Potential bull asking: why let us do this ?

[lonlonepona]

Hi ! I am not coming with an attitude of hatred so please don’t read any of my questions this way.

As some background I’ve been fortunate with what I have. Tall, good hair, fit, and well endowed. In various situations this has led to being asked to join a threesome, sometimes as a bull.

For married men that want a hung man to please their wife, why do you want this ? I personally believe women deserve the best, and we can offer it in different ways. Does it come from that ?

Why not spend the time working on yourself and your relationship instead of convincing her to enjoy a hung man ? Like it is fairly easy to gain muscle, get fit, you just need to stick to it. You can learn and do more skills together.

I appreciate any time and responses. Thanks.

 

[Ursub15]

I like the humiliation

 

[Azncouple21]

I like the humiliation

i love watching a stud lust over my wife and treat me like a little bitch

 

[Ursub15]

i love watching a stud lust over my wife and treat me like a little bitch

Yeah same his dicks bigger may as well serve him he’s superior

 

[lonlonepona]

Yeah same his dicks bigger may as well serve him he’s superior

But both of you have value. You’re not bitches just because of penis size. People like me aren’t superior just because we have a huge penis.

 

[nariah1957]

Hi ! I am not coming with an attitude of hatred so please don’t read any of my questions this way.

As some background I’ve been fortunate with what I have. Tall, good hair, fit, and well endowed. In various situations this has led to being asked to join a threesome, sometimes as a bull.

For married men that want a hung man to please their wife, why do you want this ? I personally believe women deserve the best, and we can offer it in different ways. Does it come from that ?

Why not spend the time working on yourself and your relationship instead of convincing her to enjoy a hung man ? Like it is fairly easy to gain muscle, get fit, you just need to stick to it. You can learn and do more skills together.

I appreciate any time and responses. Thanks.

This is a 1st. Never heard a bull, potential or otherwise, ask this question. Most just have the "I got a big dick so give me your wife" attitude. None, until now, want to know what makes the cuck tick. And If 20 people answer you will probably get 20 different answers.

To be honest I think its more about the cucks pleasure than the wife's. If you don't believe me just check out most of the answers here or on the "

How to Convince Your Wife / Partner" section.​

To be honest I don't think I would share my wife just for her pleasure, there has to be something in it for me too. I admit I'm a cuck but I have no problem pleasing a woman. Every woman I have been with has come back for 2nds and none have ever called me small although I definitely don't consider myself hung. My wife has on numerous occasions told me I'm the best lover she has had (take that where you may) but she also admits she loves the attention of 2 men and the comparison of another man.

As for me, I just love seeing her with another man and yes I do prefer him to be bigger than me in the cock department. I do not consider myself inferior in any way because of that but it does make the roller-coaster ride more intense for me. I get all the normal pleasures a man gets when I make love to my wife. I get a whole lot of other pleasures when I share my wife with another man.

Sorry, thats the best I can do, hope it helps.

BTW, as a potential bull with your attitude I think you will make a good one.

 

[lonlonepona]

This is a 1st. Never heard a bull, potential or otherwise, ask this question. Most just have the "I got a big dick so give me your wife" attitude. None, until now, want to know what makes the cuck tick. And If 20 people answer you will probably get 20 different answers.

To be honest I think its more about the cucks pleasure than the wife's. If you don't believe me just check out most of the answers here or on the "

How to Convince Your Wife / Partner" section.​

To be honest I don't think I would share my wife just for her pleasure, there has to be something in it for me too. I admit I'm a cuck but I have no problem pleasing a woman. Every woman I have been with has come back for 2nds and none have ever called me small although I definitely don't consider myself hung. My wife has on numerous occasions told me I'm the best lover she has had (take that where you may) but she also admits she loves the attention of 2 men and the comparison of another man.

As for me, I just love seeing her with another man and yes I do prefer him to be bigger than me in the cock department. I do not consider myself inferior in any way because of that but it does make the roller-coaster ride more intense for me. I get all the normal pleasures a man gets when I make love to my wife. I get a whole lot of other pleasures when I share my wife with another man.

Sorry, thats the best I can do, hope it helps.

BTW, as a potential bull with your attitude I think you will make a good one.

Thank you for the well put response. Why do you want to share her if you’re in a relationship ? You have value and your relationship is an expression of your love. Why bring another man in , even if he’s hung or not ?

