first experiences that you did to know you were bi

hi i am married and bi my husband is not when i first started to feel i was bi was in school going in open showers i liked to see other girls nude when i made a friend then we hung out a lot having ...... overs things like that seeing each other nude was exciting to me one night we got into checking each other out close up i would look at her pussy open up look inside holding my butt cheeks open so she could look i remember the first time i was touched felt her fingers open my pussy and she said i was wet ,that day we just liked looking and touching i remember doing it to her and feeling my fingers wet it turned me on so much wanted to do much as time went on with us we did .but i knew i was bi then
My first experience in knowing I was maybe bi was growing up. Starting at a young age my best friend and I experimented a ton. By the age of 14 we were fucking each other at sleepovers and once a week after school. That stopped and I was only with women until I met my wife. She was very dominant and she began pegging me which lead to other femdom kinks and cuckolding me. Years after we got married I told her about my gay past and she was into it.
 
I remember once a male friend of mine drunkenly started making out with me at a party. Although I wasn’t attracted to him, I immediately went to the bathroom after and jerked off. I’m not sure I knew I was “bi” but I knew it made me feel something I’d never felt before.

Shortly afterwards my girlfriend at the time had a book of pornograpic stories. One of them was about a straight guy mmf encounter that accidentally turned bi. I had never considered an encounter such as that in all of my many jerk off scenarios (this was pre internet when I had to use my imagination). It turned me on so much that I’ve been craving cock ever since.
I was bicurious for a long time. Then a gay friend sucked my cock and a switch clicked in my head, I wound up sucking his big cock too. Been craving cock ever since.
 
I want to see my wife get fucked and I would love to see a cock in life. I aslo want to taste and touch the cock however I do not want to do anything with the person that the cock is attached on. I am fairly certain porn had a lot to do with it. And I believe the more and more porn I watched the more and more I wanted to do things with a cock like those pornstars in porn used to.
 
When I used to watch hung studs in porn, I would get jealous of them, even though I was hung bigger than most porn studs. I recognized this as arousal. But because I'm not into men romantically, it didn't set off any alarms.

I would start lusting after seeing their big dicks and solid asses, and wanted to feel them up. But it wasn't like I wanted to breed them like a woman -- different feeling. I lusted more out of jealously, etc. It was very much competitive in nature. I would get aroused when I'd see their asses going up and down as they're a penetrating a woman. Of course, there are some men/porn studs that I have ZERO attraction to.

I still don't ever fantasize of sucking dick or getting my dick sucked by a man, or having anal sex with one (just being honest), It's just way more about feeling up each other when there is a woman present when the moment is right. If there is not a woman there, then it's less arousing in reality for me.

But, yes, visually-speaking, I like looking at well-hung studs with nice asses in porn. Love watching big, low-hangin' balls going balls deep and slapping against a woman's pussy. And those big cum shots.

What am I? Don't care. Pansexual, but like breeding with woman exclusively. Anal and oral sex with men is not arousing in general -- just some feeling up, and getting a possible handjob from one with a woman involved?
 
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When I used to watch hung studs in porn, I would get jealous of them, even though I was hung bigger than most porn studs. I recognized this as arousal. But because I'm not into men romantically, it didn't set off any alarms.

I would start lusting after seeing their big dicks and solid asses, and wanted to feel them up. But it wasn't like I wanted to breed them like a woman -- different feeling. I lusted more out of jealously, etc. It was very much competitive in nature. I would get aroused when I'd see their asses going up and down as they're a penetrating a woman. Of course, there are some men/porn studs that I have ZERO attraction to.

I still don't ever fantasize of sucking dick or getting my dick sucked by a man, or having anal sex with one (just being honest), It's just way more about feeling up each other when there is a woman present when the moment is right. If there is not a woman there, then it's less arousing in reality for me.

But, yes, visually-speaking, I like looking at well-hung studs with nice asses in porn. Love watching big, low-hangin' balls going balls deep and slapping against a woman's pussy. And those big cum shots.

What am I? Don't care. Pansexual, but like breeding with woman exclusively. Anal and oral sex with men is not arousing in general -- just some feeling up, and getting a possible handjob from one with a woman involved?
What are you ? Sounds a little bi to me, but who really cares? I suspect your feelings will become more defined as time goes by, in the meanwhile go with what you like,be open to new things.
 
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I sometimes like to watch men jack off on Chaturbate. That's hot. But I'm not necessarily thinking: I want to have sex with him. I cannot explain it. It's like a competitive-type thing. Also, it's a like a reflection of myself masturbating.

I'm fine with it all. A lot of straight dudes watch dudes jack off online. It's all good.
 
Not only are most men bi but I'm guessing most women are too, it just depends on what extent. Since I like cock as much as pussy I'd have to say I'm 50%. BTW,I love it, absolutely the best of both worlds.

Yes, I'm into dudes somewhat. It just depends on the context, scenario, type of dude, etc. Somne conditions have to be met, I suppose.

