hotwifeluvr
Male
I guess I would have to count my wife and I among the first group. For us, it is not a "lifestyle". It's simply not a boundary in our marriage. It's something she does sometimes, and which thrills me.
Sometimes, she has "fallen in love" unexpectedly. She has had some fast-moving affairs, but she did not like how they left her feeling afterward. So now, she takes things very slowly. She does not go out looking, not aggressively in any case. She is simply flirtatious and beautiful, and guys are attracted to her. They must be bold enough to pursue her though, and they must be, or become, comfortable with her being married. Although she does not, and will not, tell them that I am aware of her flirtations or wherever it might lead. If the guy is not enthusiastic enough to pursue her, fine! They can be friends or whatever.
Sometimes, she has "fallen in love" unexpectedly. She has had some fast-moving affairs, but she did not like how they left her feeling afterward. So now, she takes things very slowly. She does not go out looking, not aggressively in any case. She is simply flirtatious and beautiful, and guys are attracted to her. They must be bold enough to pursue her though, and they must be, or become, comfortable with her being married. Although she does not, and will not, tell them that I am aware of her flirtations or wherever it might lead. If the guy is not enthusiastic enough to pursue her, fine! They can be friends or whatever.