So has of the past couple of weeks the wife has been making comments like almost dropping little hints about her finding or needing another guy or even having one. All in gentral context. I know she talks about the subject at work with her female coworkers. Never really telling me completly all that says just little tid bits. Most of close co works have sort of the life style going on their lifes. She never closed the book on the subject when she stopped talking to her last guy. Yet when ever i ask if she wants to give another try i get oh youd like, i dont have time for extra or whatever. My gut saying she likes the experince on her terms and wants the extra on the side. How do i get her to admit it and roll with it.