The making of Mrs Ward

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She is a fine looking woman with a fantastic ass look after her mate or she will find a man with a big tool lol like big bull he will do the job and I will clean them for you,,,, it happens so be warned T...
 

simonward

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Dang, Simon! So post #17 is where you two are really and truly at? The 2 of you need to sit down and have an honest and open talk about it. If you decide to jump into the hotwife lifestyle, the 2 of you need to decide on some hard and fast rules and stick to them. Our only rule is no old boyfriends, girlfriends that we had an emotional attachment to. Like 2 wheel said, a lot of people look back later in life and say "I wish..." We are 2 of those people. We got married in our 30's....started swinging in our late 30's, and didn't really evolve into the Hotwife life until our late 40's or early 50's. Suz is an absolute horny assed fuck machine, and wishes we had been hotwifing exclusively the whole time. She has had more cock than most women can dream of, and wants more every day! We are early 60's, and know time is running out, and wish we had more of it. I guess I said all that to say this....don't waste what precious time you have. The 2 of you should be what you want to be, be each others best friends, make a fun game of the Hotwife lifestyle, and enjoy every second of it. Remember....it's just a fun game, and you and the beautiful Mrs. Ward are co-captains of your team. Now, go have a FUN game!

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Post 17 was me waking up and realizing that I had the perfect material for a hotwife. But, rather than encouraging her to be promiscuous, my possessive jealous behavior over the years influenced her to settle into faithful monogamy. (Which she may well have wanted to do anyway.) That is what I was confessing to.

She may have been unfaithful over the years, who knows? I've harbored suspicions like any husband. They may well be paranoid delusion powered my suppressed (until now) desire for them to have solid foundation. If she has been unfaithful she is keeping it well under wraps and she isn't going to open up about it.

Recently I have said some things that have clearly been suggestive that she is free to have sex with whomever she wants and that she should do just that. Laid in bed the other day she told me that she does not want to have sex with anyone other than me.

Unfortunately that is where we are at. Basically nowhere after all my effort over the last 14 months. As per my confession (post 17) I only have myself to blame for this.
 
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Post 17 was me waking up and realizing that I had he perfect material for a hotwife. But, rather than encouraging her to be promiscuous, my possessive jealous behavior over the years influenced her to settle into faithful monogamy. (Which she may well have wanted to do anyway.) That is what I was confessing to.

She may have been unfaithful over the years, who knows? I've harbored suspicions like any husband. They may well be paranoid delusion powered my suppressed (until now) desire for them to have solid foundation. If she has been unfaithful she is keeping it well under wraps and she isn't going to open up about it.

Recently I have said some things that have clearly been suggestive that she is free to have sex with whomever she wants and that she should do just that. Laid in bed the other day she told me that she does not want to have sex with anyone other than me.

Unfortunately that is where we are at. Basically nowhere after all my effort over the last 14 months. As per my confession (post 17) I only have myself to blame for this.
Hang in there, make sure she knows if she fucks someone else that you have no desire to fuck another woman, watch some cuckold videos and point out different things to her, let her know how it turns you on!!!! Don't give up!!
 

simonward

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Thanks,

I think she would be well put off by the cuckold vids.

Interestingly, I was putting talking dirty and a big increase in the quality and occurrence of sex down to the anklet. But I've realized that one night I was struggling to turn her on and I told her that she should find someone else to bang her, and I will still love her, and be faithful to her. We then had amazing sex. During which she looked deep into my eyes and she had the best orgasm ever. Right after day that the talking dirty started and the sex has been on fire. Two weeks after that she asked me to buy her the anklet. Which, incidentally, she has stopped wearing in the last few weeks.

What ever I say to her now she is adamant that she only wants to have sex with me.
 
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6inches

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Thanks,

I think she would be well put off by the cuckold vids.

Interestingly, I was putting talking dirty and a big increase in the quality and occurrence of sex down to the anklet. But I've realized that one night I was struggling to turn her on and I told her that she should find someone else to bang her, and I will still love her, and be faithful to her. We then had amazing sex. During which she looked deep into my eyes and she had the best orgasm ever. Right after day that the talking dirty started and the sex has been on fire. Two weeks after that she asked me to buy her the anklet. Which, incidentally, she has stopped wearing in the last few weeks.

What ever I say to her now she is adamant that she only wants to have sex with me.
Go slow don't bring it up for a while, find someone she lusts after, whether someone you know, or even a Hollywood celebrity, and use them in a fantasy, find a way to interest her. Maybe you can ask her to play along as a fastasy hotwife? Do you talk about your fantasies?

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simonward

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She says that she doesn't have any. Also says she doesn't fancy anyone but me. Celebrities included. That's bull though. I know at least one film star that she'd have her knickers off for in a heartbeat.
 
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simonward

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The other day I took the kids out for the day and left her at home. She didn't want to come along for some reason. As we left I told her to 'find someone to have fun with'. She gave me a puzzled look.

When we got home she had changed her clothes. I found her sexiest knickers in the wash basket. Do you think maybe she had some fun or am I just too hopeful?

