Porn recommendations for vanilla wife?

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My wife is very vanilla, but says she is willing to watch porn with me. My hope is to make it a fairly regular thing, and to expose her to big cocks and even average cocks (which are big compared to me). But here are the concerns as far as what will most likely turn her off:

1) Anything that is too rough (choking, slapping, face fucking with all the gutteral choking sounds, etc.)

2) Cumming on face, sucking cock as an expectation or first step

3) In the other direction, anything with a story that takes too long for the sexy to get going (she’s been so funny about that over the years the few times we’ve watched porn…despite her vanilla-ness she gets bored easily, lol!)

So I guess I’m asking if anyone knows of any resources for vids/movies that are hardcore, but respectful. Does that make sense? This one of several steps I’m trying to take to help her few more comfortable with sex so she can relax and start to express her natural sexuality. And as a result I hope it can bring us even closer.
Thanks!
 
For storyline movies, I'd suggest vintage 1970s porn, I guess. They have fairly good ones back then, such as All About Gloria Leonard, Aunt Peg, Sex World, The Devil in Miss Jones, Behind the Green Door, etc.

There are also Contemporary porn which are oriented more toward women, so the movies are approached from women's perspectives. You can check out the Make Love Not Porn website, Lust Cinema website, Bellesa, etc.

Or, you can make an approach to porn for your wife as fun activities together. Such as erotic massage/masturbation videos. Check out the Hegre Art website. They have tons of massage/masturbation clips.
 
My wife is very vanilla, but says she is willing to watch porn with me. My hope is to make it a fairly regular thing, and to expose her to big cocks and even average cocks (which are big compared to me). But here are the concerns as far as what will most likely turn her off:

1) Anything that is too rough (choking, slapping, face fucking with all the gutteral choking sounds, etc.)

2) Cumming on face, sucking cock as an expectation or first step

3) In the other direction, anything with a story that takes too long for the sexy to get going (she’s been so funny about that over the years the few times we’ve watched porn…despite her vanilla-ness she gets bored easily, lol!)

So I guess I’m asking if anyone knows of any resources for vids/movies that are hardcore, but respectful. Does that make sense? This one of several steps I’m trying to take to help her few more comfortable with sex so she can relax and start to express her natural sexuality. And as a result I hope it can bring us even closer.
Thanks!
Your wife sounds like a boring woman.

I hope you can turn her around a bit. Maybe add some sex toys into the mix with the porn. When they start enjoying kinky things it can lead to a reversal in their attitude toward sex in general. I would insert a medium sized vibrator into her vagina while you are watching the adult films together. Kiss her at the same time. Then fuck her and tell her how much you would like to see her fuck another guy. It may just bring out her inner slut.
 
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It’s good advice. She loves a vibe on her clit, and I’ve been introducing some dildos, although she isn’t sold on those yet. Fucking her while all this is happening is the tough part; I’m so small that I can barely penetrate her, and even then it takes a serious contortion or our bodies into a “scissor” which is ultimately pretty awkward and uncomfortable. So it kind of takes us out of the moment.
 
For storyline movies, I'd suggest vintage 1970s porn, I guess. They have fairly good ones back then, such as All About Gloria Leonard, Aunt Peg, Sex World, The Devil in Miss Jones, Behind the Green Door, etc.

There are also Contemporary porn which are oriented more toward women, so the movies are approached from women's perspectives. You can check out the Make Love Not Porn website, Lust Cinema website, Bellesa, etc.

Or, you can make an approach to porn for your wife as fun activities together. Such as erotic massage/masturbation videos. Check out the Hegre Art website. They have tons of massage/masturbation clips.
Good suggestions! 70s porn is especially good.
 
My wife is very vanilla, but says she is willing to watch porn with me. My hope is to make it a fairly regular thing, and to expose her to big cocks and even average cocks (which are big compared to me). But here are the concerns as far as what will most likely turn her off:

1) Anything that is too rough (choking, slapping, face fucking with all the gutteral choking sounds, etc.)

2) Cumming on face, sucking cock as an expectation or first step

3) In the other direction, anything with a story that takes too long for the sexy to get going (she’s been so funny about that over the years the few times we’ve watched porn…despite her vanilla-ness she gets bored easily, lol!)

So I guess I’m asking if anyone knows of any resources for vids/movies that are hardcore, but respectful. Does that make sense? This one of several steps I’m trying to take to help her few more comfortable with sex so she can relax and start to express her natural sexuality. And as a result I hope it can bring us even closer.
Thanks!
Can't go wrong with BBC trainer videos. They have hypno videos that will imbed cock on her mind day and night.
 
My wife is very vanilla, but says she is willing to watch porn with me. My hope is to make it a fairly regular thing, and to expose her to big cocks and even average cocks (which are big compared to me). But here are the concerns as far as what will most likely turn her off:

1) Anything that is too rough (choking, slapping, face fucking with all the gutteral choking sounds, etc.)

2) Cumming on face, sucking cock as an expectation or first step

3) In the other direction, anything with a story that takes too long for the sexy to get going (she’s been so funny about that over the years the few times we’ve watched porn…despite her vanilla-ness she gets bored easily, lol!)

So I guess I’m asking if anyone knows of any resources for vids/movies that are hardcore, but respectful. Does that make sense? This one of several steps I’m trying to take to help her few more comfortable with sex so she can relax and start to express her natural sexuality. And as a result I hope it can bring us even closer.
Thanks!
I'm going to make a different suggestion to you. The first Emmanuelle film from the 70's starring Sylvia Kristel. It's soft porn but very sensual and effective. We saw it in a cinema and afterwards were one of three couples fucking up against the wall in an alley opposite the cinema. That night changed our lives as we decided she should fully embrace being a slut.
 
I'm going to make a different suggestion to you. The first Emmanuelle film from the 70's starring Sylvia Kristel. It's soft porn but very sensual and effective. We saw it in a cinema and afterwards were one of three couples fucking up against the wall in an alley opposite the cinema. That night changed our lives as we decided she should fully embrace being a slut.
I remember that film!:)
 
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