The foundation of Cuckoldry in the Lifestyle involves honesty, trust, respect and self-confidence within a marriage for this kind of play to be successfull. it's great you want to sacrifice to make your wife happy but, being St. George is too extreme; however, it's your decision.
Couples who are successful in the Lifestyle don't cheat (well, not anymore) and keep it honest because it's essential to their mutual success and happiness......time to sit down with wifey and do the hard-work if, both of you want to be happy....
I think you have misunderstood both the topic of this thread, and the sentiment of my post.
The topic is whether cheating wives love their husbands. Not whether cheating is cuckolding, which is an entirely different question.
I answered the question of this thread, and gave my views why I believe wives can both love and cheat simultaneously.
Let me ask you another question, if you play cards or tennis with your wife and she cheats, does that mean she doesn’t love you? There are many reasons why people cheat. Many people also don’t cheat when they are not in love.
I also didn’t say I wanted to sacrifice to make my wife happy. I said I’m hoping she can progress from cheating to cuckolding/hotwifing where she doesn’t need to do it behind my back. I’m working on that.
If she can’t get over that obstacle of being open about it (this takes courage which for some may be trivial and others not so trivial, not everyone is the built the same),
then I’d rather she did it than felt unfulfilled or resentment towards me based on society norms and pressure.
I’d also still get excitement and rock hard knowing she was doing it the same as if I had given her permission, so it wouldn’t necessarily be a sacrifice as I want her to do it anyway, but for me, given the choice, I’d prefer her to be open as my preference, because there is less risk she would leave me.
To answer your comments about cuckolding (which like I said is not really relevant to my post or this thread topic); I’m not so precious in the ownership of the term cuckold as to whether it requires cheating can include cheating or shouldn’t include cheating. It can mean different things to different people. For reference, the definition of a cuckold in the Cambridge dictionary is:
‘a man whose
wife deceives him by having a
sexual relationship with another man’.
Like I said, I’m not precious on what a cuckold is or isn’t. If you started a thread on that it would be an interesting debate, but at the end of it I don’t think there would be a clear answer for everyone. And still not relevant to my post.
