Surprising things about the lifestyle

The pure amount of married men that meet my wife , also the older generation how are they still going , sophie met a 92yo last week!!!
We go to a regular LS houseparty. Mature crowd. We're in our 50s and are usually the youngest couple there!! 70 seems the average age and, probably thanks to the wonder of modern ED meds, there are some very horny and active septuagenarians in attendance - both men and women! This is me (left) with two wives taking a break at one of those parties. I had the pleasure of having these two to myself that night and they were pure fire 🔥
SIMGP0507.jpgo yeah. I am surprised at the way older are embracing the Lifestyle these days!
 
We had just a couple rules in the beginning,but have adjusted things the more we have played and realized other kinks and dynamics we want to explore. It’s always a ongoing conversation and fun exploration and adding other people and dynamics open us up to new things we didn’t know we liked or wanted to try.

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It’s always a ongoing conversation and fun exploration.
Very true but kinks are often unexpected. Like being submissive and frotting.

See: "Is there anything sexier then a wife on her knees blowing another man?" Post no. 142.
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"your wife" Dec 26, 2024
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"Kinkiest, most taboo, dirtiest thing either you or your wife/ gf- insert title have done." post no. 219

 
There have been many things that surprised me but the top two have to be:
1. Her ability to take a guy with a really big dick. She is a petite girl. 5'-2" @ 98 lbs. But she can take a big dick and has even become what people call a "Size Queen".
2. How she morphed from the innocent 19 year old virgin I met 17 years ago to now this Super Powerful and in control Hot Wife who has become the complete Dom in our sex life.
so hot
 
There have been many things that surprised me but the top two have to be:
1. Her ability to take a guy with a really big dick. She is a petite girl. 5'-2" @ 98 lbs. But she can take a big dick and has even become what people call a "Size Queen".
2. How she morphed from the innocent 19 year old virgin I met 17 years ago to now this Super Powerful and in control Hot Wife who has become the complete Dom in our sex life.
My wife is 5ft, I was just asked surprised by it, as well.
 
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You wrote:
It’s always a ongoing conversation and fun exploration.
Very true but kinks are often unexpected. Like being submissive and frotting.

See: "Is there anything sexier then a wife on her knees blowing another man?" Post no. 142.
or
"your wife" Dec 26, 2024
or

"Kinkiest, most taboo, dirtiest thing either you or your wife/ gf- insert title have done." post no. 219

We didn’t have any rules that prevented anyone thing from happening in the moment of passion. Our only rule in the beginning was no solo dates and we weren’t really into cuckold dynamic, with experience and communication and comfort those things have evolved.
 
What are some surprising things you have experienced in the lifestyle? For me it’s how once my wife got over the first time nervous and saw that we both loved our experience and the lifestyle. It surprised me how my innocent wife and mom of two would easily give herself to another man and would either fuck them or give them a blowjob on a first meet, and how submissive she becomes with a much more alpha male, pretty much doing or trying anything they ask.
I second everything you said and that’s what I myself loved the most and made it so taboo. I met my wife in 9th grade in High School took her virginity when we were sophomores. She was so innocent it took me a year almost to get her out of her panties…and now to see her bounce up and down on another man still blows my mind sometimes.
 
I second everything you said and that’s what I myself loved the most and made it so taboo. I met my wife in 9th grade in High School took her virginity when we were sophomores. She was so innocent it took me a year almost to get her out of her panties…and now to see her bounce up and down on another man still blows my mind sometimes.
I completely understand what you mean. My wife was such the “good proper girl” when we married and I thought this lifestyle would always just be fantasy and role playing. Now it amazes me how quickly she’s ready to fuck the guys we meet and the things she has done or let them do with her. Honestly the sluttier she is with them the more I love it and love her which is also a surprising thing about this lifestyle.
 
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I completely understand what you mean. My wife was such the “good proper girl” when we married and I thought this lifestyle would always just be fantasy and role playing. Now it amazes me how quickly she’s ready to fuck the guys we meet and the things she has done or let them do with her. Honestly the sluttier she is with them the more I love it and love her which is also a surprising thing about this lifestyle.
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Picture of mine on the right… I have some old homemade videos in the vault, but don’t know where or what lifestyle site allows videos, so, as of now I just take screenshots of the videos and share them.
 
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