In context, I consider myself the husband of a hot wife. While in the technical and semantic sense, that labels me as a cuckold, active humiliation in the cuckold sense isn’t part of my relationship with my wife.
In many situations where one’s pair-bonded partner is having sex with another there is likely some element of humiliation, even if unintentional.
I’ve experienced times when I felt humiliation as a consequence of the hot wife experience.
More than once, while I was present, and watching, my wife became so aroused, so erotically stimulated by the stranger she was having sex with that she forgot I was in the room.
We’ve been engaged in threesome and group play a few times, where she’s basically ignored me, disengaged, to focus her attention on a stranger’s cock.
I’ve experienced humiliation, a twinge of jealous reaction in those moments. Similarly, there have been times when my own arousal level and over-stimulation resulted in premature ejaculation, and even spontaneous ejaculation, leaving me by the wayside until I was able to recover. My wife’s response was to the effect, “Aw, you poor dirty, naughty boy… you came too soon…” as if she was chiding an inexperienced lover.