nobodysrage
Male
My honest opinion is: You should be worried about your relationship. (I was in a similar situation, you can read here: https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/road-to-cuckold.28997/)So I have some possible bad news. Yesterday, I came home 4 1/2 hrs early. I almost never leave work early unless a Dr’s appt and it’s typically once a year. Yesterday I had a severe migraine which I’ve started getting recently. It was extremely hot and humid and I think dehydration played a huge role.
Anyways, when I got home, I heard the dogs barking so I figured the neighbors in the back had company and it drives my dogs to bark until we bring them around us in the living room. So I go towards the back and I started hearing noises of someone having sex. I figured my wife was probably watching porn and masturbating, which isn’t out of the ordinary. So I thought, wow I’m gonna get some hot sex! Well, after listening for all of 10 seconds, I heard her say the neighbors name!
I was like, wtf!?!?! Is she fantasizing & masturbating??? So I listened for about another 10 seconds and heard my neighbor telling her to “take all his cock!”. Omg! I didn’t know what to do! I froze and stayed there listening with fear and anger. Fear that I would most likely get my ass kicked if I went in there in a rage and anger from the betrayal. It was so loud, I could hear it with windows closed.
I ended up leaving and driving down a few blocks and parked, contemplating what I should do. For about half hour, l sat there and then watched as he went back across the street. This is the new neighbors that moved in. It’s a guy and his nephew. Same ones that have watched and flirted with her when she tanned topless. He’s intimidating because he’s in shape and has this “don’t fuck with me” demeanor.
I ended up waiting about another half hour and decided to call her and tell her I was almost home. She didn’t answer, so when I got there, she was in bed naked.
She fell asleep! She woke up and looked a little startled. I said I came home early due to the heat and I was analyzing everything. Her panties were on the nightstand, her hair was messed up, the room smelled of sweat and sex, and the dogs were gated in the kitchen which was odd.
I asked her, what happened? She says she fell asleep and forgot about the dogs. I said what’s that smell? She says she didn’t smell anything.
I had this sudden urge to hint at having sex to see her reaction. I got close to her and she immediately started grabbing me and pulled my pants down. I was in shock! She started giving me a bj like she worshiped it.
I didn’t have the strength to say anything else. It felt so good yet it was on my mind. When she decided to ride me, I wanted to stop her but no words came out. She jumped on me and placed me inside her. I’ve never felt that wetness before. It was just like after you cum in someone and try to keep going. I knew then, he came inside her. Her body smelled of sweat and cum. It started to make me insanely horny. We had some really good sex and I finished and told her I needed to shower.
During my shower, I became upset with my weakness as well as her betrayal. I don’t know what to do. I feel as if I can’t trust her anymore. Am I right for that? Is it my fault for feeding her to have sex with other men? Obviously I was to be a part of that. So this is betrayal I feel. I definitely won’t be telling him anything. I do t think it’s his fault. He’s not my friend and it will be very awkward knowing he’s slept with my wife. And how long has this been going on? I want to say something but I feel she would have admitted to it. Like the guilt would be eating her up. Idk maybe I’m over thinking and should just tell her that I heard them and that we need to talk about what we need to do.
At the same time, I feel her grief and anger could have drive her over the edge and acted out without thinking about consequences. I know her mom was her best friend and she’s struggling. Yet, it’s not an excuse.
Its a piity that she is aware of your kink. But instead of just playing the game with you together she cheats behind your back. Women ofter prefer cheating behind your back before just fucking around and admitting it even though the are allowed to.
What gut feeling do you have about your relationship? Does she still have respect for you and loves you? Do you have a lack of power in the relationship?
In my opinion you have several options. At first you will have to make up your mind whether you decide to deep dive into the cuckolding lifestyle or not.
If you decide against the cuckolding lifestyle:
- Confront her about cheating. Decide whether you should break up or not. It not crucial whether she tells you to stop cheating or not. Its crucial how your feeling is afterwards. If you feel that you have a lack of power and the relationship is turning bad - you are better the one who breaks up. This will save you from having a lot of pain.
- Confront her about cheating. Tell her that this is something that you don't tolerate again. She should stop cheating or you will stop with her immedeately. Then you should have a deep hones conversation about cuckolding. You should clarify that it turns you on and that she should not feel guilty at all for what sh is doing. Instead tell her you are very prof of her. You can walk that road together from now on. But not behind your back. I prefer this options as it outs the cards on the table, you can remain powerful and it might be a start of a great lifestyle. A lot of cuckolding relationships started that way.
- Do not confront er about cheating. For sure she will continue to fuck around. You get step by step get into the lifestyle and give her more hints about your cuckolding desire until the day she opens up and cheats on you with you knowing it at the same time. Be ware that this way is also risky as this is the way where you might loser our power the most.