Looking for advice on how to help my wife get over her inhibitions

Dress in a super sexy outfit and go out to dinner and have a few drinks after.
Go somewhere you usually don't go so nobody will know you.
If you see someone you both like start flirting with him and see where it goes.
It might take a few tries to find someone.
Thank you for the advice, I assume this has worked for you in the past?
love the pics you have very sexy body, you are also very ambitious / adventurous given the photos in public places. my wife and I wish we had as much confidence in to be as outgoing. I saw you nipple pics and they are amazing. the nipples with the rubber bands are wonderfully hot. I like the fact that you explained why the rubber bands. I will have to get my wife to try that.
 
We got into it by playing strip cards with a good friend. If no chemistry try someone else. That way slowly become naked, she can stop when she gets uncomfortable. Ech time she'll get more used to increased nudity, when naked next step is touching and progress to fucking but she must be comfortable with the bloke, so someone you know.
 
Looking for some advice, my wife of 30 yrs. has been teasing and leading me on for the Past 5 yrs. My wife was a virgin when we got married and I am the only person she has ever been with. I was not a virgin and had multiple partners prior to meeting my beautiful sexy wife. During our marriage she had question me repeatedly what it was like to be with other woman and expose her increasing curiosity. My wife is the love of my life and best friend, and I want to allow her to explore, experiment and experience things she feels she missed out on. About 10 years ago we started creating fantasies and acting them out with the use of toys and other methods. For the past number of years, she has fantasized about adding a third man into our bed room. Earlier this year she let me know that she was ready and excited to try. I joined a couple of sites for us to find a gentleman to help us fulfill her desire to experience another man. Ever time we make arrangements she gets all excited, she spends the time leading up to the encounter primping and acting like a school girl which tells me she is looking forward to the encounter and at the very last minute she would back out. I have considered extreme scenarios that would force her into an encounter but I do not want to ruin things for her or possible cause her to hate me for pushing her into something. I could really use some advice.
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Our case is the same as yours
We both were virgins when we got married. It's been two years since I shared my thoughts with her. Initially she could not digest it so easily but when she found out I genuinely enjoy the thought of her with others she too started getting into it. We are at a point where she has a boyfriend who is much younger than her & she loves sexting with him & she is the one to initiate the naughty chat/phone conversation with him & masturbates with an electric massager while talking to him. She is now willing to meet other couples to take it forward but still not sure if she will take a plunge. I will suggest you give her some time & space.
 
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Our case is the same as yours
We both were virgins when we got married. It's been two years since I shared my thoughts with her. Initially she could not digest it so easily but when she found out I genuinely enjoy the thought of her with others she too started getting into it. We are at a point where she has a boyfriend who is much younger than her & she loves sexting with him & she is the one to initiate the naughty chat/phone conversation with him & masturbates with an electric massager while talking to him. She is now willing to meet other couples to take it forward but still not sure if she will take a plunge. I will suggest you give her some time & space.
Thank you for you advice, we have since had more lengthy conversations and have uncovered barriers that I was unaware of but able to overcome. we have not yet taken the next step but things are heading in that direction.
 
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What were her issues?

She thought that I did not find her desirable, sexually enjoyable or attractive; that is why I wanted to share her with other men. I let her know that was the furthest thing from the truth. I found her to be my every desire and fantasy she encompassed all I have ever wanted or fantasized about in short she was my true porn star in every scenario. I wanted to give to her all the enjoyment and enhanced sexual experiences I could. Since we have been together for so long and I have been your only experience I wanted to give you more than I ever can.
 
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See if she'll let you post photos, nice comments build her confidence, increase flesh on show as you go. See where it leads, with any luck, nakedness and being a hotwife! Take your time.
 
Any update on this?
no updates to report, I didn't get in until extremely late last night so and I expect the same for tonight. I will have to wait to approach her on many subjects when we have time to talk, play and react. sometimes I can best gage her reactions by how her body reacts more than the words she says
 
no updates to report, I didn't get in until extremely late last night so and I expect the same for tonight. I will have to wait to approach her on many subjects when we have time to talk, play and react. sometimes I can best gage her reactions by how her body reacts more than the words she says
not a bad idea to just take your time.....
 
