We are new to this. Wife has been talking to a guy and hooked up once and Will again tomorrow. She sends me some screenshots but blocks out his name. I asked for pictures of them together and she said he didn’t want to at this point and then caught her in a lie that she never brought it up (said she didn’t feel comfortable with the first time, whatever but why lie) I’m not allowed to watch or “push” with questions. I wanted to get into this lifestyle but feel like I’m doing it wrong or there are bigger problems.