Everyday couples that enjoy occasional mfm fun - how do you find the guy ?

You have to put yourselves out there in some way you feel comfortable with, Like jaknsuz we started before the inuckternet, but in todays world I think you need to search for sites you feel comfortable with and just try to let people know what you are looking for. Good L
 
All but a few of the swing clubs we've attended allow single males. Their entry fee is usually twice the fee of couples which tends to keep the ratio in check.

We met a Bull at one of these clubs that we had as a regular for 7 years - until he married a vanilla girl.

At a club you dont have to mess around with all the BS that comes with hooking up online.