Surprising things about the lifestyle

The pure amount of married men that meet my wife , also the older generation how are they still going , sophie met a 92yo last week!!!
We go to a regular LS houseparty. Mature crowd. We're in our 50s and are usually the youngest couple there!! 70 seems the average age and, probably thanks to the wonder of modern ED meds, there are some very horny and active septuagenarians in attendance - both men and women! This is me (left) with two wives taking a break at one of those parties. I had the pleasure of having these two to myself that night and they were pure fire 🔥
SIMGP0507.jpgo yeah. I am surprised at the way older are embracing the Lifestyle these days!
 
We had just a couple rules in the beginning,but have adjusted things the more we have played and realized other kinks and dynamics we want to explore. It’s always a ongoing conversation and fun exploration and adding other people and dynamics open us up to new things we didn’t know we liked or wanted to try.

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It’s always a ongoing conversation and fun exploration.
Very true but kinks are often unexpected. Like being submissive and frotting.

See: "Is there anything sexier then a wife on her knees blowing another man?" Post no. 142.
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"your wife" Dec 26, 2024
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"Kinkiest, most taboo, dirtiest thing either you or your wife/ gf- insert title have done." post no. 219

 
There have been many things that surprised me but the top two have to be:
1. Her ability to take a guy with a really big dick. She is a petite girl. 5'-2" @ 98 lbs. But she can take a big dick and has even become what people call a "Size Queen".
2. How she morphed from the innocent 19 year old virgin I met 17 years ago to now this Super Powerful and in control Hot Wife who has become the complete Dom in our sex life.
so hot
 
There have been many things that surprised me but the top two have to be:
1. Her ability to take a guy with a really big dick. She is a petite girl. 5'-2" @ 98 lbs. But she can take a big dick and has even become what people call a "Size Queen".
2. How she morphed from the innocent 19 year old virgin I met 17 years ago to now this Super Powerful and in control Hot Wife who has become the complete Dom in our sex life.
My wife is 5ft, I was just asked surprised by it, as well.
 
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You wrote:
It’s always a ongoing conversation and fun exploration.
Very true but kinks are often unexpected. Like being submissive and frotting.

See: "Is there anything sexier then a wife on her knees blowing another man?" Post no. 142.
or
"your wife" Dec 26, 2024
or

"Kinkiest, most taboo, dirtiest thing either you or your wife/ gf- insert title have done." post no. 219

We didn’t have any rules that prevented anyone thing from happening in the moment of passion. Our only rule in the beginning was no solo dates and we weren’t really into cuckold dynamic, with experience and communication and comfort those things have evolved.
 
What are some surprising things you have experienced in the lifestyle? For me it’s how once my wife got over the first time nervous and saw that we both loved our experience and the lifestyle. It surprised me how my innocent wife and mom of two would easily give herself to another man and would either fuck them or give them a blowjob on a first meet, and how submissive she becomes with a much more alpha male, pretty much doing or trying anything they ask.
I second everything you said and that’s what I myself loved the most and made it so taboo. I met my wife in 9th grade in High School took her virginity when we were sophomores. She was so innocent it took me a year almost to get her out of her panties…and now to see her bounce up and down on another man still blows my mind sometimes.
 
I second everything you said and that’s what I myself loved the most and made it so taboo. I met my wife in 9th grade in High School took her virginity when we were sophomores. She was so innocent it took me a year almost to get her out of her panties…and now to see her bounce up and down on another man still blows my mind sometimes.
I completely understand what you mean. My wife was such the “good proper girl” when we married and I thought this lifestyle would always just be fantasy and role playing. Now it amazes me how quickly she’s ready to fuck the guys we meet and the things she has done or let them do with her. Honestly the sluttier she is with them the more I love it and love her which is also a surprising thing about this lifestyle.
 
I completely understand what you mean. My wife was such the “good proper girl” when we married and I thought this lifestyle would always just be fantasy and role playing. Now it amazes me how quickly she’s ready to fuck the guys we meet and the things she has done or let them do with her. Honestly the sluttier she is with them the more I love it and love her which is also a surprising thing about this lifestyle.
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Picture of mine on the right… I have some old homemade videos in the vault, but don’t know where or what lifestyle site allows videos, so, as of now I just take screenshots of the videos and share them.
 
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Please excuse this lengthy explanation.

I thought about this question again and came to the conclusion that the answer must be our first visit to a sex club.

It was my wife who chose the club, but more importantly, she chose the theme night, which was nudist night. Being naked was no surprise to me, but the description on the website that this night was only suitable for people who already had a lot of experience. Well, we didn't have any experience at all. It would be our first introduction to a different sex life.
My wife was shocked when she saw only men standing at the entrance. She asked the management if there were any other couples present. They reassured her.

After removing our clothes, we decided to explore the rooms.
And so we had to walk through a corridor that was so crowded that physical contact was virtually unavoidable. On one side was a dark room with quite a few holes in the wall. Arms were sticking out of those holes, but also inside them.
First one man joined in, then a second, and they began to fondle my wife. First, they fondled her large breasts. Fearing that my wife would tell us to go home, I tried to gently explain to the first man that we wanted to explore the rooms first. However, my wife interrupted me, saying, ‘It's okay, let him’.
He heard that, too, of course, and took the liberty of kneading her breasts more firmly. She looked me straight in the eye and smiled. The second man moved his hands from her stomach to her crotch. She spread her legs to make it easier for him. She continued to look me straight in the eyes. Her smile said it all.

To cut a long story short, a little further on, there was a large room. The men followed her in. One man had sex with her while the other ejaculated in her mouth. (I hadn't noticed the latter.)
A third man waited patiently for his turn. My wife had sex with him all evening. For over two hours, during which I ceased to exist for her.

Finally, at the start of the morning, twelve men surrounded her. She took each of their cocks in her mouth, eventually wanting them to ejaculate on her body. Six of the men obliged. She urged the other six to do the same, but they couldn't manage it. We decided to go home, but one of the men with an enormous cock held us up. He asked if he could fuck her, but she refused. “Another time.” And that time came a few weeks later at our house.

However, she continued to surprise me. She didn't shower, she just put on her thin summer dress.
When we got home, I wanted to open a good bottle of wine to toast a very successful first evening. She took off her dress and ordered me to lick her body clean. I was surprised at how the dried semen still retained its taste and smell. It took me about fifteen minutes to lick off every last spot.

I don't think I need to explain how the next visits went, with perhaps one exception. An unforeseen gang bang with 10-12 men. She really enjoyed that. She kept talking about it for weeks afterwards. In a positive way...
 
what surprised me the most was her capacity to both suck and fuck very large cocks. She has almost no gag reflux and can deepthroat the biggest dicks. Honestly there have been a few guys whom I thought that there was no way they would fit her pussy but god bless her she took them to the hilt.
 
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I think for us it’s been the friendships formed. Because of what my husband does it’s amazing how many men after fucking me want to have a drink with him and talk. Some help him on projects or come over just to visit.
Hubby is an important of your new relationship. Good that you noted how your guys want to hang with hubby a bit, in a way, it's hubby who makes it all happen and enhances your well being. What was surprising to me as a husband was not so much that my wife's BF wanted to stay and talk with me, have a beer, etc., was that it tended to be sexy for me, knowing he'd just fucked her and she was drifting off to ...... full of his sperm, without me touching her.
 
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