 

[nariah1957]

Thank you for the well put response. Why do you want to share her if you’re in a relationship ? You have value and your relationship is an expression of your love. Why bring another man in , even if he’s hung or not ?

Whether he is hung or not is irrelevant. I prefer it but its not a deal breaker. I spose its the humiliation thing. Whether you like it or not sharing your wife is humiliating to an extent .

We never talked about it although I did have some fantasies about it after reading Penthouse as a teen. Yep, that's how old I am. According to those stories everyone involved seemed to enjoy the experience but at the time I never believed I would actually do it.

For us it started one night with good friends, good vibes and a bit of alcohol. It ended with 3 of us and we ended up in bed together. As I said it wasn't discussed, it just happened. Afterwards my wife and I did discuss it to great length. We both admitted we enjoyed it and wanted to do it again. It doesnt seem to have effected our relationship at all, we have been married 39yrs.

Below is a post I wrote dome time ago about that 1st time and how I felt while it was happening.


1st time my wife was shared was in a 3sum. It had been a fantasy of mine since I was a teenager reading letters in Penthouse. I didn't actually see his cock in my wife's pussy that 1st time. That came later. My wife and I were facing each other, she lifted her leg back over his hip and he entered her from behind. I couldn't believe this was really happening. I thought all those letters were just made up BS. At the time I had no negative feelings. She looked so beautiful. I will never forget that sweet smile as he entered her and the sway of her breasts as he fucked her. My only emotion was how hot is this. To kiss my wife while another man fucked her was out of this world. The sweetest kiss of my life. I thought my heart would explode when I put my hand between her legs and felt a cock in her pussy. It was surreal to feel his cock moving in and out, to feel her pussy stretched around his shaft. I couldn't take my hand away, it was just delicious. When I felt his cock pulse as he came inside her sent me over the top. I was in an extreme state of arousal.
later I did feel some contradicting emotions but overall it was the most erotic experience of my life and my feelings were mainly positive. I definitely do not regret it.

 

[lonlonepona]

Whether he is hung or not is irrelevant. I prefer it but its not a deal breaker. I spose its the humiliation thing. Whether you like it or not sharing your wife is humiliating to an extent .

We never talked about it although I did have some fantasies about it after reading Penthouse as a teen. Yep, that's how old I am. According to those stories everyone involved seemed to enjoy the experience but at the time I never believed I would actually do it.

For us it started one night with good friends, good vibes and a bit of alcohol. It ended with 3 of us and we ended up in bed together. As I said it wasn't discussed, it just happened. Afterwards my wife and I did discuss it to great length. We both admitted we enjoyed it and wanted to do it again. It doesnt seem to have effected our relationship at all, we have been married 39yrs.

Below is a post I wrote dome time ago about that 1st time and how I felt while it was happening.


1st time my wife was shared was in a 3sum. It had been a fantasy of mine since I was a teenager reading letters in Penthouse. I didn't actually see his cock in my wife's pussy that 1st time. That came later. My wife and I were facing each other, she lifted her leg back over his hip and he entered her from behind. I couldn't believe this was really happening. I thought all those letters were just made up BS. At the time I had no negative feelings. She looked so beautiful. I will never forget that sweet smile as he entered her and the sway of her breasts as he fucked her. My only emotion was how hot is this. To kiss my wife while another man fucked her was out of this world. The sweetest kiss of my life. I thought my heart would explode when I put my hand between her legs and felt a cock in her pussy. It was surreal to feel his cock moving in and out, to feel her pussy stretched around his shaft. I couldn't take my hand away, it was just delicious. When I felt his cock pulse as he came inside her sent me over the top. I was in an extreme state of arousal.
later I did feel some contradicting emotions but overall it was the most erotic experience of my life and my feelings were mainly positive. I definitely do not regret it.

If it wasn’t humiliating would you do it ? I don’t understand why humiliation would drive someone to do something like this. Like why make such a memorable kiss driven by humiliation ?

Does size add onto the humiliation ? To be honest, I’m 9.5”x6.5”. Once a woman experiences that size with someone that knows how to use it, the fullness feeling, it is hard to beat sexually. In your scenario, if you went in after and weren’t a similar size, she’d immediately have feelings about that. It’s not going to change everything but it does change things a bit. Why let hung men do that ?

