the 5 incher which is probably the median or average for many people and is very able to satisfy.

Size matters when the male organ is big and thick, because it is alluring for most women. They expect more pleasure, excitement, and to pose proud before other women as a conqueror of the big scary one-eyed monster. Yes, a big cock male is indeed some kind of a trophy for playful wives.

Size matters when the woman is satisfied with her partners sizes and mainly because they know how to handle their girth and reach in her favor, making her cum good.

So, a big cock brings orgams and probably more allure and excitement than an average joe one (not an offense, husband has a 6 inches and is fine). Therefore, it is not a myth.

The myth is to believe that just a big dong hanging between any male legs would be enough to transform him into a Bull or Casanova!
Well said. Also, while most ladies definitely do enjoy being fucked by a big cock, I'd venture to say that its the men seeing her fucked by a big cock thats desired more
 
To give some perspective, do we men like a tighter pussy wrapped around our dick, or a loose one?
I found young women nowadays are quite different to what I found when I was 20. Now I'm 39, and I find my best sexual partners between her 30's and 50's. But sometimes I meet interesting couples, very young couples, exploring this cuckold life and they are pretty young (23 my last couple here in Madrid).

When I was younger, 15-20 years ago, my size was a problem very often. Because when I met a woman, she was not used to that size and girth. It took me a few dates until I could have good sex with some of my girlfriends at that time.

Today, when I date a woman on her 20's they look like pornstars 🤣🤣🤣 literally...

Young women today are very skilled and experienced. 1.000.000 times more than a woman of that age when I was young.

So today, younger doesn't mean tighter... Or yes, but not as before. They are very tight, but they are flexible in there. The vagina is fuckng tight but very elastic, and the grip is amazing 😜.

In parallel, I had sex with a few women above her 50's too, but with like virgin vaginas. Very tight for her age.

I think it depends a lot on the fact of having children, and the frequency of sex they had during their lives, etc. If the husband play with them with big dildos....

Personally I find most of the vaginas tight, because of my girth 🙂
 
I found young women nowadays are quite different to what I found when I was 20. Now I'm 39, and I find my best sexual partners between her 30's and 50's. But sometimes I meet interesting couples, very young couples, exploring this cuckold life and they are pretty young (23 my last couple here in Madrid).

When I was younger, 15-20 years ago, my size was a problem very often. Because when I met a woman, she was not used to that size and girth. It took me a few dates until I could have good sex with some of my girlfriends at that time.

Today, when I date a woman on her 20's they look like pornstars 🤣🤣🤣 literally...

Young women today are very skilled and experienced. 1.000.000 times more than a woman of that age when I was young.

So today, younger doesn't mean tighter... Or yes, but not as before. They are very tight, but they are flexible in there. The vagina is fuckng tight but very elastic, and the grip is amazing 😜.

In parallel, I had sex with a few women above her 50's too, but with like virgin vaginas. Very tight for her age.

I think it depends a lot on the fact of having children, and the frequency of sex they had during their lives, etc. If the husband play with them with big dildos....

Personally I find most of the vaginas tight, because of my girth 🙂
I am a senior, and not packing like a porn star. However, I have only had one woman who felt loose, and that was because she had a partial hysterectomy.
 
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So, I’ll try and keep this as short as I can. Been thinking about getting my wife into the lifestyle I’ve mentioned it, she bat it away. I’ve seen stories of how men slowly over years got her there. Because they knew how much better a ‘big cock’ would be. I make my wife cum tonnes, dripping wet, mouth open. I’m six inches and a little girthy. Some positions we could do with me taking an inch off ‘doggy’ then there are more complicated position where an extra inch would help. So I was chatting to a guy and he invited me to attend a few of his swingers nights. I said I just wanted to observe, my wife doesn’t know. I did get naked as it would have been weird if I didn’t. I saw guys with huge cocks pounding women. Not one decent orgasm observed. Loud noises and grunts. But no orgasms. UNLESS he was playing with her clit while banging her or she was grinding him! I saw guys with average cocks and big ones fuck the same women and guess what, exactly the same outcome in terms of the women having an orgasm regardless of size! Some women were in pain with the big ones but seemed to like it, some who were a lot more vocal with the big ones seemed way more relaxed and at home with the more average ones. One guy had a really long thin cock and he got loads of attention and showed me a thing or two! All in all. I’ve been 3 times and not seen A SINGLE WOMAN have an orgasm from penetration only. Unless there was clit grinding cowgirl style or toys and fingers used while being fucked. Can’t lie. The women seemed to love the variety of men and were certainly loving it. But big dicks bringing orgasms never happened. I read so many bulls and ducks writing ‘he slid in her and she came 5 times on five thrusts’. I’m calling this nonsense now. Whereas before I was believing it! Certainly has ruined a few sexual fantasies that got me hot though. Any thoughts? Females, especially VERIFIED ones would be AMAZING.
My wife told me that she needs to know a guy (beyond the casual sex stage) before orgasm scenarios can happen. To be comfortable letting loose. To be happy waking up next to him or in his arms in the morning. Even showering with him the next morning. I don't have to ask her about "orgasms" when these kinds of things are happening. Although she likes guys who are nicely equipped, she takes a much more global approach to sex with her BF.
 
