Guys, do you wanna be there when it happens?

[Danielle]

definitely MFM threesome I want to be there and a part of it

I honestly can't see this as anything other than a team sport. Let's face it we all watch porn, right? Of the zillions of categories to choose from, who would just want to watch a husband and wife have sex? And to me, it would be the same if the wife was having one on one sex with her boyfriend.
Too vanilla for me.

 

[franklyn]

I honestly can see this as anything other than a team sport. Let's face it we all watch porn, right? Of the zillions of categories to choose from, who would just want to watch a husband and wife have sex? And to me, it would be the same if the wife was having one on one sex with her boyfriend.
Too vanilla for me.

Totally agree well said

 

[Crocodile]

Absolutely I'd want to be there. And not only that, I'd be an active participant. Not being there, would be like turning a movie on your TV, and then leaving and going to the store. It just wouldn't be the same.

 

[Danielle]

Totally agree well said

Well, it would have been better said if I had said "can't" than "can" but I fixed it. lol

 

[Danielle]

Absolutely I'd want to be there. And not only that, I'd be an active participant. Not being there, would be like turning a movie on your TV, and then leaving and going to the store. It just wouldn't be the same.

No, it wouldn't. lol I guess you could go home and ask your wife how the movie was.

 

[franklyn]

Well, it would have been better said if I had said "can't" than "can" but I fixed it. lol

I knew what you meant

 

[The Arranger]

1. As a Male I have been surprised by the number of ladies that like an audience. At least the first few times. Especially if they are recently separated / divorced or cheated on.
2. As a Male I have found that ladies like a drive to an from their date. That way they don’t have to give out their home address. It also means that they have someone to talk with on the drive and during the wait. Kind of a pre game show and a post game wrap up.
   
   
3. As a Male I have found that ladies like a bit of physical security on their dates.
   
   
4. As a Male I have found that a couple bottles of wine , one white on red help with date nerves. A twelve pac of chilled water bottles is another welcome bonus.
   
   
5. As a Male I have found a medium sized tray of cold cuts is most welcome.
6. As a Male I have found a medium sized tray of fresh fruits and melons is also most welcome.
   
   
7. As a Male I have found a medium sized tray of sweets is most welcome.
   
   
8. As a Male I have found that a lady in two piece pyjamas you know the ones three button tops and tie up elastic waist bottoms work best.
   
   
9. As a Male I have found a lady minus perfume is always best. Don’t want to mark possible Other ladies husband or boy friend. Also loose the lip stick.

 

[BostonCouple]

For us we definitely would have to both be there.

 

[Danielle]

For us we definitely would have to both be there.

Makes sense to me.

 

[kort6776]

I used to always be there but last year she decided that she doesn't want me watching, so frustrating!

 

[hotwifeluvr]

It's not that I don't want to be there, but having done it both ways, I have come to understand the benefits of not being there. With my ex-wives, I was there. It was hot, and I'm glad I had that experience. My wife won't entertain the idea of me being there, so I've never seen her do the deed, and it's hot in a whole different way. I know that she's giving herself to him in a way she could not if she had her husband there as an audience and distraction. He also will not perform in the same way. I find it hot knowing that she's really fucking him, in a very intimate way.

The intensity of arousal starts from the time I watch her begin readying herself for her date, fussing over what to wear, packing things in a bag to take with. It escalates as she walks out the door and drives away. As the hours tick by, my thoughts drift from "she's going to fuck him" to "by this time she has probably (and later certainly) begun fucking him. Hours and hours of intense pleasure, yearning for her return.

Then another flavor of intense excitement as I see her walk in the door. That look on her face. The carefully coiffed hair with which she departed now slightly disheveled, The smell and taste of sex on her body, the cum accumulated in her panties when she peels them off.

She reveals the details in small increments over the days or even weeks to follow, each time generating a flood of adrenaline and excitement, leading to incredible sex between us later. We may drive past the hotel where they fucked, and she'll point it out. Or we may be out shopping, and out of the blue, she'll be reminded of something, and she'll whisper or quietly tell me some hot detail.

