Taking steps forward with my wife

[Mywifeneedscock]

I’m making this post to report progress as we are going forward making the fantasy reality. I’ve been discussing some things in other threads, but for those who are interested, I’ll start from the beginning.

We are a couple, very much in love. My wife is a very beautiful, sexy 34-year old blonde with amazing body. I can’t get enough of her. I enjoy guys looking at her and I want to see her with another man.

We have been fantasizing about threesome for some years now. The porn we watch together (selected usually by my wife) is amateur dp/group sex. My wife comes always in just seconds when porn is on, and she likes the thought of someone fucking her while my cock is in her mouth.

A few months ago I had a revelation about myself an realized my fantasy about threesome was always about my wife getting fucked.

A couple months ago I told this to my wife and I thought we would be taking some steps forward as we had a very good talk and she agreed that she likes the idea. At that time her worries were that ”how could she let another man touch her”, and that she” needed intimacy”.

Some weeks passed and there were no further talks about the subject. I gave her time but she never brought the idea up. I then told her that I would like us to be more open, have more sex with toys (that she doesnt like much) and just generally I would like her to fantazise and be hornier. She got a bit upset and defensive. But something changed after she had time to think. We’ve had very good, intimate sex lately and she’s been much hornier and wants more sex.

Yesterday somehow she brought up the topic of fantasies again while we were out, drinking aperol and getting a bit tipsy. I thought it’s the perfect chance to to bring up the subject again and this time I explained every detail of my fantasy. There were some misunderstandings, she thought I still want a threesome or even a ”green card” so we both could fuck others. I explained I have no such desires, I only want to see another man on her and his cock i side her.

She got very horny and said she’s all wet after the talks. She started asking that ”how about protection and what if she would suck his cock”. I said suck without but fuck with condom. She was like ”is that enough?”.
After she said that she has to like the guy. Appearance and behaviour. Remember, previously she needed intimacy…that barrier is gone now.

I kept going, I said I found a place where she can sext with guys with same fantasy, she was not very eager but when I explained how it works, she agreed to try.

After that I mentioned Swingers club around us, saying that we should go check it out, have drinks and feel the mood, that we dont need to do anything but watch. She got very exited, said that she didnt know there are places like that around us and she wants to go.

So I hope next weekend we’ll check the club and there anything can happen.

 

[JustStarting]

Where is the sexting site or app?

 

[ep46wksp]

I’m making this post to report progress as we are going forward making the fantasy reality. I’ve been discussing some things in other threads, but for those who are interested, I’ll start from the beginning.

We are a couple, very much in love. My wife is a very beautiful, sexy 34-year old blonde with amazing body. I can’t get enough of her. I enjoy guys looking at her and I want to see her with another man.

We have been fantasizing about threesome for some years now. The porn we watch together (selected usually by my wife) is amateur dp/group sex. My wife comes always in just seconds when porn is on, and she likes the thought of someone fucking her while my cock is in her mouth.

A few months ago I had a revelation about myself an realized my fantasy about threesome was always about my wife getting fucked.

A couple months ago I told this to my wife and I thought we would be taking some steps forward as we had a very good talk and she agreed that she likes the idea. At that time her worries were that ”how could she let another man touch her”, and that she” needed intimacy”.

Some weeks passed and there were no further talks about the subject. I gave her time but she never brought the idea up. I then told her that I would like us to be more open, have more sex with toys (that she doesnt like much) and just generally I would like her to fantazise and be hornier. She got a bit upset and defensive. But something changed after she had time to think. We’ve had very good, intimate sex lately and she’s been much hornier and wants more sex.

Yesterday somehow she brought up the topic of fantasies again while we were out, drinking aperol and getting a bit tipsy. I thought it’s the perfect chance to to bring up the subject again and this time I explained every detail of my fantasy. There were some misunderstandings, she thought I still want a threesome or even a ”green card” so we both could fuck others. I explained I have no such desires, I only want to see another man on her and his cock i side her.

She got very horny and said she’s all wet after the talks. She started asking that ”how about protection and what if she would suck his cock”. I said suck without but fuck with condom. She was like ”is that enough?”.
After she said that she has to like the guy. Appearance and behaviour. Remember, previously she needed intimacy…that barrier is gone now.

I kept going, I said I found a place where she can sext with guys with same fantasy, she was not very eager but when I explained how it works, she agreed to try.

After that I mentioned Swingers club around us, saying that we should go check it out, have drinks and feel the mood, that we dont need to do anything but watch. She got very exited, said that she didnt know there are places like that around us and she wants to go.