Great that are good with your bisexuality. It seems to give you a lot of pleasure.

I'm exploring on here. A couple of dudes on here have had me turned on.

It's all good.
 
Yes, I'm into dudes somewhat. It just depends on the context, scenario, type of dude, etc. Somne conditions have to be met, I suppose.

Great that are good with your bisexuality. It seems to give you a lot of pleasure.

I'm exploring on here. A couple of dudes on here have had me turned on.

It's all good.
I fully agree with having conditions. I was told there should be some attraction for a guy,kinda like the same way we pick our women. I find it much hotter and intimate if I know and like the guy. My 1st m/m experience was with a real nice guy I knew for a couple years, it was one of the hottest relationships I've ever had. After we split I sucked a stranger or two cocks and there was no comparison. Kinda like just going through the motions.
 
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I realised as soon as I hit puberty I was bi, I was more attracted to women but also drawn to confident older men.

I lost my virginity to an older lad in my very early teens at 13. I was at a sleepover at my best friend’s house and I always had a crush on his older brother who was 18 really cool and he noticed I liked him.

I need the bathroom in the middle of the night and on my way back I bumped into Sean my friends brother. He asked me to pop into his bedroom and then said he’d noticed me looking at him and that he was bisexual and he wanted to see me naked. I was shocked but extremely turned on so I took off my pj’s and stood naked infront of him. He then asked if i wanted him to take my take my virginity and teach me about sex with a man, I was unsure at the time what he meant but so excited I said yes.

That night he had showed me how to suck his cock and he also took my anal virginity teaching me how to be a good bottom and introducing me to the delights of cum in my mouth and up my bum. After that experience he would fuck me regularly until he went to university. It definitely shaped my sexuality and I’ve been a bisexual bottom ever since.
 
Not the first thing, but still relevant.
Growing up, I spent the night often at the home of a good friend and would often drink beer with his dad. One thing lead to another and we his dad and I became cocksucking friends. After his parents divorced and my friend went to live with his dad, I continued the occasional sleepover and would wait for my friend to fall asleep and then sneak into his dad's bedroom for some fun. One night I was lying on the floor to make sure that my friend wasn't going to wake up and someone quietly opened the bedroom door and I could tell by the shadow that it wasn't his dad. It was his cousin who was town visiting and she wanted to fuck. She took me to the room where she was ...... and we fucked with me finishing in her pussy and then eating her creampie. After she feel asleep, I got up to go back to ...... on the floor of my friend's room, but when I shut her door behind me, I noticed that the door to his dad's room was cracked open a few inches. It had been shut when I visited the cousin, so I was pretty sure he had heard us. I opened the door a little further and peeked in and sure enough he was stroking his cock. I walked over, sat on the bed next to him and started stroking my cock. It didn't take long and my cock was once again as hard as a rock. He said that he had heard us fucking and it made him horny. I couldn't just go back to ...... without offering him some relief.
 
Not the first thing, but still relevant.
Growing up, I spent the night often at the home of a good friend and would often drink beer with his dad. One thing lead to another and we his dad and I became cocksucking friends. After his parents divorced and my friend went to live with his dad, I continued the occasional sleepover and would wait for my friend to fall asleep and then sneak into his dad's bedroom for some fun. One night I was lying on the floor to make sure that my friend wasn't going to wake up and someone quietly opened the bedroom door and I could tell by the shadow that it wasn't his dad. It was his cousin who was town visiting and she wanted to fuck. She took me to the room where she was ...... and we fucked with me finishing in her pussy and then eating her creampie. After she feel asleep, I got up to go back to ...... on the floor of my friend's room, but when I shut her door behind me, I noticed that the door to his dad's room was cracked open a few inches. It had been shut when I visited the cousin, so I was pretty sure he had heard us. I opened the door a little further and peeked in and sure enough he was stroking his cock. I walked over, sat on the bed next to him and started stroking my cock. It didn't take long and my cock was once again as hard as a rock. He said that he had heard us fucking and it made him horny. I couldn't just go back to ...... without offering him some relief.
Sounds like a fantastic experience, were you a you a young man at the time?

Did you also as a young man have a thing for older men? I did and in my teens and twenties until I got married were all older guys in their 40s,50s and 60s.
 
Sounds like a fantastic experience, were you a you a young man at the time?

Did you also as a young man have a thing for older men? I did and in my teens and twenties until I got married were all older guys in their 40s,50s and 60s.
I was probably 13 or 14 the first time his dad got me ...... and sucked my dick. He was the first and only man that I ever really messed around with on a regular basis. I have been to gloryholes and theaters, but have never since had a cocksucking friend.
 
I was probably 13 or 14 the first time his dad got me ...... and sucked my dick. He was the first and only man that I ever really messed around with on a regular basis. I have been to gloryholes and theaters, but have never since had a cocksucking friend.
An early starter at a young age with an older guy. Exactly the same as me.

Do you still desire a cock sucking buddy?