Clearly, men and women have different definitions/intepretations of cheating and both need to be on the same page before exploring the LIFESTYLE because Respect and Trust are very important components for success in the Lifestyle.....well, that's been my impression for last 25-years as BULL...
Do women who cheat actually love their husbands?
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CC and I are both seniors, have been together for 10 yrs, and enjoy the lifestyle. Not long after we first got together we were at a lifestyle club and there was a lady wearing a tee shirt that said "It's not cheating if your husband knows", we adopted that theory, it's ok to play alone as long as we tell the other all the details. Especially if told during sex.
One day we were in Lowes, walking along when she says, "I would do him", I look to see who she was talking about and it was a man near our age, grey hair, tall, nice body and a nice outline of his cock shown on his shorts. I laughed and said, "are you going to take him to the mattress isle. As we walked away I turned around to look at him and he had turned to look at her, had a big smile on his face.
One day we were in Lowes, walking along when she says, "I would do him", I look to see who she was talking about and it was a man near our age, grey hair, tall, nice body and a nice outline of his cock shown on his shorts. I laughed and said, "are you going to take him to the mattress isle. As we walked away I turned around to look at him and he had turned to look at her, had a big smile on his face.
DevotedCuck4Her
Couple
Mmm. Can you point out where I contradicted that definition? I.e. actual quote me, word for word?
But as you like pedantics, Let's play the semantic games of a pedant. Tell me, if you were on a guitar enthusiasts website, would you insist that an axe was for chopping wood and not an instrument? Context is everything. But as I say, its moot anyway.
However, it was the definition of "cheating" that was the bone of contention for me. Cheating means (by definition, Mr. Pedant) "not playing by the rules". There can be no cheating going on if man and wife are both in on the game. Hence cuckoldry is not synonymous with cheating, which was the implication.
For clarity, you say "a husband whose wife cheats is a cuckold" which is technically true BUT only within a narrow context of its own (i.e. cheating does not have to involve sex at all), but that does not also mean that "a cuckold is a husband whose wife cheats".
And, recall, the anchor (in the OP) discussed cheating, not cuckoldry.
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cstina1979
Female
I love my husband he is a great guy but he has no interest in sex since i miscarried and I need sex. Besides i really didnt know who and what i was when i met and married him so even if he was interested he would never be able to completly meet my wants.
There pre-approved by her obviously to fulfill her needs. why should she have so seek your approval when you don't even know what she is wanting
to me men simply want to control what wives do, thats so very wrong
muknw
Well-Known Member
Agreed.
The power of lust and desire in the heat of an unplanned moment can be overwhelming.
Can be and usually is, thats why cheating sex is the best sex of all
to me marriage/partnership
Well then, partnership where mutual respect, trust and agreement on cheating isn't ideal for yourself and other women who have a different perspective on the matter.
Maybe not, but neither is being controlled and used by another person who can't get the job done himself and want me to do everything his way, which by the way is usually a long way from the most satisfying way, because he does not know how to give a women a decent orgasm. so don't try play god and judge me, thank you
Happy to do what my fuckbuddy and i agree on,though as he does not judge me, nor I him
Your post Tuesday 8:19pm "Cuckolding (in this context) is by mutual consent. "
In a straight life knowing the definition of terms has no importance as the parties do not engage, however, engaging in this lifestyle the parties should know what they're engaging in, ergo, the definition, the meaning of their activities.
You're right context has meaning but, 'a rose by any other name is stll a rose'. If you were on a guitar enthusiasts website you should know the lexicology, and I dare say you'd make sure to know, same goes for here.
The definition of cheating:
"to secretly have sex with someone other than your husband, wife, or partner." MacMillan Dictionary
"to be sexually unfaithful —usually used with on " Miriam Webster
"If you cheat on your husband, wife, or usual sexual partner, you secretly have a sexual relationship with someone else" Cambridge
Please note they all involve SEX.
Yes, the subject matter was cheating, I was clarifying your incorrect analysis, which is where you took the subject matter of the rails. HOWEVER, if you misstated something I'll accept that and apologize for the dialog.
You may have the last word.
DevotedCuck4Her
Couple
Mmm. Perhaps re-read my post? Yes, and all those definitions also contain the word "secretly". And therein lies my argument so thank you for reinforcing it.
DevotedCuck4Her
Couple
Mmm. Perhaps re-read my post? Yes, and all those definitions also contain the word "secretly". And therein lies my argument so thank you for reinforcing it.
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