 

[Jeanswatcher]

This is a 1st. Never heard a bull, potential or otherwise, ask this question. Most just have the "I got a big dick so give me your wife" attitude. None, until now, want to know what makes the cuck tick. And If 20 people answer you will probably get 20 different answers.

To be honest I think its more about the cucks pleasure than the wife's. If you don't believe me just check out most of the answers here or on the "

How to Convince Your Wife / Partner" section.​

To be honest I don't think I would share my wife just for her pleasure, there has to be something in it for me too. I admit I'm a cuck but I have no problem pleasing a woman. Every woman I have been with has come back for 2nds and none have ever called me small although I definitely don't consider myself hung. My wife has on numerous occasions told me I'm the best lover she has had (take that where you may) but she also admits she loves the attention of 2 men and the comparison of another man.

As for me, I just love seeing her with another man and yes I do prefer him to be bigger than me in the cock department. I do not consider myself inferior in any way because of that but it does make the roller-coaster ride more intense for me. I get all the normal pleasures a man gets when I make love to my wife. I get a whole lot of other pleasures when I share my wife with another man.

Sorry, thats the best I can do, hope it helps.

BTW, as a potential bull with your attitude I think you will make a good one.

I have been asked many times why i want/allow my wife to fuck other men and that i dont look the sort; whatever the sort is.

I am 6ft 3, masculine and a very dominant man, yet as ive found out sexually submissive, something she has worked on over the years.

As i have written on these boards, she was the driving force in turning me into her cuck, we met as she turned 16, she admitted cheating on me weeks after she gave me her virginity. My reaction was she was dumped but she convinced me otherwise.

By the time she was 17 another admission, this time she had been fucked and i rather found it a turn on she telling me as she cried.

We married when she was 18 and it wasnt long before she had a lover.

I have a good size cock, but she likes fucking other men, a different cock, touch and smell and different kisser, all men are different as she says in what and how they do this.

So is she my cuckoldresses for me? NO, definately not. It is she that drove this and gained my acceptance and i enjoy it as much as she does.

I see no reason why she cant explore her sexuality, its her body and i have spent years watching another man play with her in the main mostly long term lovers.

What she does and with whom is her choice, i am always consulted on with "whom" but what she does with her lover is her choice and not mine and thats how it should be.

 

[Happy Mom]

As a wife, or at least me, it’s not about finding a fit or well hung man. It’s the excitement of being with other men. Making them happy. Seeing their faces when they thrust their cock into another man’s wife. It’s a great feeling for them. I enjoy sex. Having multiple partners gives me variety. I have the best of both worlds. I have a wonderful marriage and still get to fuck whoever I want. It actually makes my marriage stronger.

 

[lonlonepona]

As a wife, or at least me, it’s not about finding a fit or well hung man. It’s the excitement of being with other men. Making them happy. Seeing their faces when they thrust their cock into another man’s wife. It’s a great feeling for them. I enjoy sex. Having multiple partners gives me variety. I have the best of both worlds. I have a wonderful marriage and still get to fuck whoever I want. It actually makes my marriage stronger.

Well I can understand why the wife would want to do this. Like you said, you get the best of both worlds.

I think as men we are primarily here for women. We can try to be and should try to be in all ways, but usually we are naturally disposed to in certain ways.

 

[birdman83]

Hi ! I am not coming with an attitude of hatred so please don’t read any of my questions this way.

As some background I’ve been fortunate with what I have. Tall, good hair, fit, and well endowed. In various situations this has led to being asked to join a threesome, sometimes as a bull.

For married men that want a hung man to please their wife, why do you want this ? I personally believe women deserve the best, and we can offer it in different ways. Does it come from that ?

Why not spend the time working on yourself and your relationship instead of convincing her to enjoy a hung man ? Like it is fairly easy to gain muscle, get fit, you just need to stick to it. You can learn and do more skills together.

I appreciate any time and responses. Thanks.

