Just dipping our toes into the lifestyle very slowing. My nd my wife have been together 17 years. We have discussed this lifestyle as a fantasy for the past 3-4 years. Recently we have discussed going to a LS club just to check it out. While I find the fantasy of my wife fucking other guys super hot Im not sure I really want that, at least as we begin. Im not sure how I would feel with an other guy fucking and cumming in my wifes pussy. Im not the Jealous type except for when my wife goes out for girls night with outer wives. Not sure why that is...
Anyway, has anyone experience less angst with their wives giving a handjob or blowjob? What about having another guy fingering or eating your wifes pussy before you fuck her? Do you experience any less angst with these activities or if someone else fucks your with but doesnt cum in her? Ive encouraged my wife to flirt with other guys and have no problems with that. I think if we take baby steps we will find out what we are ok with.
Hoping to learn from others experience here
Anyway, has anyone experience less angst with their wives giving a handjob or blowjob? What about having another guy fingering or eating your wifes pussy before you fuck her? Do you experience any less angst with these activities or if someone else fucks your with but doesnt cum in her? Ive encouraged my wife to flirt with other guys and have no problems with that. I think if we take baby steps we will find out what we are ok with.
Hoping to learn from others experience here