The making of Mrs Ward

2wheel

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This is a classic case of guilt and shame she's feeling. She gave her little married pussy to somebody else, had fun but then started feeling regrets. No way she wants to tell you right now because of how she's feeling. The good news is she will get over this guilt and go back at it. Maybe the guy she let fuck her turned out to be an asshole or something and made her feel bad. It's difficult to say. That said, you can be confident now that every time you see her little ass and pussy you know it's been given to somebody else. That mouth when you kiss her, you can just sense there's been another guy's cock in it and he enjoyed your wife's mouth and pussy immensely.

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I agree. Guilt.
 

simonward

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I absolutely wish, with all of my heart and soul, that this was the case. But I'm 100% sure that it isn't.

It's more likely something I've done.

I don't think that I have any chance of making her a hotwife to be honest. I don't think that there is any circumstance that she would cheat on me. She doesn't find other men attractive.
 
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"But... She went away for a week. Before that she was wearing the anklet, talking dirty, using positions she'd not used before, sex was amazing, she was dressing slutty etc. She came back different."

Where did she go?
 

Bullish4u2

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I definitely want her.

She isn't going to go for topless, or naked resorts, or anywhere that is anything to do with swinging. I think the idea of swinging scares her. She doesn't want to share me.

This month sex has gone all vanilla and average now. The only chink of light was that she said, (after watching a TV show,) "If I fucked a guy at a party, and left my knickers behind, you would probably just laugh." This at least shows that she is starting to trust that she can do what she wants without fear of upsetting me.

Maybe i need to stop pleasuring her? So that she has to find it somewhere else.

She deserves to be promiscuous. I feel sick. It's such a waste.

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simonward

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She just went visiting relatives. It is possible that she fucked someone but I think it's unlikely.

I think I know what the change is about.

She says that I am either too passive and touchy and slow, or too fast and rough with her. I told her (again) that she should find someone who can make it like she wants it. That triggered a conversation in which she basically accused me of wanting to get with other women.

I tried to assure her that isn't the case. I don't think she was buying it though. She eventually told me to stop talking. She took over control and we went on to have sex which was great sex from my point of view. I got to lay back and watch as she rode my cock in a variety of flexible and athletic ways. (The first time she has done that since she went away.) I eventually had her cumming real hard but she didn't get the sex that she wanted. The sex where she is submissive.

All of the sex that we've been having lately. The sex which has been bang average. The sex that she has been complaining about. Has all been where I am in the dominant roll. In fact, looking back, Most of the great sex that we previously had was with her in charge. All the crap sex was with me dominating. Although there was also some great sex, with me dominating, when I thought I had her fantasising. So I think there are two things going on here.

One, she wants to be dominated. I am basically a sub so that's not something I can do very well. This is not a bad thing from the potential hotwife point of view.

Two, she thinks all of the things that I've said to her, hinting at, or (just before her behaviour change,) actually suggesting getting another guy involved, are about me wanting to lie back and watch another girl grind on my cock. This is a problem.
 
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simonward

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Ok so yesterday I told her I needed to tell her something and we had a conversation. I basically told her that she is free to do whatever she likes. Effectively she is in an open relationship whilst for me the doors are closed. Which is what I want. I've locked and barred them. I will be monogamous.

She sat on top of me laughing and just shrugged it all off. Later on in the evening she said that she'd been worried about what the conversation was going to be about and it 'turned out to just be bullshit'.

She was affectionate all evening. Lots of hugging and kissing.

What should I make of this reaction?

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Bullish4u2

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Ok so yesterday I told her I needed to tell her something and we had a conversation. I basically told her that she is free to do whatever she likes. Effectively she is in an open relationship whilst for me the doors are closed. Which is what I want. I've locked and barred them. I will be monogamous.

She sat on top of me laughing and just shrugged it all off. Later on in the evening she said that she'd been worried about what the conversation was going to be about and it 'turned out to just be bullshit'.

She was affectionate all evening. Lots of hugging and kissing.

What should I make of this reaction?

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Ok so yesterday I told her I needed to tell her something and we had a conversation. I basically told her that she is free to do whatever she likes. Effectively she is in an open relationship whilst for me the doors are closed. Which is what I want. I've locked and barred them. I will be monogamous.

She sat on top of me laughing and just shrugged it all off. Later on in the evening she said that she'd been worried about what the conversation was going to be about and it 'turned out to just be bullshit'.

She was affectionate all evening. Lots of hugging and kissing.

What should I make of this reaction?

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I don't think she is interested..... I think she is hot? Tell her I said so too. lol
 
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"She sat on top of me laughing and just shrugged it all off. Later on in the evening she said that she'd been worried about what the conversation was going to be about and it 'turned out to just be bullshit'.

She was affectionate all evening. Lots of hugging and kissing.

"Before that she was wearing the anklet, talking dirty, using positions she'd not used before, sex was amazing, she was dressing slutty etc."

Why not go with all that? Ask her just to play along with your kink. Say it is embarrassing but the idea of sharing her gets you going. Didn't hurt with her too. Remind her about the anklet, dressing slutty and how it led to amazing positions and sex. Suggest she acts as if she's playing even though she isn't. When she goes out for a night with her friends, suggest she stays longer, comes back and gives the impression she's had some fun. Perhaps even tells you a story she makes up to feed your kink. See where that leads.

Secretly, though, each time she comes back from a night out, keep checking the panties as you did earlier, and perhaps one night you'll see some traces.
That's how my own play with one guy's wife was discovered to his excitement.
 
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When she comes home, either say you need to "clean" her, or if she wants you to be more dominant, say you have to "reclaim" her. Get her involved to play along, so she looks forward to it. One night she'll remember you gave permission and act on it to surprise you.
 