For me it’s just the thrill of watching my wife completely let go and get 100% sexually satisfied and telling me how good it feels. I’m not a cuck and although I’m not huge, I’m not small either (7.5 inches) so for me the biggest thrill isn’t really the big cock thing. Part of the thrill is that it’s taboo. Another part is knowing guys find her attractive and WANT to fuck her. Guys that think they’re doing me a favor would be huge turn off, as would arrogance or overconfidence. I just want to watch my wife have a mutually enjoyable sexual experience with a stranger, and talk about it later

 

[40H4inch]

It is often not that we let a hung man have sex with our wives, It is a hung man seducing our wife and her finding out the difference. We were high school sweethearts. When we got married we hadn't experienced any other sexual partners. The wife of my best friend was bragging to her about how big her husband's cock was. She learned that I was much smaller than average. She decided to accept his advances and found she was surprised at how much better his cock felt. At that point, you accept her desire for sexual fulfillment or divorce her. If all other parts of the marriage are good, it can be a good arrangement for both. I was convinced the next woman would feel the same about my sexual abilities.

 

[SCBlknNsty]

Hi ! I am not coming with an attitude of hatred so please don’t read any of my questions this way.

As some background I’ve been fortunate with what I have. Tall, good hair, fit, and well endowed. In various situations this has led to being asked to join a threesome, sometimes as a bull.

For married men that want a hung man to please their wife, why do you want this ? I personally believe women deserve the best, and we can offer it in different ways. Does it come from that ?

Why not spend the time working on yourself and your relationship instead of convincing her to enjoy a hung man ? Like it is fairly easy to gain muscle, get fit, you just need to stick to it. You can learn and do more skills together.

I appreciate any time and responses. Thanks.

I'm going to give you a few different answers; some will surprise you, and I won't be shocked if you disagree with some, starting with the first.

1) If you research outside sex/porn sites you'll find that women with largely endowed partners are MORE likely to have affairs. I was married to one. I'm slightly over ten inches. Her first ongoing friend was eight and she said it made her feel more empowered. She could deepthroat him as well as more comfortable if and when anal got enthusiastic.

2) We were married 16yrs (widower now 25yrs) and were the rare Black couple swinging the last 7. Our first couple was white; I would still swear the wife only distracted me for a couple of seconds when I looked up and he was lying on his back on the floor and my wife lowered herself onto him, impaling herself. Over the now 30+ years since that happened it remains my most sensuous and beautiful image of her. The view as observer is totally different than that of a participant, even if it's a moresome.

3) I don't say this to denigrate anyone. While a significant number state not having the ability to satisfy their partner, there are also many who simply don't want the responsibility for it. On that note, far too many men are unwilling to speak honestly about a change in their sexuality with their partner OR their doctor.

 

[Jeanswatcher]

For me it’s just the thrill of watching my wife completely let go and get 100% sexually satisfied and telling me how good it feels. I’m not a cuck and although I’m not huge, I’m not small either (7.5 inches) so for me the biggest thrill isn’t really the big cock thing. Part of the thrill is that it’s taboo. Another part is knowing guys find her attractive and WANT to fuck her. Guys that think they’re doing me a favor would be huge turn off, as would arrogance or overconfidence. I just want to watch my wife have a mutually enjoyable sexual experience with a stranger, and talk about it later

I agree the taboo element is a strong driver for us too, especially my wife. This LS goes against everything she/we has been brought up to believe in. Her parents were very strict with her and she was discouraged from having a boyfriend till she virtually hit 16, this simply resulted in her gaining a very kinky and adventurous mind in her early years.

How we would grow as a couple was established soon after she gave me her virginity, driven by her.

Only my best friend is aware that we are not a normal conventional couple, he having fucked her years since.

We have never really discussed her plays, she doesnt really like this, a reminder of what a slut she can be, but as i can watch and take pictures sometimes there isnt much to discuss. I enjoy being absent too.

I have never thought that a mans dick size is that important, one of her best long term lovers was smaller than me, yet for years he fully satisfied her, a mix of fucking, touch, feel, BDSM and emotion seduction, over many hours he could make her have multi orgasms without removing his trousers. The only man with a hugh dick that fucked her for hours she found emotionless so he didnt last.

 

[Rikx]

Hi ! I am not coming with an attitude of hatred so please don’t read any of my questions this way.

As some background I’ve been fortunate with what I have. Tall, good hair, fit, and well endowed. In various situations this has led to being asked to join a threesome, sometimes as a bull.

For married men that want a hung man to please their wife, why do you want this ? I personally believe women deserve the best, and we can offer it in different ways. Does it come from that ?

Why not spend the time working on yourself and your relationship instead of convincing her to enjoy a hung man ? Like it is fairly easy to gain muscle, get fit, you just need to stick to it. You can learn and do more skills together.

I appreciate any time and responses. Thanks.

