Friend vs stranger, what are you into?

[Shelstar]

Hi! Quick question for the folks
We play with both, a close friend of ours both from college and a stranger we met through the lifestyle (he’s been part of a regular thing with us for a while now so almost friends I guess)
My wife really enjoys playing with both, what do you guys prefer?

 

[Robert Smith]

My wife insisted the man be a stranger, even from another city for the first few years. She eventually relaxed that requitement and ended uu doing people we knew and friends

 

[Garrett]

Usually I know the guy. And she didn't. So hot.

 

[MyWifeGen]

Either a guy I set up or a stranger. Never anyone we know. That is not part of our lifestyle.

 

[Garrett]

Either a guy I set up or a stranger. Never anyone we know. That is not part of our lifestyle.

Bareback any?

 

[MyWifeGen]

Bareback any?

Usually

 

[Shelstar]

My wife insisted the man be a stranger, even from another city for the first few years. She eventually relaxed that requitement and ended uu doing people we knew and friends

Awesome! Do you guys find any difference with strangers vs friends?

 

[Shelstar]

Either a guy I set up or a stranger. Never anyone we know. That is not part of our lifestyle.

Do any of them become regulars?

 

[MyWifeGen]

Do any of them become regulars?

The regulars have come from dates/set ups

 

[Shelstar]

The regulars have come from dates/set ups

Nice! Always fun when they becoming recurring playmates

 

[Krummsaebel]

My wife initially prefers her men to be strangers, but they might become regulars - she will never „recruit“ them from friends

 

[WNY3somecple]

Done both strangers and guys we know (friends, a few coworkers/bosses of hers,) though now we stick almost exclusively with guys she meets just for sex.

As far as strangers go it has ranged from guys she knew for a sort time to one she met that day and some truly anonymous encounters.

 

[Loridan]

We only do this with one guy, a guy we kinda knew before. Many many times with him, a semi regular deal we have going. He's a great guy and we all get along.
Different local guy our age 3 times. It was fun but wife likes it with our steady. We know the guy, everything is cool but we see him around town sometimes. Looking back I wish we hadn't done it with him.
Stranger out of town once, didn't go well at all. Wasn't all his fault, we were very nervous and couldn't get into it.

 

[Nikandr]

strangers are preferable, also her bosses

 

[Shelstar]

Done both strangers and guys we know (friends, a few coworkers/bosses of hers,) though now we stick almost exclusively with guys she meets just for sex.

As far as strangers go it has ranged from guys she knew for a sort time to one she met that day and some truly anonymous encounters.

Sounds great! curious are you still friends with any of the old playmates?

 

[Shelstar]

We only do this with one guy, a guy we kinda knew before. Many many times with him, a semi regular deal we have going. He's a great guy and we all get along.
Different local guy our age 3 times. It was fun but wife likes it with our steady. We know the guy, everything is cool but we see him around town sometimes. Looking back I wish we hadn't done it with him.
Stranger out of town once, didn't go well at all. Wasn't all his fault, we were very nervous and couldn't get into it.

good to hear things are going well with the regular! I think I read another post where you guys hooked up with a black guy too? (Her first)

 

[andysmith]

always strangers. No interest in relationships, just sex

 

[WNY3somecple]

Sounds great! curious are you still friends with any of the old playmates?

A couple , some were single and drifted off after they got married, others lots of moving around the country, one or two of the usual friendships just drifting apart

 

[Shelstar]

A couple , some were single and drifted off after they got married, others lots of moving around the country, one or two of the usual friendships just drifting apart

Gotcha! Glad to hear you guys still have a lot of fun with strangers though. There is something sexy about a wham bam thank you mam kind of deal

 

[Loridan]

always strangers. No interest in relationships, just sex

I can understand that.
I guess we have some kind of relationship with our steady friend. He's the UPS guy where she works, that's how we knew him before. They don't see each other at work.
We invited him to a small backyard BBQ gathering at our house, that's how it all started. Very long, boring story. Since we've been including him in our sex life we have had him for similar deals at our place with our regular friends. He's a super cool guy, keeps things quiet and doesn't blab. We've kinda got off with him mingling with our friends.
Other than above we don't socialize with him at all, we've never gone anywhere in public with him. It's just sexy fun usually at our place.

 

[andysmith]

I can understand that.
I guess we have some kind of relationship with our steady friend. He's the UPS guy where she works, that's how we knew him before. They don't see each other at work.
We invited him to a small backyard BBQ gathering at our house, that's how it all started. Very long, boring story. Since we've been including him in our sex life we have had him for similar deals at our place with our regular friends. He's a super cool guy, keeps things quiet and doesn't blab. We've kinda got off with him mingling with our friends.
Other than above we don't socialize with him at all, we've never gone anywhere in public with him. It's just sexy fun usually at our place.

less risk with strangers well away from home. Wife can be whorish and the guys can be foudn in bars and clubs or on beach. Just a fuck then go