Don't love cuckold/hotwife after i shot my load
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Sounds like you need a chastity cage to keep you from releasing too early. Then you could/would/should stay focused on her pleasure.
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Understood. That means you’re too focused on your own pleasure. Your focus needs to be 100 % on her pleasure. Your main pleasure should be to be certain she is completely pleasured and satisfied.
Guys go from zero to horny right now. Women need a LOT more time to get them there. So, for example, if you think a half hour of foreplay is enough, it’s probably not enough for her. So, how do you make an entire evening a focus on her as a form of foreplay?
Guys go from zero to horny right now. Women need a LOT more time to get them there. So, for example, if you think a half hour of foreplay is enough, it’s probably not enough for her. So, how do you make an entire evening a focus on her as a form of foreplay?
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You know your GF. Do you know what things to help her get “in the mood?” Maybe it is something as mundane as picking up the house or doing the dirty dishes in the sink without being asked. Something that allows her to relax sooner. Find out what her fantasies are and see about incorporating that into your foreplay.
Maybe she “gets hot” about being naughty in public. Take her to dinner. Someplace that has a dark booth. See if you can get her to dress in a low top that shows cleavage which you give her complementary praise - how much you think she is sexy. Maybe you work up to getting her to dress in shorter skirts and get her to take off her panties/knickers in the ladies room or in the dark corner booth you’re seated in.
This isn’t a punch list where you do these things and you’re guaranteed to get her off. It’s about finding out what helps her get in the mood.
Others may have ideas too. If you really like the idea of sharing, maybe you can find some homemade amateur wife sharing porn to watch together. Then find out if she likes the young guys the the thick cock, or the black guy with big muscles, or the red headed babe with the perky nipples. The key isn’t the porn. The key thing is for the two of you to COMMUNICATE.
Finally, here is the final thing. It,won’t always work day in and day out. Remember, it may take a lot more to get her horny some days that others. Communicate. And you need to let it be two way communication with you doing active listening.
Maybe she “gets hot” about being naughty in public. Take her to dinner. Someplace that has a dark booth. See if you can get her to dress in a low top that shows cleavage which you give her complementary praise - how much you think she is sexy. Maybe you work up to getting her to dress in shorter skirts and get her to take off her panties/knickers in the ladies room or in the dark corner booth you’re seated in.
This isn’t a punch list where you do these things and you’re guaranteed to get her off. It’s about finding out what helps her get in the mood.
Others may have ideas too. If you really like the idea of sharing, maybe you can find some homemade amateur wife sharing porn to watch together. Then find out if she likes the young guys the the thick cock, or the black guy with big muscles, or the red headed babe with the perky nipples. The key isn’t the porn. The key thing is for the two of you to COMMUNICATE.
Finally, here is the final thing. It,won’t always work day in and day out. Remember, it may take a lot more to get her horny some days that others. Communicate. And you need to let it be two way communication with you doing active listening.
This is called "post nut clarity" .....you should nut before all major life decisions.
Its an example of fantasy vs reality. Lots of things can seem really hot when you're all horny and worked up, but in the cold light of day when presented with the same things it's suddenly not as hot anymore. There is nothing wrong with this and taking the step from fantasy to reality can be really scary. Personally I'm always really nervous before hooking up with someone new from the internet for the first few visits. Some hook-ups were fantastic, some were disasters.
Your feelings could be simply post-nut clarity where suddenly nothing seems hot, or maybe you aren't ready for hotwifing yet. Maybe for the latter take it slow, see how you feel watching your partner slow dance with someone or flirting & getting touchy with someone rather than going all in.
DennisSara
Active Member
Listen up, guys. You have two heads and only enough blood for one at a time. One will be full and the other one will be getting starved.
Once it’s done, you’ll love it more and more when fucks your wife someone else. In fact, you will want more than he does. It doesn’t change when you shot your load.
Dutchhotwife1976
Couple
Sure, thats normal. Thats why its diffucult to be a cuck. Woensdag horny, you wants her to do everything. After orgasm you want her to stop.
DennisSara
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Schlappicucky
Couple
Love to hear all those comments. Nice to see that others also have this problem. I need to focus more that our relationship is 100% good and there is nothing to be afraid for.
Me too, and it can be difficult stopping it from getting me in to trouble! 🤯
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