We have been married for 26 years and the sex is boring, liked we haven’t a sex about 4-5 months, (Dec. 2025). Any advice would help! I think she would be okay with the idea with another man, right.?.
How to I convince my wife to be with another man?
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We had a male friend who had gone thru a divorce come over to cook us dinner. After dinner and drinks I said out loud that we can't send him home all horny. Honey you should give him a blowjob for the road. It worked. For a few years he would come over and eat and drink with us, then fuck her before he left. Then her and I would fuck like bunnies. Try it. it worked for us.
Maybe, I will. Do you got a friend going through a divorce on the east coast? 😂 No, I will try it out somebody we are friends with! Thank you
Mark90
Male
First of all, she has to agree. Don't expect her to tell you right away that she wants to be with another man. My wife wanted to but didn't have the courage to do it. It was a difficult undertaking, but in the end we managed it and it was beautiful.
53biker
Male
Don’t try to convince her if she’s a hard no already.
Convince her that you’re ok with it. Let her know you support and encourage her to explore her fantasies. Be patient and supportive. The rest is up to her.
Convince her that you’re ok with it. Let her know you support and encourage her to explore her fantasies. Be patient and supportive. The rest is up to her.
You have to make sure she WANTS sex AT ALL before introducing a huge wrinkle like sex with someone outside of your marriage.
Some women keep or even increase their sex drive after menopause, but many LOSE their sex drive. If you're married 26 years then my guess is she is premenopausal, or possibly even post.
Does she have a sex drive? Does she masturbate and get herself off regularly? Or is she just not interested at all.
Do you try to initiate sex? If so, what is her response?
Also, what if you introduce a bull to her, and then she only wants sex with HIM and not you?
I'm not trying to throw cold water on your fantasy, but think about the reality of it.
Hey SNJ_Dom,
Yes, you are correct, she is premenopausal, and this weekend we are going away to have a romantic weekend. We (I) will let you know if it is real or she is not feeling it. She said she would, but you are right. 100% she is or not at all!
Yes, you are correct, she is premenopausal, and this weekend we are going away to have a romantic weekend. We (I) will let you know if it is real or she is not feeling it. She said she would, but you are right. 100% she is or not at all!
Really? I saw that without her and considered it but thought it would have the opposite result because of how the movie plays out haha
I agree with SNJ_Dom...HRT (Hormone replacement Therapy) could be a real game changer for you both. My wife started on it and once they got the balance of estrogen and testosterone right, WOW! From no libido, period to horny constantly. Self care, weight loss through exercise helped as well. Many women have poor self images even when we see beautiful. Work on building up her self image. Compliment her frequently but sincerely. Women see through fake in a heartbeat. I adore my wife so its always been easy to tell her how beautiful she is or how hot she looked when we were going out. Now, she's seeing the same thing. Her friends are all saying how great she looks which feeds the cycle even more. A few of her friends have started on HRT. Its like its their secret that others in their group who aren't on it don't understand. Our sex life has gone through the roof with her doing things she never would've thought of doing six months ago. Whether it'll end up with her taking another man's cock someday I don't know but our life is so much better. Ask her if she's heard about hrt and start a conversation about her and what she wants and needs. Put any talk of bringing in other on the back burner for now. You might be surprised where you end up! Good Luck to both of you!
I talked with my wife and she is into it but she says it has got to be a surprise. I know who I want. Is it okay to ask him?
Heck yea ask him and tell him your wife needs some new excitement
imherManwantHER
Male
Seems like a really solid plan. I’ll giving it a go soon.
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