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Have known some situations in which wife's primary energy barrier was the thought of what might happen if she got pregnant. Good to let her know that you are aware that is a possibility even if small while on birth control ... and you will support her whatever happens.
 
Have known some situations in which wife's primary energy barrier was the thought of what might happen if she got pregnant. Good to let her know that you are aware that is a possibility even if small while on birth control ... and you will support her whatever happens.
Thank you for your insight, We have discussed that possibility and at our age; approaching the change of life, that is definitely an unwanted and truly unfortunate possible result, her feelings, we also do know that during this change in life the ability of being impregnated can also be higher so we are aware educated and communicative. she does know and is comfortable with the knowledge that I would definitely be with her and support her in any circumstance. She is my best friend and the love of my life. After 33 years of marriage I wouldn't know what to do without her.
 
She thought that I did not find her desirable, sexually enjoyable or attractive; that is why I wanted to share her with other men. I let her know that was the furthest thing from the truth. I found her to be my every desire and fantasy she encompassed all I have ever wanted or fantasized about in short she was my true porn star in every scenario. I wanted to give to her all the enjoyment and enhanced sexual experiences I could. Since we have been together for so long and I have been your only experience I wanted to give you more than I ever can.
My wife says exactly the same thing. And I feel just as you do! I adore everything about my wife! I just want to see her enjoy herself and have an amazing experience!
 
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I agree!
One of mines objections was that she had put on a few pounds, that she didn’t feel she was desirable. I just told her that men found mature women desirable , they liked a woman that had maturity, just ask any young guy , they all flip for older women. I guess, however you need to do it , with mine we used a meeting service, you need to get her to interact with another male. I set it up, we went to meet , it went very well, he fucked the daylights out of her. I remember she was so excited, talked about it all the way home, a 40 minutes drive. I also remember telling her , see honey , you still got it ! He is hot for you , can’t wait to get back it you, already setting up another meet ! She does need reassurance, first that you support it, second that she still has it , and third you’re gonna love her even more when she fucks another guy.
 
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One of mines objections was that she had put on a few pounds, that she didn’t feel she was desirable. I just told her that men found mature women desirable , they liked a woman that had maturity, just ask any young guy , they all flip for older women. I guess, however you need to do it , with mine we used a meeting service, you need to get her to interact with another male. I set it up, we went to meet , it went very well, he fucked the daylights out of her. I remember she was so excited, talked about it all the way home, a 40 minutes drive. I also remember telling her , see honey , you still got it ! He is hot for you , can’t wait to get back it you, already setting up another meet ! She does need reassurance, first that you support it, second that she still has it , and third you’re gonna love her even more when she fucks another guy.
You are absolutely correct! They need support and reassurance! Do you you participate in it ?
 
You are absolutely correct! They need support and reassurance! Do you you participate in it ?
Yes, they had visited on the phone , I set up a meet. We followed to the Black gentleman’s apartment. After about 30 minutes of small talk , he led her to the bedroom. I gave them a very short time alone, figuring it would be easier for them if I let them start without my presence. I am pretty sure she would have fucked herself silly if she’d been alone , but with my presence I had to add encouragement, even going so far as asking him to let me taste her juices as she was squirting and sucked his cock clean in front of her. At that point and after I told her to open up and let him know he was fucking her good , they went after it and got it twice , he came deep in her 2 times .I don’t know where one orgasm stopped and another started for her But he grunted two loads in her and they were substantial as I licked her out good . We carried on with him for about 2 years, he would overnight with us occasionally, all of us in the same bed . I sucked him often in front of her , never to completion , but one night when she went to the couch after him and I had been drinking and were snoring loudly , I took advantage of the situation and sucked him hard and he proceeded to enter me in the side saddle position then then moving a leg either side of me and gave me all 12” , fucked me very hard and banged my prostate until I leaked precum . We became good friends