Her preference for sex types, MFM FMF MF

[Phun Times 727]

So when your wife decides to play, and we are just noe exploting this. Does whe just want staright MF sex with a man, a threesome either FMF or MFM or does she like an occasional FF?
Our goal is MFM with 2 men and I watch. We may need to go through a couple steps to get there. I have been trying to work out the details and results have not been so great. But I am a straight man and never recruited a man for a sexual encounter. With this said we are thinking of having her give it a go and not limiting ourselves to a MFM with 2 other guys involved at least not at first.

We decided she can test the waters and see how things go and follow whatever feels right.

What do you guys seek out and are we on the right path?

 

[Little_devil]

You are on the right path! Just sharing it and talking about it, and I mean a lot, is the first step. It takes time to move from fantasy to real, and it is sometimes not what is expected. I wouldn't go for having two guys right at the get go. Start with you and another guy with your wife and see how it goes. You can always do more later. The best part is that you guys are exploring and sharing something together. It has to work for both of you. Not putting to many limits is the way to go, but, you do need to discuss and agree to some boundaries. It has to be fun for you both. Good luck.

As for our experience, we started as a swinger couple so we would have sex with other couples in the same room. We eventually found that MFM was a better fit for us and started to do that more than with other couples, but even up to just recently do have fun with other couples from time to time. I have just watched her with another man before but I am usually involved as well. She wants me to be a part of it. She has also been with other women but not nearly as often. We have talked about her with two other guys and me either just watching or participating but having had that situation as of yet.

 

[Phun Times 727]

You are on the right path! Just sharing it and talking about it, and I mean a lot, is the first step. It takes time to move from fantasy to real, and it is sometimes not what is expected. I wouldn't go for having two guys right at the get go. Start with you and another guy with your wife and see how it goes. You can always do more later. The best part is that you guys are exploring and sharing something together. It has to work for both of you. Not putting to many limits is the way to go, but, you do need to discuss and agree to some boundaries. It has to be fun for you both. Good luck.

As for our experience, we started as a swinger couple so we would have sex with other couples in the same room. We eventually found that MFM was a better fit for us and started to do that more than with other couples, but even up to just recently do have fun with other couples from time to time. I have just watched her with another man before but I am usually involved as well. She wants me to be a part of it. She has also been with other women but not nearly as often. We have talked about her with two other guys and me either just watching or participating but having had that situation as of yet.

That is awesome and thank you for the information. So I do have a question, you said it started as same room sex with other couples, so both of you switched off to other people? How did MFM fit better and did it start in the same room scenario? I am curious as we are so new to this and trying to make the right decisions. Personally, I have no desire at the moment to have sex with other women, mpw if we had the right couples in same room I guess that could change. I guess in my mind I have the sex goddess of my dreams, seriously. She is hot as hell, totally into me and is so into oral. But I hear what you are saying, maybe she needs to see me let down my guard a bit. I hadn't thought about that.

 

[crabsigncuck]

My slut wife likes MF, MMF MMMF. She fucks college bullls from the university where she works. Yesterday around 6p her phone rings she takes the call. I hear her telling the person on the phone that she will be there in about 30 min. Upon getting off the phone she gets on the floor and starts her pre fucking streatch routine. Soon after she left and I didnt hear from her until she got home around 2:30 in the am. And yes her sweet cunt was swollen and leaking cum. I love her!!

 

[Fredposer2017]

Hi Sean and Jennifer here. It's great news to hear that your wife is open to an MFM. Our suggestion is that if that's what you both want then jump into that. I was shared MFM, MMMF for a number of years before we briefly entered into a more traditional swinging lifestyle of swapping partners. We are back now to MMF, MMMF.

We think you'll both love it.

 

[Phun Times 727]

My slut wife likes MF, MMF MMMF. She fucks college bullls from the university where she works. Yesterday around 6p her phone rings she takes the call. I hear her telling the person on the phone that she will be there in about 30 min. Upon getting off the phone she gets on the floor and starts her pre fucking streatch routine. Soon after she left and I didnt hear from her until she got home around 2:30 in the am. And yes her sweet cunt was swollen and leaking cum. I love her!!View attachment 2023562

Pre fucking stretching? Damn! Is it to be linber/able to hit all positions or taking massive cocks?

