Did I screw up?

Snlove

Couple
We are new to this. Wife has been talking to a guy and hooked up once and Will again tomorrow. She sends me some screenshots but blocks out his name. I asked for pictures of them together and she said he didn’t want to at this point and then caught her in a lie that she never brought it up (said she didn’t feel comfortable with the first time, whatever but why lie) I’m not allowed to watch or “push” with questions. I wanted to get into this lifestyle but feel like I’m doing it wrong or there are bigger problems.
 
We are new to this. Wife has been talking to a guy and hooked up once and Will again tomorrow. She sends me some screenshots but blocks out his name. I asked for pictures of them together and she said he didn’t want to at this point and then caught her in a lie that she never brought it up (said she didn’t feel comfortable with the first time, whatever but why lie) I’m not allowed to watch or “push” with questions. I wanted to get into this lifestyle but feel like I’m doing it wrong or there are bigger problems.
I personally wouldn't be able to cope with your situation, we also don't take pics of my wife and our friend, but I know him and me and my wife talk about mostly everything that goes on. Need to try and talk about it, without it becoming a fight.
 
We are new to this. Wife has been talking to a guy and hooked up once and Will again tomorrow. She sends me some screenshots but blocks out his name. I asked for pictures of them together and she said he didn’t want to at this point and then caught her in a lie that she never brought it up (said she didn’t feel comfortable with the first time, whatever but why lie) I’m not allowed to watch or “push” with questions. I wanted to get into this lifestyle but feel like I’m doing it wrong or there are bigger problems.
She’s new to this and maybe doesnt feel entirely comfortable with it herself yet. Give her time to settle in and then she might open up more.
Lynn x
 
We are new to this. Wife has been talking to a guy and hooked up once and Will again tomorrow. She sends me some screenshots but blocks out his name. I asked for pictures of them together and she said he didn’t want to at this point and then caught her in a lie that she never brought it up (said she didn’t feel comfortable with the first time, whatever but why lie) I’m not allowed to watch or “push” with questions. I wanted to get into this lifestyle but feel like I’m doing it wrong or there are bigger problems.
You both need talk about ground rules. BEFORE it gets out of hand and reaches the point of no return.
 
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