I’ve had my wife cheating fantasy since I met her in 2017, I used to masterbate to the thought of her having sex with men in the saunas at her gym. 8 years later I am obsessed with the fantasy of her cheating and it feels like every day this is getting stronger. I know many of you would advise just to tell her but I absolutely can not risk it because we have two kids and if she took my desires the wrong way and didn’t understand them I worry it would break us apart. So yeah I feel stuck with this fantasy that I can’t talk to her about. Does anyone else feel like this?
Feeling like I’m stuck in limbo
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💯 feel what your saying… I make little hints all the time… But she doesn’t see them yet. But I can’t come out and tell her straight up
imherManwantHER
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Guess I’m just a little bit “further along” in my kinky fantasies so sure, I’ll chime in with this insight.
After years and years of only vanilla porn watching together on occasion, to gradually developing a shared interest in watching the two guys wife sharing vids.
Now we use multiple toys, we’ve gradually become comfortable discussing my fetishes and getting her to explore (and admit)😁 and pretend-play out some of her own.
She’s not comfortable with being shared at this point but she’s wayyy more open to the idea and accepting of my inclinations. Everyone has their own unique situation but honesty in every relationship really should be allowed and discussed even if not respected or agreed to.
Best wishes to you
After years and years of only vanilla porn watching together on occasion, to gradually developing a shared interest in watching the two guys wife sharing vids.
Now we use multiple toys, we’ve gradually become comfortable discussing my fetishes and getting her to explore (and admit)😁 and pretend-play out some of her own.
She’s not comfortable with being shared at this point but she’s wayyy more open to the idea and accepting of my inclinations. Everyone has their own unique situation but honesty in every relationship really should be allowed and discussed even if not respected or agreed to.
Best wishes to you
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