I'm in awe myself...
I had a friend in high school that was as big as that, but I don't know anyone else in R/L that big...
How do husbands "measure up"?
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I'm in awe myself...
I had a friend in high school that was as big as that, but I don't know anyone else in R/L that big...
I met this guy at a sex party and let me tell you, women go crazy when he whippes it out.
Some guys are hung and some guys have it trailing on the ground behind them...lol
Do I measure up? Not really sure, but would say NO.
I always considered myself small, especially since I watched porn. Then we went to a sex club. After looking at dozens of normal guys, guess what, I was average.
What is average, back then I was about 6", about 20 years ago. Now through lack of use I have atrophied to about 4 1/2". 5" on rare occasions.
Wife always said I was enough. At times she would say, "wow you're so big today". I think it was total bull to help stroke my ego. So what did she compare me to. Girls with little experience have no real point of comparison, do they. But then there are those who do, mine had sex with about 500 guys in her earlier years, so she does have a great amount of comparison points.
She absolutely refuses to talk about any details of her past. I/we are missing out on all those wonderful experiences she can relive and we can enjoy 'together'.
She's not a size queen, she says long dicks hurt and she loves fat dicks. We've never been able to successfully doggy, I'm just not long enough.
She needs a man sized dick, something that can satisfy her. She deserves to be satisfied, something I no longer do. She refuses to have another man. She did agree to a 3-some, we looked at 600+ photos on several sites. She rejected each and every one. Too big, too small, too fat, too thin.
I always considered myself small, especially since I watched porn. Then we went to a sex club. After looking at dozens of normal guys, guess what, I was average.
What is average, back then I was about 6", about 20 years ago. Now through lack of use I have atrophied to about 4 1/2". 5" on rare occasions.
Wife always said I was enough. At times she would say, "wow you're so big today". I think it was total bull to help stroke my ego. So what did she compare me to. Girls with little experience have no real point of comparison, do they. But then there are those who do, mine had sex with about 500 guys in her earlier years, so she does have a great amount of comparison points.
She absolutely refuses to talk about any details of her past. I/we are missing out on all those wonderful experiences she can relive and we can enjoy 'together'.
She's not a size queen, she says long dicks hurt and she loves fat dicks. We've never been able to successfully doggy, I'm just not long enough.
She needs a man sized dick, something that can satisfy her. She deserves to be satisfied, something I no longer do. She refuses to have another man. She did agree to a 3-some, we looked at 600+ photos on several sites. She rejected each and every one. Too big, too small, too fat, too thin.
I'm beginning to think it's never going to happen on this end either.
Reluctantly I agree, the slow roll, I think to shut me being able to say 'I looking aren't I - so stop bitching'.
Well, ts, if that is your honest, heartfelt feeling, it is better to stop dwelling on the fantasy then.
Better to let it go then. She won't do it if there's no interest in it. You're just torturing yourself.
IT's hard to gauge...
We need to have a frank talk, I think, one where I put it all on the line and express what I like, but be prepared to accept what she would be interested in.
Do what you must. Seems you're causing yourself mental distress over what should be a consensual, shared and enjoyable scenario.
I would think it to be fun, as well, but based on the hard line she drew in the sand this morning...not so much. I think this is going to be left as fantasy only at this point.
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TSoul at one point my wife kind of shut me down but not completely. I backed off and didn't speak of it or talk to her about it for almost a year if not a little over a year. I won't lie and say I didn't think about it or fantasize about on occasions during that time. I pretty much gave up hope that it wouldn't happen but my wife had a medical issue and after we got her well she over conversation referred to my desire past desire.
That breached the subject again and I talked about it that I had put that idea away but told her I would be lying if I didn't still have those desire feelings for her from time to time but that it was my problem and I was ok with it. At that point she said that after her medical scare she figured she better start living and quit putting things off that she wants try.
Obviously my mouth dropped but played it cool and didn't act overly excited with a new opportunity to reopen those discussions. Basically several months latter it finally happened.
You never have to let go of your dreams or desires but maybe figure out a way to manage them in proper times and ways. If I had let go neither my wife or I would be enjoying the lifestyle the way we are today. It maybe tomorrow 10 years or never that she decides to take you up on your offer of opportunity but worse case scenario you have someone special who at least let's you express yourself sexually. Not bad not bad at all!
That breached the subject again and I talked about it that I had put that idea away but told her I would be lying if I didn't still have those desire feelings for her from time to time but that it was my problem and I was ok with it. At that point she said that after her medical scare she figured she better start living and quit putting things off that she wants try.
Obviously my mouth dropped but played it cool and didn't act overly excited with a new opportunity to reopen those discussions. Basically several months latter it finally happened.
You never have to let go of your dreams or desires but maybe figure out a way to manage them in proper times and ways. If I had let go neither my wife or I would be enjoying the lifestyle the way we are today. It maybe tomorrow 10 years or never that she decides to take you up on your offer of opportunity but worse case scenario you have someone special who at least let's you express yourself sexually. Not bad not bad at all!
I'm 6 inches exactly when fully aroused and not tired, lol, but my wife is having sex with her ex-boyfriend and he's close to 8 inches, and she always tells me how much better his cock feels. I can also tell by all her moaning and dirty talk!
We want our wives fucking guys who are better than we are. Why would I as my wife to step down in pleasure. I'm almost 9" but all the guys that fuck my wife are bigger and better than I am. The way I love it.
I definitely think size had to do with my wife becoming a hotwife. I've mentioned im very small, and the fact that she previously had enjoyed other men bigger than myself, plus my willingness to have her enjoy bigger men, showed her a clear path to what we live now
That's what it's all about. We get pleasure from watching but it's important that the wives get uptimum pleasure.
So my wife still loves sex with me, but she does enjoy being honest about her preference for her ex-boyfriend's much bigger cock. She even went out and got a dildo exactly his size, and there have been times when I want to have sex with her, but she tells me to get the big dildo out because she's needing more. It's humilating but such a turn on too 
Any guys get anything similar from your wife?
Any guys get anything similar from your wife?Sometimes mine will tell me she wants my to gue or my fingers instead, and usually she loves it as she knows it embarrasses me but makes me so much harderSo my wife still loves sex with me, but she does enjoy being honest about her preference for her ex-boyfriend's much bigger cock. She even went out and got a dildo exactly his size, and there have been times when I want to have sex with her, but she tells me to get the big dildo out because she's needing more. It's humilating but such a turn on too
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