So I hope next weekend we’ll check the club and there anything can happen.

sounds like she coming round to the idea, you can go to a sex clbu, adult book store or theatre, she can watch and take it all in, if she wants she can join in, its a win win for you both. If she doesn't join in anything, she will probably be still turned on from watching. what's the site you was on about?

 

[robbiewillsucku]

Sounds like she is getting wet and horny thinking about cuckold you mmm

 

[Curious136]

I look forward to hearing how your trip to the swingers club goes.

 

[Robert Smith]

You need to clarify what both of you want and expect before going to swing clubs or engaging in sex with another man. If you don't you may regret it.

 

[Mywifeneedscock]

You need to clarify what both of you want and expect before going to swing clubs or engaging in sex with another man. If you don't you may regret it.

Thanks for the tip. Yes I will definetely discuss the boundaries and what might happen. What kind of scenario you have on mind that we could regret?

 

[robbiewillsucku]

Thanks for the tip. Yes I will definetely discuss the boundaries and what might happen. What kind of scenario you have on mind that we could regret?

Willing to do anything that she wants.

 

[Mywifeneedscock]

Willing to do anything that she wants.

If she would want to suck or fuck there, I’m all in for it. What I need to discuss with her how she should handle her quilt if she would feel it after.

 

[Robert Smith]

Thanks for the tip. Yes I will definetely discuss the boundaries and what might happen. What kind of scenario you have on mind that we could regret?

There are too many to list. You just need to talk to her about what she wants and what you would like before walking into a sex club situation and expecting all to magically just work out. I did that with my first wife and it ended up with too much drama, emotions, jealousy, etc. I did not make that mistake with my present wife Elaine and we have enjoyed 30 years in the LS

 

[Sgt Ray]

I’m making this post to report progress as we are going forward making the fantasy reality. I’ve been discussing some things in other threads, but for those who are interested, I’ll start from the beginning.

We are a couple, very much in love. My wife is a very beautiful, sexy 34-year old blonde with amazing body. I can’t get enough of her. I enjoy guys looking at her and I want to see her with another man.

We have been fantasizing about threesome for some years now. The porn we watch together (selected usually by my wife) is amateur dp/group sex. My wife comes always in just seconds when porn is on, and she likes the thought of someone fucking her while my cock is in her mouth.

A few months ago I had a revelation about myself an realized my fantasy about threesome was always about my wife getting fucked.

A couple months ago I told this to my wife and I thought we would be taking some steps forward as we had a very good talk and she agreed that she likes the idea. At that time her worries were that ”how could she let another man touch her”, and that she” needed intimacy”.

Some weeks passed and there were no further talks about the subject. I gave her time but she never brought the idea up. I then told her that I would like us to be more open, have more sex with toys (that she doesnt like much) and just generally I would like her to fantazise and be hornier. She got a bit upset and defensive. But something changed after she had time to think. We’ve had very good, intimate sex lately and she’s been much hornier and wants more sex.

Yesterday somehow she brought up the topic of fantasies again while we were out, drinking aperol and getting a bit tipsy. I thought it’s the perfect chance to to bring up the subject again and this time I explained every detail of my fantasy. There were some misunderstandings, she thought I still want a threesome or even a ”green card” so we both could fuck others. I explained I have no such desires, I only want to see another man on her and his cock i side her.

She got very horny and said she’s all wet after the talks. She started asking that ”how about protection and what if she would suck his cock”. I said suck without but fuck with condom. She was like ”is that enough?”.
After she said that she has to like the guy. Appearance and behaviour. Remember, previously she needed intimacy…that barrier is gone now.

I kept going, I said I found a place where she can sext with guys with same fantasy, she was not very eager but when I explained how it works, she agreed to try.

After that I mentioned Swingers club around us, saying that we should go check it out, have drinks and feel the mood, that we dont need to do anything but watch. She got very exited, said that she didnt know there are places like that around us and she wants to go.

So I hope next weekend we’ll check the club and there anything can happen.

A place where she cud sext with guys???
How about telling us about that place??

 

[Mywifeneedscock]

A place where she cud sext with guys???
How about telling us about that place??

Not sure about the forum rules about posting apps/sites but you could google with cuckold chat.

 

[Sgt Ray]

Understand. Thanks.

 

[Mywifeneedscock]

Okay, things are happening. We had a good evening with wine, I felt tired and came to bed. After an hour I went to toilet and my wife heard I’m still awake. She came to bed under my blanket very horny and we had the most amazing sex. She even told me she wanted to try something new, and put my hand on her throat. I fucked her very hard and she was just asking for more.