 

[Phun Times 727]

Hi Sean and Jennifer here. It's great news to hear that your wife is open to an MFM. Our suggestion is that if that's what you both want then jump into that. I was shared MFM, MMMF for a number of years before we briefly entered into a more traditional swinging lifestyle of swapping partners. We are back now to MMF, MMMF.

We think you'll both love it.

MMMF, wow. Was hubby one of the M? I was thinking that once we do MFM with 2 others I may join in, she doesn't like anal but I guess one of us could het a handjob or boob fuck her. How long have you been doing this? Has sex been better/worse/same with your partner and what prompted return to swinging and then back to MFM etc? Who selects the men?

 

[Phun Times 727]

I am travelling this week a bit and she is thinking of going over to her girlfrinds house who just got divorced and spend a couple nights there, Wants to know if it would be OK with me. They have been talking about our situation and her friend is interested in doing either a little bit of FF with her as she (friend) has always wanted to try it and never has. She also may want to look at a MFM with a friend of her ex or the 2 girls go out and see what comes their way. I decided maybe she is best suited to decide who gets involved and how. We talked it over and maybe letting nature take its course without any real push is what is needed. I definitely have some goals I want to see but its not like we have a script where she is fetching a stick like a dog, there needs to be some natural progression to this. We don't know exactly what we want, although I have something I want to watch but that doesn't have to be all we explore as a couple.

 

[crabsigncuck]

Pre fucking stretching? Damn! Is it to be linber/able to hit all positions or taking massive cocks?

Knowing her most likely both.

 

[Fredposer2017]

MMMF, wow. Was hubby one of the M? I was thinking that once we do MFM with 2 others I may join in, she doesn't like anal but I guess one of us could het a handjob or boob fuck her. How long have you been doing this? Has sex been better/worse/same with your partner and what prompted return to swinging and then back to MFM etc? Who selects the men?

Hi Jennifer here. My husband Sean is always present and always participates. Sean has been sharing me before we were married. We have been together nearly 30 years. Sex is always better (for several weeks) after Sean has shared me. Simple reason is that we moved away from our swing partners and it always easier to find guys willing to fuck than couples. Sean usually does the initial search and selecting but I have the final say.

 

[Phun Times 727]

I am travelling this week a bit and she is thinking of going over to her girlfrinds house who just got divorced and spend a couple nights there, Wants to know if it would be OK with me. They have been talking about our situation and her friend is interested in doing either a little bit of FF with her as she (friend) has always wanted to try it and never has. She also may want to look at a MFM with a friend of her ex or the 2 girls go out and see what comes their way. I decided maybe she is best suited to decide who gets involved and how. We talked it over and maybe letting nature take its course without any real push is what is needed. I definitely have some goals I want to see but its not like we have a script where she is fetching a stick like a dog, there needs to be some natural progression to this. We don't know exactly what we want, although I have something I want to watch but that doesn't have to be all we explore as a couple.

Update on this, her friend video calls me while I am driving out of state and goes through the deal about my wife staying over with her a few days and things could get crazy am I really OK with it since she and my wife may sleep together and possibly go out and meet men as she just got divorced and is feeling crazy. I told her point blank I am good with the two women having sex together, in fact if my wife wants to have sex with 5 women while I am gone I am cool with it, or she could sleep with 5 men for that matter. As much as I would love to watch maybe she needs a bit of space to feel at ease and I respect that and they should do what they feel they want to do. She asked again if I am sure and since it was video I looked her in in the eye and said yes, please do.

 

[Little_devil]

That is awesome and thank you for the information. So I do have a question, you said it started as same room sex with other couples, so both of you switched off to other people? How did MFM fit better and did it start in the same room scenario? I am curious as we are so new to this and trying to make the right decisions. Personally, I have no desire at the moment to have sex with other women, mpw if we had the right couples in same room I guess that could change. I guess in my mind I have the sex goddess of my dreams, seriously. She is hot as hell, totally into me and is so into oral. But I hear what you are saying, maybe she needs to see me let down my guard a bit. I hadn't thought about that.

It is what you want it to be. There is nothing wrong with wanting to just watch her. There are all kinds out there. A little patience and research and you can certainly find what you are looking for.