Even though I want to be there and to see and experience it first hand, I know that it would change the experience in a way that I think would take away some of the intensity I enjoy, and may even alter the way I see her. There is something to be said for the mystery. We want to see women naked, but if they all walked around naked all the time it wouldn't be the same. So I have to say, I'm glad my wife won't permit it. I think it's better this way. YMMV

 

[69jd69]

It's not that I don't want to be there, but having done it both ways, I have come to understand the benefits of not being there. With my ex-wives, I was there. It was hot, and I'm glad I had that experience. My wife won't entertain the idea of me being there, so I've never seen her do the deed, and it's hot in a whole different way. I know that she's giving herself to him in a way she could not if she had her husband there as an audience and distraction. He also will not perform in the same way. I find it hot knowing that she's really fucking him, in a very intimate way.

The intensity of arousal starts from the time I watch her begin readying herself for her date, fussing over what to wear, packing things in a bag to take with. It escalates as she walks out the door and drives away. As the hours tick by, my thoughts drift from "she's going to fuck him" to "by this time she has probably (and later certainly) begun fucking him. Hours and hours of intense pleasure, yearning for her return.

Then another flavor of intense excitement as I see her walk in the door. That look on her face. The carefully coiffed hair with which she departed now slightly disheveled, The smell and taste of sex on her body, the cum accumulated in her panties when she peels them off.

She reveals the details in small increments over the days or even weeks to follow, each time generating a flood of adrenaline and excitement, leading to incredible sex between us later. We may drive past the hotel where they fucked, and she'll point it out. Or we may be out shopping, and out of the blue, she'll be reminded of something, and she'll whisper or quietly tell me some hot detail.

Even though I want to be there and to see and experience it first hand, I know that it would change the experience in a way that I think would take away some of the intensity I enjoy, and may even alter the way I see her. There is something to be said for the mystery. We want to see women naked, but if they all walked around naked all the time it wouldn't be the same. So I have to say, I'm glad my wife won't permit it. I think it's better this way. YMMV

We’ll said. It’s like waiting to open a Christmas gift. The wait and delayed gratification is half the fun.

 

[bellaazz]

Ive done both a mmf threesome with my wife and her bull and just watch them. It is whatever she prefers but if you ask me, I would rather just sit back and watch them fuck

 

[Lynnandhubby]

I enjoy both watching Lynn getting fucked and her playing alone and hearing about it later. I also love it when she surprises me with creampie when I didn't even know she was going out to get laid (and the times when she wasn't planning to get fucked but made the most of an opportunity when it presented itself).
James

 

[Jon Day]

I'm just a wannabe hotwife, but I've talked to a lot of guys that are in the same boat. I was surprised at how many guys aren't really interested in a MFM threesome with their wife. I would have thought that they would want to be in on the action. But many guys would rather just watch and take it all in. And there's another category of husbands that don't want to be there at all, but just want to hear about the details, later.

Which category to you think best suits you? And keep in mind, I'm not asking you what your wife wants, I'm curious what YOU want.

I don't want to be there. If she wanted I would be in a different room but I want her to be able to go out with friends etc and be able to enjoy herself completely. She knows she has free reign to do whatever she wants with anyone else at any time. Her best friend also knows this is what I want. She hasn't done anything and told me about it yet but she may have done it and not told me which I really don't mind.

 

[Candaulist]

I want to be there! Watching at the beginning and participate later...

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

At this point, I don’t think it will ever happen. But hypothetically, yes, I’d want to be there.

 

[franklyn]

I want to be there! Watching at the beginning and participate later...

Agree

 

[wandawantsta]

My husband must be there. That's what makes it hot for us both. He rarely participates. I perform oral. We wait for guy to leave. We both find it extremely erotic. Then we fuck.

 

[SmallHubbyTexas]

Yes I am there, watching my wife get a good fuck, my cock cry for joy in its cage as she cums on another mans cock.