speaking only from my own experiences...when i began sharing my wife...being a cuckold was the only thing that crossed my mind...wasnt until one of the doms she was seeing instructed me to wear my wifes panties that everything seemed to head that direction. he got off feminizing me...first with her panties...then to other pieces of her clothing...to eventually having me purchase panties, lingerie and etc of my own to always be worn whenever we were all together