To answer your question, when we started, we thought we wanted to do the traditional swinger thing and just swap partners. There were times when we switched on and off but mostly it was her and the other guy and me and the other girl. We may have been in the same bed together but typically didn't do a lot of switching back and forth. There were times when the other girl was bi and the girls would also play with each other. My wife is bi also.

The very first couple we hooked up with I found myself wanting to watch my wife and the other guy way more than I was interested in the other lady. I had to be aware of paying attention to her so that she would also enjoy the experience but found myself frequently distracted by what was going on with my wife. I found this was the case most of the times we hooked up with other couples.

As we became more experienced we became a little more selective with choosing couples. As we did, it started to become more difficult to find a four way connection. There were a number of times where I was into the girl but my wife wasn't into the guy, or vice versa. Or maybe one of the other couple wasn't into one of us. It just became a little more work finding the right couple. Or sometimes having 4 people involved made scheduling a little more difficult with most having kids or jobs. We found with couples synching up schedules was more of a challenge.

After a stretch where we weren't very lucky with couples, we had a single guy reach out to us on one of the swinger websites we used. Single guys reached out often but we just ignored them. This time, it sparked her interest so we began to communicate with him. A short while later we were meeting for dinner and drinks which led to a hotel room and our first MFM. It was amazing. I was able to focus on my wife and seeing her be pleasured and give pleasure was exhilarating. She also enjoyed performing for me. We ended up meeting this same guy regularly for about 6 months before deciding on trying with another single guy. We found it much easier, less messy, and, as it turns out, more fun for us both.

We still occasionally would meet couples but our preferred arrangement is with a single guy. Oh, and we have always been same room. She feels safer with me in the room and doesn't think she could relax enough to enjoy it if I wasn't there. For me, I am a visual person so I like to see with my own eyes.

I hope that answered your question. Feel free to ask me anything. I love sharing the stuff. You can DM if you would like.

 

[Phun Times 727]

It is what you want it to be. There is nothing wrong with wanting to just watch her. There are all kinds out there. A little patience and research and you can certainly find what you are looking for.

To answer your question, when we started, we thought we wanted to do the traditional swinger thing and just swap partners. There were times when we switched on and off but mostly it was her and the other guy and me and the other girl. We may have been in the same bed together but typically didn't do a lot of switching back and forth. There were times when the other girl was bi and the girls would also play with each other. My wife is bi also.

The very first couple we hooked up with I found myself wanting to watch my wife and the other guy way more than I was interested in the other lady. I had to be aware of paying attention to her so that she would also enjoy the experience but found myself frequently distracted by what was going on with my wife. I found this was the case most of the times we hooked up with other couples.

As we became more experienced we became a little more selective with choosing couples. As we did, it started to become more difficult to find a four way connection. There were a number of times where I was into the girl but my wife wasn't into the guy, or vice versa. Or maybe one of the other couple wasn't into one of us. It just became a little more work finding the right couple. Or sometimes having 4 people involved made scheduling a little more difficult with most having kids or jobs. We found with couples synching up schedules was more of a challenge.

After a stretch where we weren't very lucky with couples, we had a single guy reach out to us on one of the swinger websites we used. Single guys reached out often but we just ignored them. This time, it sparked her interest so we began to communicate with him. A short while later we were meeting for dinner and drinks which led to a hotel room and our first MFM. It was amazing. I was able to focus on my wife and seeing her be pleasured and give pleasure was exhilarating. She also enjoyed performing for me. We ended up meeting this same guy regularly for about 6 months before deciding on trying with another single guy. We found it much easier, less messy, and, as it turns out, more fun for us both.

We still occasionally would meet couples but our preferred arrangement is with a single guy. Oh, and we have always been same room. She feels safer with me in the room and doesn't think she could relax enough to enjoy it if I wasn't there. For me, I am a visual person so I like to see with my own eyes.

I hope that answered your question. Feel free to ask me anything. I love sharing the stuff. You can DM if you would like.