My wife told me that she needs to know a guy (beyond the casual sex stage) before orgasm scenarios can happen. To be comfortable letting loose. To be happy waking up next to him or in his arms in the morning. Even showering with him the next morning. I don't have to ask her about "orgasms" when these kinds of things are happening. Although she likes guys who are nicely equipped, she takes a much more global approach to sex with her BF.
You are right, there are some women who need taht as well. Not only having a huge penis is a premonition of the best sex of your like. I have been with a few guys in my life. I was very adventurous when i was young and I did my first trip around Europe with two good friend of me, and I can tell that we had sex every night of those three wonderful weeks 😵

And some guys were well packaged but they didn't know how to use it...

But in general, now that I'm in my mid 40's, I can say that "in general" I prefer always a big penis. Because even if the guy is not very skilled, I can jump over him and have fun by myself with that big thing.

I was very surprised when I readed other ladies from this site saying the oposite.

Either if it's me or my husband finding a big boy (at least 8 inches), I can say that I know how to deal with him if he can stay hard for 15-20 minutes.
 
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I found young women nowadays are quite different to what I found when I was 20. Now I'm 39, and I find my best sexual partners between her 30's and 50's. But sometimes I meet interesting couples, very young couples, exploring this cuckold life and they are pretty young (23 my last couple here in Madrid).

When I was younger, 15-20 years ago, my size was a problem very often. Because when I met a woman, she was not used to that size and girth. It took me a few dates until I could have good sex with some of my girlfriends at that time.

Today, when I date a woman on her 20's they look like pornstars 🤣🤣🤣 literally...

Young women today are very skilled and experienced. 1.000.000 times more than a woman of that age when I was young.

So today, younger doesn't mean tighter... Or yes, but not as before. They are very tight, but they are flexible in there. The vagina is fuckng tight but very elastic, and the grip is amazing 😜.

In parallel, I had sex with a few women above her 50's too, but with like virgin vaginas. Very tight for her age.

I think it depends a lot on the fact of having children, and the frequency of sex they had during their lives, etc. If the husband play with them with big dildos....

Personally I find most of the vaginas tight, because of my girth 🙂
Are you Spanish?? My GF is 23 but I would pay for seeing how you fuck her with that big dick you have man!! And I guess she will agree with me!! Which city??
 
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You are right, there are some women who need taht as well. Not only having a huge penis is a premonition of the best sex of your like. I have been with a few guys in my life. I was very adventurous when i was young and I did my first trip around Europe with two good friend of me, and I can tell that we had sex every night of those three wonderful weeks 😵

And some guys were well packaged but they didn't know how to use it...

But in general, now that I'm in my mid 40's, I can say that "in general" I prefer always a big penis. Because even if the guy is not very skilled, I can jump over him and have fun by myself with that big thing.

I was very surprised when I readed other ladies from this site saying the oposite.

Either if it's me or my husband finding a big boy (at least 8 inches), I can say that I know how to deal with him if he can stay hard for 15-20 minutes.
That's exactly what my wife has told me. My wife has traveled with her boss and the levels of intimacy that they experienced were what all three of us wanted. And for them. She wouldn't travel with a casual BF for this reason. There was no worries about "rules, videos for me, who pays for the room, cuckolding, bbc, and all that fantasy stuff. It was about good sex with a guy she really enjoyed giving herself to as often as possible. And yes, she likes guys who are nicely equipped. In her words: "6 to 8" is perfect. Nothing bigger."