You're asking the one-million-dollar question that, perhaps, has no reasonable, rational answer. Of course, we could - probably should - work on ourselves and our relationship and make the best of a monogamous relationship. Plenty of people do it, but many others don't even when their relationship is excellent.

There's the element of erotic suspense, something new, risky, and forbidden. That is a major driver to let things get off the rails. Perhaps only for once but it gets tempting to want more of that suspense. Once on that track, things may escalate.

It's lucky if you're fortunately endowed and all, that's a fantastic add on. It doesn't make you a full part of the intimate relationship of the couple. You add something extraordinarily special to their game, and you get your share of joy as a result, but the joy that you may give her is also something he gives to her through you.

 

[lonlonepona]

I'm going to give you a few different answers; some will surprise you, and I won't be shocked if you disagree with some, starting with the first.

1) If you research outside sex/porn sites you'll find that women with largely endowed partners are MORE likely to have affairs. I was married to one. I'm slightly over ten inches. Her first ongoing friend was eight and she said it made her feel more empowered. She could deepthroat him as well as more comfortable if and when anal got enthusiastic.

2) We were married 16yrs (widower now 25yrs) and were the rare Black couple swinging the last 7. Our first couple was white; I would still swear the wife only distracted me for a couple of seconds when I looked up and he was lying on his back on the floor and my wife lowered herself onto him, impaling herself. Over the now 30+ years since that happened it remains my most sensuous and beautiful image of her. The view as observer is totally different than that of a participant, even if it's a moresome.

3) I don't say this to denigrate anyone. While a significant number state not having the ability to satisfy their partner, there are also many who simply don't want the responsibility for it. On that note, far too many men are unwilling to speak honestly about a change in their sexuality with their partner OR their doctor.

Thank you for the reply (same to everyone else).

I’ve heard that stat before but I’m not sure how they got it lol. Or if there is some sampling bias as there are much fewer well endowed men.

For your last point, I think that is more prevalent than being let on too. It’s like the responsibility of sexually pleasing your wife is being passed onto someone else that has already taken the time to be fit. I’m glad to hear size isn’t as important as I initially thought, but it makes things more confusing tbh. Size isn’t something men can control, fitness and cardio and diet is. So why not just work on that ?

 

[lonlonepona]

It is often not that we let a hung man have sex with our wives, It is a hung man seducing our wife and her finding out the difference. We were high school sweethearts. When we got married we hadn't experienced any other sexual partners. The wife of my best friend was bragging to her about how big her husband's cock was. She learned that I was much smaller than average. She decided to accept his advances and found she was surprised at how much better his cock felt. At that point, you accept her desire for sexual fulfillment or divorce her. If all other parts of the marriage are good, it can be a good arrangement for both. I was convinced the next woman would feel the same about my sexual abilities.

Some of the responses have been like this. Not all but some. It seems like cuckolding for some couples came from a place of cheating of the woman. Now this may just be a fantasy for some guys but if it’s not, I don’t think it’s healthy. You do have value. You aren’t worthless forever just because she made you feel that way in her betrayal.

 

[Biguy916]

Hi ! I am not coming with an attitude of hatred so please don’t read any of my questions this way.

As some background I’ve been fortunate with what I have. Tall, good hair, fit, and well endowed. In various situations this has led to being asked to join a threesome, sometimes as a bull.

For married men that want a hung man to please their wife, why do you want this ? I personally believe women deserve the best, and we can offer it in different ways. Does it come from that ?

Why not spend the time working on yourself and your relationship instead of convincing her to enjoy a hung man ? Like it is fairly easy to gain muscle, get fit, you just need to stick to it. You can learn and do more skills together.

I appreciate any time and responses. Thanks.

My wife and I always enjoyed having daring sex
When we first started dating she was a virgin and she enjoyed having sex while driving around in the car.
When she brought up her curiosity about having sex with other men I first was shocked but it was also very exciting for both of us
Watching her getting fucked by other men was a great thrill for us.
It was extremely daring to see her wanting to be fucked by other men
When she asked me to try sucking their cocks again we seen it as daring
The more she fucked other men and having me suck their cocks the more I felt submissive to her and her men and I loved that feeling
When my wife had me wearing very short cutoff shorts at home it was just a matter of time that she had me wearing the shorts out in public
Again it was daring and we both enjoyed being the submissive husband
We finally realized that I was a cuckold husband