So this is exactly the type of info I was hoping for. I could totally see it being hard to get 4 people to be into rach other and to coordinate schedules. I am totally into my wife and likely would be hard to get into another woman unless she was equally as hot, then maybe. But also being visual I often watch porn we made as I am that into her, I like seeing her really get into sex, I love the sounds she makes and expression on her face and the way she quivers before she orgasms then shakes uncontrollably while she orgasms multiple times. I am a lucky guy I know and we have hot sex. I feel myself wanting to watch her. I like the idea of a MFM. Initially I thought two strangers/one time thing/never meet again and I watch. The more we explore this it seems maybe we could have a person we enjoy being around join us and I participate. I'm sure I could watch them at times and that would meet my needs. Nothing is set in stone, there is nothing to say we don't meet a guy we like and have regular meetings with him and at some point tell him just for a special occasion thing another guy would join if he was OK with it. Sex varies, sometimes we go straight missionary, sometimes we do leather or sexy outfits or only mutual mastrubation or only oral. We always mix things up in our own sex life so it stands to reason we would likely vary things if someone else was joining us. We are kinda of exploring a couple routes at the moment and seeing what develops.
This week is a big week as I am travelling and she decided to stay at her wild, newly divorced girlfriends house for a few days with my blessing to look at options. I know it sounds odd but its her who is going to have another partner. I am straight as an arrow and he would need to be as so really its someone making use of a different part of her body that is vacant during our sex, it isn't me having a partner but rather her having a second partner so she needs the comfort that only she can develop,
Thank you again for the advice, it really helps someone at this cross roads point.

 

[Phun Times 727]

I am travelling this week while the wife and her friend go bonkers. I am sleeping last night and get a text from her friend, took your wife's phone for a couple of days. No need to worry. We met a guy and asked him back to watch the two of us fool around, half thinking he may join. Answer your phone when it rings.

Its nearly 1AM when this happens so I just sat up and puts lights on. A half hour goes by and I get a call and nobidy is there but I hear sounds in the background, shuffling and what sounds like somebody using mouthwash or clearing their throat. It goes on for a good 10 minutes and I hear what I think are moans and also voices. I recognize my wife's moan. She is doing something sexual. I don't know if she is doing it for me, with someone else, with her friend. No idea. Phone moves closer to the sound source at some point and I her gurgling and choking and moans. I am starting to try to imagine what it atually is, but the sounds are really different. At some point the call hangs up and I am layig there wide awake wondering what the hell.

About an hour or more later I get another text from her friend. All is good. Your wife had a bit of difficulty getting our new friends cock all the way in her mouth and nearly dislocated her jaw. Do not try to call, ringer will be off. If you are good I may send you a pic in the morning. Sleep tight.

So it is morning now. No pic, no call, can't reach either of them. I know they are OK and I just need to relax. No, I did not go back to sleep.

 

[Little_devil]

So this is exactly the type of info I was hoping for. I could totally see it being hard to get 4 people to be into rach other and to coordinate schedules. I am totally into my wife and likely would be hard to get into another woman unless she was equally as hot, then maybe. But also being visual I often watch porn we made as I am that into her, I like seeing her really get into sex, I love the sounds she makes and expression on her face and the way she quivers before she orgasms then shakes uncontrollably while she orgasms multiple times. I am a lucky guy I know and we have hot sex. I feel myself wanting to watch her. I like the idea of a MFM. Initially I thought two strangers/one time thing/never meet again and I watch. The more we explore this it seems maybe we could have a person we enjoy being around join us and I participate. I'm sure I could watch them at times and that would meet my needs. Nothing is set in stone, there is nothing to say we don't meet a guy we like and have regular meetings with him and at some point tell him just for a special occasion thing another guy would join if he was OK with it. Sex varies, sometimes we go straight missionary, sometimes we do leather or sexy outfits or only mutual mastrubation or only oral. We always mix things up in our own sex life so it stands to reason we would likely vary things if someone else was joining us. We are kinda of exploring a couple routes at the moment and seeing what develops.
This week is a big week as I am travelling and she decided to stay at her wild, newly divorced girlfriends house for a few days with my blessing to look at options. I know it sounds odd but its her who is going to have another partner. I am straight as an arrow and he would need to be as so really its someone making use of a different part of her body that is vacant during our sex, it isn't me having a partner but rather her having a second partner so she needs the comfort that only she can develop,
Thank you again for the advice, it really helps someone at this cross roads point.

It sounds like you know what you want and if she is on board, no reason not to pursue it. I still recommend going slow. The emotions hit everyone differently and sometimes unexpectedly. Yes, be prepared to go with the flow because you may find something turns you, or her, on more than expected. The most important thing is communication between you and your wife.

