I want to be there so I can get all the details and know all the details! I won't know completely how it feels I guess, but you can imagine. I like to just watch, but it's hard to wait for my turn. I'm not really a sub so it's about giving her more than she's usually settled for. I enjoy my and think that's what the women's body was designed for. If she is able to completely share the details of what went on with the guy or girl though, I could let her have fun alone. My wife gets so into the "fucking" moment that she forgets details and can't tell what was going on at the time. That would be leaving me out of the circle so to say and I'd feel cheated!