How to convince my wife?

[layla]

Hello, first time posting here. Me (M25) and my wife (F32) are together for a year now and I really would love to share her with a another Male, but I’m afraid of telling her, even though I tried the questionnaire and she is no way wants to try threesomes etc.. I don’t want to ruin the relationship but I really can’t get over this. I’m trying to come up with similar subject and she dosent like it. I propose to her to start an only fans for fun and she was positive with it. Kinda confused 😅
She also dosent mind of being topless at the beach.
Please write me advise.. much appreciated

 

[shydesiwife]

Try make her lil tipsy and watch porn together. Will help to open up some conversation.

 

[layla]

Try make her lil tipsy and watch porn together. Will help to open up some conversation.

She dosent want to watch porn because she admits it’s wrong to get turned on by other guys dicks..

 

[CiaraNightshade]

She dosent want to watch porn because she admits it’s wrong to get turned on by other guys dicks..

So what about just listen to it?

 

[layla]

What do you mean ?

 

[layla]

So what about just listen to it?

will try and see, but the point she is very playful but only with me. I mention to her for example that I heard a couple doing threesomes to save their marriage and her reaction was “not a topic to discuss” she doesn't like this idea I mean.

 

[CiaraNightshade]

will try and see, but the point she is very playful but only with me. I mention to her for example that I heard a couple doing threesomes to save their marriage and her reaction was “not a topic to discuss” she doesn't like this idea I mean.

You may need to back up on it, she isn’t ready, did you say you watch BBC porn together?

 

[layla]

You may need to back up on it, she isn’t ready, did you say you watch BBC porn together?

She is not into porn..

 

[layla]

You may need to back up on it, she isn’t ready, did you say you watch BBC porn together

I was telling her that I write in a forum about sex, just to get advised about your orgasm struggles and stuff, and as I was telling her that many people are helping and stuff she was telling me put me to this forum to participate as well. It turned me on by the idea that somebody might message her or for her to see some naked guys.. she dosent know about this forum.. for their purposes in general ?

will try and see, but the point she is very playful but only with me. I mention to her for example that I heard a couple doing threesomes to save their marriage and her reaction was “not a topic to discuss” she doesn't like this idea I mean.

Yesterday I was telling her that I write in a forum about sex, just to get advised about your orgasm struggles and stuff, (I was nervous of her reaction!) and as I was telling her that many people are helping and stuff she was telling me put me to this forum to participate as well. It turned me on by the idea that somebody might message her or for her to see some naked guys.. she dosent know about this forum..she thought its a forum from Facebook or something, because I’m scared telling her.
What do you think as a Woman?

 

[Goodhusband]

Hello, first time posting here. Me (M25) and my wife (F32) are together for a year now and I really would love to share her with a another Male, but I’m afraid of telling her, even though I tried the questionnaire and she is no way wants to try threesomes etc.. I don’t want to ruin the relationship but I really can’t get over this. I’m trying to come up with similar subject and she dosent like it. I propose to her to start an only fans for fun and she was positive with it. Kinda confused 😅
She also dosent mind of being topless at the beach.
Please write me advise.. much appreciated

Just tell her about your fantasies, being that, one of them. Assure her that you love her no matter what. Some women will think that if you are pushing her to another guys harms it means you no longer love her. Show her some cuck porn and make her understand how much it turns you on

 

[thebeginner]

She dosent want to watch porn because she admits it’s wrong to get turned on by other guys dicks..

Whoa! Sounds like she has some deep-rooted sex-negative programming. I think you need to start with your statement above. Why does she think that? If she gets turned on by your dick, why shouldn't she get turned on by other guy's dicks? What's wrong with getting turned on?

I'd ask her why she thinks that? Where does that belief come from? Who gave her that belief? And why is it good to think that way?

 

[sandy-tommy]

Whoa! Sounds like she has some deep-rooted sex-negative programming. I think you need to start with your statement above. Why does she think that? If she gets turned on by your dick, why shouldn't she get turned on by other guy's dicks? What's wrong with getting turned on?

I'd ask her why she thinks that? Where does that belief come from? Who gave her that belief? And why is it good to think that way?

Why is it so hard for you all to accept her thinking about it?
I cannot understand why everyone tries to convince her to change her mind!
Accept it or leave her if you don‘t accept, them she‘s too honest and faithful for you.
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[meverlo]

Hello, first time posting here. Me (M25) and my wife (F32) are together for a year now and I really would love to share her with a another Male, but I’m afraid of telling her, even though I tried the questionnaire and she is no way wants to try threesomes etc.. I don’t want to ruin the relationship but I really can’t get over this. I’m trying to come up with similar subject and she dosent like it. I propose to her to start an only fans for fun and she was positive with it. Kinda confused 😅
She also dosent mind of being topless at the beach.
Please write me advise.. much appreciated

Slowly. Talk about YOUR love. Slowly. Talk about HER pleasure. Slowly. Talk about expanded intimacy. Slowly, keep taking to her. Never push, just whisper a possibility of desires: Slowly. It is BOTH of you crafting a key you'll both slide into the next door of experience and acceptance: HER pleasure and comfort are assurances of a first time becoming a second... Rome was not built in a day... Good luck!

 

[Little Boo]

Hello, first time posting here. Me (M25) and my wife (F32) are together for a year now and I really would love to share her with a another Male, but I’m afraid of telling her, even though I tried the questionnaire and she is no way wants to try threesomes etc.. I don’t want to ruin the relationship but I really can’t get over this. I’m trying to come up with similar subject and she dosent like it. I propose to her to start an only fans for fun and she was positive with it. Kinda confused 😅

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[GuiltyMethod2]

We’re actually at Bahamar and my wife actually wants to go flirt at the bar. I told her we can bring back up to the room a nice big black cock for her to play with. She seems wet and into it so let’s see how far I can take her tonight.