Sex has been just mind blowing lately. After we talked, she said she’s been reading about the subject and go so horny. She wants to definetely proceed with the idea, but she came up with new fears, that what if we destroy something in our relationship.

Another fear was that what if something awakens in her. She’s the most devoted wife and she would never cheat. But damn if she gets another cock and likes it, it might awaken a whore that she’s been locking up inside of her.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

Okay, things are happening. We had a good evening with wine, I felt tired and came to bed. After an hour I went to toilet and my wife heard I’m still awake. She came to bed under my blanket very horny and we had the most amazing sex. She even told me she wanted to try something new, and put my hand on her throat. I fucked her very hard and she was just asking for more.

Sex has been just mind blowing lately. After we talked, she said she’s been reading about the subject and go so horny. She wants to definetely proceed with the idea, but she came up with new fears, that what if we destroy something in our relationship.

Another fear was that what if something awakens in her. She’s the most devoted wife and she would never cheat. But damn if she gets another cock and likes it, it might awaken a whore that she’s been locking up inside of her.

If she gets another cock and likes it --- encourage her to fuck any cock she wants then share the details with you as she rides your face.

 

[ep46wksp]

Okay, things are happening. We had a good evening with wine, I felt tired and came to bed. After an hour I went to toilet and my wife heard I’m still awake. She came to bed under my blanket very horny and we had the most amazing sex. She even told me she wanted to try something new, and put my hand on her throat. I fucked her very hard and she was just asking for more.

Sex has been just mind blowing lately. After we talked, she said she’s been reading about the subject and go so horny. She wants to definetely proceed with the idea, but she came up with new fears, that what if we destroy something in our relationship.

Another fear was that what if something awakens in her. She’s the most devoted wife and she would never cheat. But damn if she gets another cock and likes it, it might awaken a whore that she’s been locking up inside of her.

You need to talk through her concerns and what she wants. Let her know how you will feel if she wants more

 

[Mywifeneedscock]

Another small step today. We came back from the weekend trip. This weekend really was a game changer. Already in the car she said ”when we get home she needs to masturbate”. I also said I’m already hard and I said I’ll join, but then a thought crossed me that she needs her private time to process what we discussed and what we read so I just said yea, lets do it on our own.

We got home and after clearing our stuff, we went on separate rooms. I was done pretty quick but she stayed by herself for 30mins. Usually she’s done in 5, max 10. I asked her that I guess she had a nice session, she just smiled and said yes I thought it’s better to leave the further questions, as she clearly didnt want to share details this time.

I can only imagine what she was thinking, but this is really good. She’s becoming very active sexually.

 

[Sgt Ray]

Way to go! Easy does it, nice & slow.
Make sure she knows you're ok with it.
Relax, chill....let it happen.
She love you for it!

 

[ep46wksp]

Another small step today. We came back from the weekend trip. This weekend really was a game changer. Already in the car she said ”when we get home she needs to masturbate”. I also said I’m already hard and I said I’ll join, but then a thought crossed me that she needs her private time to process what we discussed and what we read so I just said yea, lets do it on our own.

We got home and after clearing our stuff, we went on separate rooms. I was done pretty quick but she stayed by herself for 30mins. Usually she’s done in 5, max 10. I asked her that I guess she had a nice session, she just smiled and said yes I thought it’s better to leave the further questions, as she clearly didnt want to share details this time.

I can only imagine what she was thinking, but this is really good. She’s becoming very active sexually.

you need to talk to her, she might be very turned by the thought, but the reality is another thing. Ask her what she wants to do

 

[Mywifeneedscock]

you need to talk to her, she might be very turned by the thought, but the reality is another thing. Ask her what she wants to do

Yes we will talk more this week/next weekend. She already asked me that we should talk and I responded that yes indeed, we have a lot of things to discuss before making this real. But she wants to proceed with all things related to it, just the last step is worrying her a bit but I think she’ll come around pretty quick, I mean, she just a couple of days ago settled with the topic in her mind, I guess I have to give her a bit of time before she’ll open her legs for another man.

I was reading the experiences of @Robert Smith and the first experience with a guy only touching his gf was very exiting. Maybe that she would let someone do, touch her ass, rub her clit and caress her boobs while she fucks / sucks me. Possibly it is such a turn on she might ask a cock in her. It’s a bit of fantasy but I think scenario like this could easily happen at swingers club. Just need to get her there.