and did that turn him on? Humiliation for me is only effective if its honest. If someone says thats so small it looks like a clit, that doesnt do anything for me, as i know i am not that small (5" thin) but if my wife says are you in yet, and i am balls deep in her (which has happened) then its totally humiliating. I was in a hot tub once with another couple and the guys worked for me, and my wife is feeling him and saying, "hey honey, his cock is longer and thicker than you". The guy had a smug look on his face for weeks.