MissMyWife

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She isn't going to go for topless, or naked resorts, or anywhere that is anything to do with swinging. I think the idea of swinging scares her. She doesn't want to share me.

This month sex has gone all vanilla and average now. The only chink of light was that she said, (after watching a TV show,) "If I fucked a guy at a party, and left my knickers behind, you would probably just laugh." This at least shows that she is starting to trust that she can do what she wants without fear of upsetting me.

Maybe i need to stop pleasuring her? So that she has to find it somewhere else.

She deserves to be promiscuous. I feel sick. It's such a waste.

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MissMyWife

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Your wife obviously loves you and the lifestyle you have together.... don’t keep suggesting that she does things that you want her to do. She will live her life if she feels in control.
From experience, my wife’s reactions seem similar to yours. She doesn’t like to be how I would like her.....wearing stockings and bedroom lingerie, dress sexy in public, flirt with men when we’re out together without friends or go find a lover. My wife also gets concerned when I discuss anything that’s to do with sharing her.
She just wants to be herself.....
Be vanilla in bed one day, then be a slut in bed another time.
She’ll wear a bikini, go topless, wear a bathing suit, go naked, depends on her mood and environment.
Go out with her girlfriends and come home early
When out again she maybe be home late, then sometimes she’ll plan to stay away and come home the next day.
If you suspect her of having sex with others, ask her in a nice caring way, you maybe surprised by her answer as I did.
 

simonward

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"Your wife obviously loves you and the lifestyle you have together."

Yes I think you are absolutely right. But I think that there is hope. Since I told her that she has a free pass we've been having sex at least every other day. I've been struggling to keep up. I've been faking orgasms. She always cums hard. She asked me after one session recently if i was going to suck my cum back out of her pussy. I didn't. (There wasn't any.) In the morning I told her that I would if she really wanted me to. She said that she was joking and that she can't think of anything more disgusting. She did think of it though. With no prompting or hinting from me. She's also been pinching my nipples and talking about putting electric nipple clamps on me.

Just this weekend she initiated a really steamy session and I couldn't get an erection. She was literally dripping wet and I couldn't give her cock. This has obviously upset her and she is now scared to initiate anything in case it happens again. Whilst I was upset about it I'm now seeing this as a golden opportunity. I told her, later that night, that I can only get an erection if I take viagra and that I've been taking it all the time. I told her that I'm not going to take it any more and that I want her to find someone else to have sex with. She accused me of 'playing mind games'. I'm not sure what she meant by that.

Going forward I'm planning to stop having sex with her altogether. Erectile dysfunction. Not prepared to take viagra any more. Can't do it. I'll carry on making her feel sexy and turning her on. She's away at a conference with work soon. She'll have gone from having sex 4 times a week to having had no cock for a month. So hopefully her pussy will be dripping and in the meantime I'll keep encouraging her to take another man's cock.

 

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"Your wife obviously loves you and the lifestyle you have together."

Yes I think you are absolutely right. But I think that there is hope. Since I told her that she has a free pass we've been having sex at least every other day. I've been struggling to keep up. I've been faking orgasms. She always cums hard. She asked me after one session recently if i was going to suck my cum back out of her pussy. I didn't. (There wasn't any.) In the morning I told her that I would if she really wanted me to. She said that she was joking and that she can't think of anything more disgusting. She did think of it though. With no prompting or hinting from me. She's also been pinching my nipples and talking about putting electric nipple clamps on me.

Just this weekend she initiated a really steamy session and I couldn't get an erection. She was literally dripping wet and I couldn't give her cock. This has obviously upset her and she is now scared to initiate anything in case it happens again. Whilst I was upset about it I'm now seeing this as a golden opportunity. I told her, later that night, that I can only get an erection if I take viagra and that I've been taking it all the time. I told her that I'm not going to take it any more and that I want her to find someone else to have sex with. She accused me of 'playing mind games'. I'm not sure what she meant by that.

Going forward I'm planning to stop having sex with her altogether. Erectile dysfunction. Not prepared to take viagra any more. Can't do it. I'll carry on making her feel sexy and turning her on. She's away at a conference with work soon. She'll have gone from having sex 4 times a week to having had no cock for a month. So hopefully her pussy will be dripping and in the meantime I'll keep encouraging her to take another man's cock.

These things she talks about with you she is actually interested in and the thought of them turns her on. Naturally her defense mechanism is saying that she was just kidding and she finds this or that disgusting...because she is embarrassed that she has mentioned those things. Encourage them...but in a tender way. Creampie eating...tell her you've wondered about that too....thought about it and think it would be so much easier if it was somebody else's creampie. Many guys are that way...tell her you've read some stories about it and guys seem to enjoy it....as far as nipple clamps....awesome! Go to the sex shop and purchase some light BDSM stuff like that...non threatening but fun for you to try together, a vibrator, very small but plug....just get an assortment of small but out of the ordinary type sex devices. Just a few. Perhaps have a vibrator ready to use on her when you are giving her oral and surprise her with it. Put a blindfold on her and tell her to just relax, you have a little surprise. Same with nipple clips and butt plug. Give her oral on her ass very gently and work on it for a few sessions, then use the plug with lots of lube. You need to encourage these things without getting extreme and cutting her off. Use Viagra if you need to, why not? She will be fun as she grows accustomed to these little things. Also, fantasy talk is super important. Fantasy talk led Mrs Hotwife to take the plunge...along with some experimentation after much fantasy talk over a long period of time. When the time came she felt empowered to go for it without my having to give her any "permission"....I wasn't there but she felt like she could do it...and she did...and it was fantastic. It led to her liberation as a hotwife and empowerment, confidence, pleasure, amazing sex life, etc. Let her talk and let her know that NOTHING she says will upset you or gross you out, etc.

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