We thought strangers would be better at first but found there was something nice about familiarity and comfort of someone you know at least a little. While we aren't opposed to strangers and have/will still hook up with a stranger, we prefer finding someone we can developed at least a minimal friendship wife. We do keep limits on it thought. We are cautious of getting to close. We did once move on from a guy where things were getting too close.

 

[Phun Times 727]

So here we are in the afternnon and no contact so I called her friend and no answer, I text her and got scolded for doing so. She text back that she will dictate when contact is made and I will now have to choose between the story of what happened or a pic. I assume my wife will divulge the story to me when I get back so pic seems better bet. She replies back that they are OK and she is monitoring my wife's phone in case of major emergency but otherwise she will not have the phone hence only pics are from her friend, They dropped the new friend off and were going to get cleaned up and head to a conference together (friend is in medical field). She said I needed to have ringer on tonight and she will make contact.

But no pic.
20 minutes later I get the pic with caption, your lovely little bride might have a sore throat today. Damn

 

[Little_devil]

I am travelling this week while the wife and her friend go bonkers. I am sleeping last night and get a text from her friend, took your wife's phone for a couple of days. No need to worry. We met a guy and asked him back to watch the two of us fool around, half thinking he may join. Answer your phone when it rings.

Its nearly 1AM when this happens so I just sat up and puts lights on. A half hour goes by and I get a call and nobidy is there but I hear sounds in the background, shuffling and what sounds like somebody using mouthwash or clearing their throat. It goes on for a good 10 minutes and I hear what I think are moans and also voices. I recognize my wife's moan. She is doing something sexual. I don't know if she is doing it for me, with someone else, with her friend. No idea. Phone moves closer to the sound source at some point and I her gurgling and choking and moans. I am starting to try to imagine what it atually is, but the sounds are really different. At some point the call hangs up and I am layig there wide awake wondering what the hell.

About an hour or more later I get another text from her friend. All is good. Your wife had a bit of difficulty getting our new friends cock all the way in her mouth and nearly dislocated her jaw. Do not try to call, ringer will be off. If you are good I may send you a pic in the morning. Sleep tight.

So it is morning now. No pic, no call, can't reach either of them. I know they are OK and I just need to relax. No, I did not go back to sleep.

I didn't see this until I replied to your last post. Sounds exciting although I was under the impression you wanted to be there to watch. Is this something you enjoyed? You said she was looking at options. I took that to mean that she was attempting to meet someone for when you were back. There are lots of folks who enjoy this and that is fine. I am just not one of them. We only play together. But that is us. You will find your own path. Just make sure it's enjoyable and meets the needs of you both.

 

[Phun Times 727]

I didn't see this until I replied to your last post. Sounds exciting although I was under the impression you wanted to be there to watch. Is this something you enjoyed? You said she was looking at options. I took that to mean that she was attempting to meet someone for when you were back. There are lots of folks who enjoy this and that is fine. I am just not one of them. We only play together. But that is us. You will find your own path. Just make sure it's enjoyable and meets the needs of you both.

Well....she is with her psycho friend til the weekend and I did tell them no limits, her friend then directly addressed this to confirm and trying to be easy going of course I said yeah go crazy thinking they may go drinking and flirt a bit. I mut admit I am turned on seeing her mouth around another mans penis and a pretty good sized one at that. So I have a picture and I had the phone call where I could hear what was happening. Problem is the call is gone, just in my memory but I am thinking back to the gurgle sounds and it looks to me like maybe he is forcing things a bit. I normally take things easy and let he go as deep as she wants but based on the pic that might be double my girth and pretty long too since she is only part way down on it it. She is a big girl and I guess she would back out of anything she didn't want to do. Really hoping there is a video of this.

 

[Phun Times 727]

Her friend just text me, all is good, picked up Five Guy's and heading back to the AirBNB, keep ypour ringer on.

I was a bit confused, maybe they were drinking and stopped for some greasey burgers.

A few minutes later I get a clarification, talk to text typed Five Guy's, although that sounds good we are bringing five really cool men home with us. Five is not divisible by 2 so we will have to flip on who gets a third.

Keep you phone charged.

 

[proudcuckoldFL]

MFM for sure........