Has the lifestyle made your wife sexier?

You'd think it would be just the opposite after your wife has good sex with her BF, but we found that my wife was at her horniest in the first days after being laid. Or maybe when she saw how horny I was in the next days she remained horny. Then it tapered off until her next overnight with him. Before we really got into her enjoying another man, we both thought she wouldn't want to have sex with me until the last sex with her BF wore off a bit, but it didn't always work that way. I thought maybe she didn't have an orgasm with him and was just still horny, but that wasn't the case as she says she almost always had orgasm with him.
My wife is horny as hell for days after our friend has been with us. When he's with us it's a fun, exciting but relaxing night, we each do her twice then they go one more befor he leaves. Then we cuddle and fuck after. Next morning we have sex, that night we have sex. Repeate until it tapers off. We have him join us again and it starts all over. 2 or 3 times a month.
 
My wife is horny as hell for days after our friend has been with us. When he's with us it's a fun, exciting but relaxing night, we each do her twice then they go one more befor he leaves. Then we cuddle and fuck after. Next morning we have sex, that night we have sex. Repeate until it tapers off. We have him join us again and it starts all over. 2 or 3 times a month.
Exactly how it goes. Nicely stated. The next morning sex is off the charts hot. I love it, because that's when I have my best wood.
 
Definitely has made her sexier! She feels sexier, dresses sexier and acts so much sluttier! I tell her all the time how sexy she looks with another man's cock in her mouth and she loves it.
 
Without a doubt. She is more confident and outgoing, sets her sites on a guy and usually has him in bed within an hour or two. Dresses sexier, not slutty. Skirts with garters and hose and heels, revealing tops as well as taking time to do her nails and hair and makeup. When she enters a room you know she is there, she oozes an aire about her. And the sex is indescribable, she's a woman with doubled the libido, willing to try new things and bringing with her experience. She usually goes until her partner can't produce anymore and I'm brought in to clean and reclaiming her usually leading to one or two more orgasms for her.
 
I started this lifestyle with my husband when I was in my late 30s. I wouldn’t say it has made me sexier but it certainly unleashed the slutty self in me. In fact I even surprised myself when I would, while being watched by my husband, sucked other guys’ cocks without inhibition, kissing the guys passionately and noisily, spreading my legs invitingly and riding the cocks as my cum flowed down their balls.
i love it to watch&controlled&used and even humiliated etc by my wife and i ,ll do it for other women also when they want someone like me,my wish is to life in a female led society
 
It’s hard to measure the effect on my wife since she took her first lover, which is now just over a year ago. She has now had three other lovers in total, so not exactly prolific but these are not one-off affairs and she has had sex with each of these men several times. She wants more too.

It’s all subjective, but I am certain she behaves differently now and this is I believe due to her new found self confidence. She has done things with these men that she has never done before. Therefore, I feel her more adventurous side has been unlocked.

Also, I see her differently now. She is sexier in my eyes. I know that she is no longer the innocent, respectable teacher and ...... but a more sexually experienced, liberated woman. This - my perception of her - is probably the biggest change of all.

I now fully appreciate just how sexy she is and I realise how much I am aroused by the thought that other men want to fuck her, how many have cum whilst thinking about her. I look at her and wonder how many men will actually get to part her legs and enjoy the sexual pleasure that her body was simply made for, before pumping their seed into her.
 
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Interested to hear how sharing your wives has made her sexier to husbands, but also to herself. Has it made her feel and behave more sexily.

My wife had a professional past as a Filipina in Hong Kong and Manila. So she is no stranger to sex with many men. However having the freedom to choose who she wants to fuck, without thinking about money has released a deeper lust. And she enjoys keeping a handful as regulars. She says this has allowed her to look forward to each guy as a bf more than a customer and this is a different feeling, an indulgence for the sex, not tainted by money. However she remains an outwardly shy mature woman.

My view of her has definitely changed. I see her now as far more sexual. I know she looks forward to each night away. I know there are specific aspects of each guy's technique, each cock that she looks forward to enjoying. I know she gets wet as she gets changed into his favourite clothes and underwear before I take her to him. I get turned on to know that she thinks about each guy sexually at any time of her day or night, that she often masturbates thinking of them fucking her. I even enjoy hearing her on the phone to them or watching her masturbate on cam for them.
Someone hear msgd to ask if my wife fantasizes about her bulls. The answer is yes absolutely. She admits to thinking about their cocks and fucking during the day sometimes. Hottest for me is she openly fantasizes when we have sex. She will often choose one and tell me about him, his cock, what she wants as if I am him. I can't explain how hot this is for me. I simply love her being a slut like that