Stag- Explain your rational... the high or thrill of "wife sharing".

For me its a few or a couple things. I know the root of it is being cheated on by her; the way I found out. I was working long ours before but it was never an issue. Food was always cooked; house was always clean; sex was always great. We really didnt have many issues. It wasnt until I had gotten a new career and no longer working as much. I later found messages from another man saying how much he missed her and wanted 'more' .... but as I kept reading I seen that she was refusing him, letting him know that she doesn't share the same feelings .... i went from rage to being turned on. It changed my perspective on women, cause I always thought women needed emotional connection to cheat, but here she was being a total dog in the most feminine way ..... Another thing is, my wife and i are black but she has always crushed on white celebs more than black ones. So eventually, after many discussions; we came to the conclusion that I would be her only black partner and that she wanted to share herself with yt men. It started off as her being a Dom, she eventually became pillow princess sub. That was so much fun.
That's what I always thought that getting laid ment being nice, paying for a date then hoping for sex after.
Years ago I was 20 attending church with my grandma. I leaned quick that some girls liked sex period.

One girl, preacher's daugh.ter, she was 19, loving with her parents, engaged to an older guy(26). The entire congregation was looking forward to their wedding about a year away. She was classy as hell, very pretty. Somehow we hooked up one night, it became 2 or 3 times a week hookup at my place. She was on the pill so she could have sex with her fiancee, parents didn't know obviously.
She was a fuck slut with me. Long makeout sessions, fuck 2 or 3 times when she'd visit. Her thing was we'd fuck till I came in her, I'd go down on her and she'd cum hard. We'd kiss while she rubbed her clit till I was hard then we'd do it again. It was only sex, no emotional anything. She was fun, hot body, nice big tits, very pretty, nice haircut.

Different church girl, 21, elders ....... Not pretty at all, fuguly but nice body. We hooked up many times. She liked it in her butt so we did it often. She loved sex. She was doing other guys too. No emotional feelings at all.
 
I posted this pic on another thread so it may look familiar. But it's this imagery that is the turn-on for me when sharing the wife with another male. It's more the thought that my 5'1" tiny Asian wife is letting some guy use her pussy so he can get off. I mean I've fucked my wife in every position imaginable. But to see her surrender her body to a complete stranger, and let him drive his dick into her until he empties his load in her, is wild. Of course I follow up immediately after, telling her "Now you have to take your husband's load". She smiles with the familiarity of it. And as I pump my cum into her already used pussy my thought is, "God! Now she has the sperm of two men swimming up in that pussy".

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damn she's not like that with me.
It could be that the perspective of watching is different to receiving.
When you make out with your wife there are a lot of distractions going on. You can only see part of it while you also feel part of it and your mind is working on what you are doing to her as well as what she is doing to you. You cant see her whole body while you're kissing her or the look on her face while your head is between her legs. You maybe don't realise how much she enjoys making out with you.
But when you watch your friend make out with your wife you're sitting back taking in the whole show, not thinking, just witnessing. You can see her whole body and how it moves and you can see the look on her face and how much she enjoys making out with him without any distractions. Your brain is not thinking, just taking in the show.
Your wife could be identical with you and your friend but your brain has receiving different information and cant put the two together.
Don't try to annalise it, just enjoy it..
 
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It could be that the perspective of watching is different to receiving.
When you make out with your wife there are a lot of distractions going on. You can only see part of it while you also feel part of it and your mind is working on what you are doing to her as well as what she is doing to you. You cant see her whole body while you're kissing her or the look on her face while your head is between her legs. You maybe don't realise how much she enjoys making out with you.
But when you watch your friend make out with your wife you're sitting back taking in the whole show, not thinking, just witnessing. You can see her whole body and how it moves and you can see the look on her face and how much she enjoys making out with him without any distractions. Your brain is not thinking, just taking in the show.
Your wife could be identical with you and your friend but your brain has receiving different information and cant put the two together.
Don't try to annalise it, just enjoy it..

It's just hot to see a man with a Big Dick having sex with your woman. Period.

Big Dicks are simply arousing. I love to look at big dicks and I have one myself. LOL. Just nature.

We men are animals and wired to compete with other males in order to impregnate the female.

Take care, man.
 
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