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The other day I took the kids out for the day and left her at home. She didn't want to come along for some reason. As we left I told her to 'find someone to have fun with'. She gave me a puzzled look.

When we got home she had changed her clothes. I found her sexiest knickers in the wash basket. Do you think maybe she had some fun or am I just too hopeful?

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Sorry looks like natural discharge. Keep hoping tho !
 

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This question isn't meant to be off putting but is she "prudish"? It sounds like she's not. Is she shy about her body or does she realize she's such a hottie? I ask because we believe that if she's not too shy to say....go topless at a beach or resort, being around other topless or nude hotties might make her less reserved. Even if she doesn't get topless right away then maybe just being around topless or nude people might be fun for her, sexy and allow her the confidence to realize that there's fun to be had nude.

Eventually, girls might flirt with her a bit and she might let her guard down and act on that a bit, even if it's just dancing, rubbing and perhaps kissing. The other girls are the least threatening path to what you desire her to do. She can talk to other wives and hang out with them to see how happy lifestyle couples can be. Mrs HW and I often comment about how we can't imagine life without this freedom. We are as close and in love as a couple can be. We just don't have hangups about sex and we ENJOY everything that comes with responsible lifestyle participation. We have this bond and we have an off the chart sex life.

Bottom line, she really needs to understand that sex is just sex. We only live once and we're only young and hot like her for a certain period of time. It might be worth it to give up on too much pressuring her and instead, take her on a topless (nude optional) vacation to relax and see how much fun sexual liberation can be. Don't pressure her when you get there.

She can PM Mrs HW on here or ask a question in public if she wants. That shouldn't be too much of a problem for her since there is no pressure, nobody here knows her and she can get another perspective. There seem to be a few other legitimate lifestyle hotties on here who have healthy lifestyle relationships as well.

We love Hidden Beach Resort just south of Cancun Mexico. It's NOT a swinger place but you could probably find some action if you are so inclined. Get a room with a swim up patio, and just enjoy fun and games with naked people. You can go on nude excursions as well if you wish. Desire Resort type places are fun but she might be intimidated with some open sex at the rooftop hot tube area. The thing about Desire though....if you walk around in clothes, you will feel as if you were at a bar in your hometown naked!! It's just natural to get naked at these places and feels right. She can put a cover up on to walk around or wear bikini bottom or bikini top and bottom if she wants.

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She says that she doesn't have any. Also says she doesn't fancy anyone but me. Celebrities included. That's bull though. I know at least one film star that she'd have her knickers off for in a heartbeat.
I am in the exact same boat. I can not understand why my wife won't admit that while we do love each other very much, sex has become stale.
 

simonward

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She isn't going to go for topless, or naked resorts, or anywhere that is anything to do with swinging. I think the idea of swinging scares her. She doesn't want to share me.

This month sex has gone all vanilla and average now. The only chink of light was that she said, (after watching a TV show,) "If I fucked a guy at a party, and left my knickers behind, you would probably just laugh." This at least shows that she is starting to trust that she can do what she wants without fear of upsetting me.

Maybe i need to stop pleasuring her? So that she has to find it somewhere else.

She deserves to be promiscuous. I feel sick. It's such a waste.

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simonward

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Ok so sex is still all missionary and no talking dirty. She's not wearing the anklet and she's not dressing hot any more. She is constantly telling me how much she loves me and that she does not want to have sex with anyone other than me. This change happened around a month ago.

I had thought that is was maybe because I pushed too hard. i said some things that clearly suggested that I want her to have sex with whomever she wants and that she should do just that.

But... She went away for a week. Before that she was wearing the anklet, talking dirty, using positions she'd not used before, sex was amazing, she was dressing slutty etc. She came back different.

So what do you guys reckon? Might it not be something that I did wrong???
 

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Ok so sex is still all missionary and no talking dirty. She's not wearing the anklet and she's not dressing hot any more. She is constantly telling me how much she loves me and that she does not want to have sex with anyone other than me. This change happened around a month ago.

I had thought that is was maybe because I pushed too hard. i said some things that clearly suggested that I want her to have sex with whomever she wants and that she should do just that.

But... She went away for a week. Before that she was wearing the anklet, talking dirty, using positions she'd not used before, sex was amazing, she was dressing slutty etc. She came back different.

So what do you guys reckon? Might it not be something that I did wrong???
This is a classic case of guilt and shame she's feeling. She gave her little married pussy to somebody else, had fun but then started feeling regrets. No way she wants to tell you right now because of how she's feeling. The good news is she will get over this guilt and go back at it. Maybe the guy she let fuck her turned out to be an asshole or something and made her feel bad. It's difficult to say. That said, you can be confident now that every time you see her little ass and pussy you know it's been given to somebody else. That mouth when you kiss her, you can just sense there's been another guy's cock in it and he enjoyed your wife's mouth and pussy immensely.

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simonward

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Thanks. I would so love that to be the case. I think it's a bit hopeful though. I doubt I will have got that lucky.