Looking for advice on how to help my wife get over her inhibitions
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that is exactly how I feel, as I stated in my post she has never experienced another man. I believe that she would completely enjoy herself.
she believes that another man could never make her horney and if some how I made her horney and her fucked her she doesn't think she could cum and so on. the way she cumms with me multiple times every time we have sex; I think she wouldn't know what to do with the orgasms she would receive from another mans cock. I know she is afraid, shy, low self body image. but I see men stare at he she is an extremely sexy, gorgeous, beautiful women I know she is and other men think so. she is awesome as a lover and a women. she claims that he has never thought about another man or ever found other men attractive but I think she is just comfortable with everything being the way it is
maybe I want this to much for her and us; maybe its just not what she wants. I would love to she the look on her face as she takes a different cock in her for the first time or sucks a different cock. she is my porn star my every fantasy revolves around her getting fuck by another man or men in front of me; at one point making her water / air tight me being included in the mix.
I see there are more of us like this than I ever thought! We all feel the same way about our wives too!
Because that is the agreement my wife and I have, she has never lied to me or gave any reason for me not to trust her in the past 33 years of marriage. why would she start now? She is the one who asked for me to make sure I am their with her the whole time if and when we do this. I trust my wife and the agreements we make. If that is not the type of relationship you have then I feel sorry for you. I am not a cuckold in the common sense in our relationship. We do things together or not at all.
I have been trying to convince my wife for a few years now ..most she will do is roleplay fucking someone else
I am in the same situation, sounds like there is a lot of us experiencing the same challenges.
My wife lets me initiate some role play and she is “along for the ride” (pardon the pun). When she gets into it, she sure cums hard. But firmly believes anything beyond fantasy would damage her/us.
I always hope when we go on vacation somewhere, a place where we know no one else, something might be able to happen. She tends to let her guard down a bit more on such occasions.
We were on a Caribbean island a while back and one evening she put on a simple pullover dress, a pair of casual sandals, and nothing else. I had fun telling her men were checking out her areolas that were prominently on display. She laughed it off and said she didn’t notice anyone watching. We sat apart from other couples at the bar and I played with her pussy. It made for a hot evening. I was waiting for men to come up and ask her to dance.
I know with mine , after we got to the point where I had asked her to do it at first she said the same thing. She said she was scared it would mess up our marriage. Well I thought she was afraid that I would take it poorly, I didn’t consider that she was worried about her own feelings. I knew she had been a little trashy in her teen years. She was worried and I didn’t realize this, that she would go and fuck every dick she could get once got back out there. And that’s just what she did !
mopal
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We roleplayed for sone years as well, using toys and dirty talk. At some point during the roleplay I would ask her to beg me to find a strangers cock for her. She did. Later I would tell her that I was indeed searching and that a lot of guys wanted to fuck her. I described just some fictional men, but she liked it..
I eventually did post an ad on an adult dating site, found a guy with experience, positive reviews, good looks and yes, a very big cock. I met with him, to find out if there was chemestry and we talked about the situation..
I then texted with my wife (she was on vacation), asking her to book a certain date for a meeting with a guy on a hotel. She was surprised and wanted to know if it was for real, but I could tell she was turned on..We sexted, she came and we agreed to talk it through when she came home.
She had lots of reservations, questions and demands - things she would NOT do. I made no demands and let her set up the rules. She was not sure she would kiss him and she was quite sure she was not going to blow him. When we met, it did not take long before they kissed passionately and right after that she dropped to her knees and took him in her mouth...
What worked for us was baby steps, making the roleplay more realistic and detailed I think.
Find a friend you can trust and build from chatting, gentle touching, clothes removal in stages and work from there in a relaxed setting. This is us on a weekend away ..
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I was in the same position as you are now. I used a lot of these forums, especially the hotwives forum. Reading the stories of others and finding out that there were many other couples that are doing it. Also now having the internet there are tons of videos you can watch together.
When my wife was being fucked by another man as I watched put her in another universe.
When my wife was being fucked by another man as I watched put her in another universe.
Tough question cause there really isn't a "right" answer. Good advice on this thread though. I'd say to communicate your desires and give her an opportunity to candidly express her interest - if any. If she's a bit turned on by the idea, go slowly: fantasy during foreplay followed by innocent flirting at a bar or other social setting; progress from there - maybe wear something revealing at some point and some petting or kissing. Work your way into it at her pace. If she's not interested then you should honor her wishes and enjoy your fantasy alone.