Not really shamed....but this is how my wife outed us...I am not bothered at all now.... her female friends seem okay with it and me... and the few snide remarks form the husbands don't bother me. its our life and we live as we see fit.
Recently we were invited to a small dinner party at a restaurant to celebrate one of my MISTRESSES gay friends birthday. As usual I prepared MISTRESSES clothes etc. whilst she was showering, I dried her, helped her dress and went to shower myself. When I returned there were panties, stockings and cock cage on the bed for me to wear: not that unusual. As I dressed MISTRESS took several photos of my attire and me, also not that unusual.
On arriving at the restaurant I realized I was the only male. I knew some of the ladies but not all. After food and too many drinks the tongues began to wag. I had noticed earlier my wife and one of her close friends talking and giggling with the odd glance my way, not long after the friend came over and whispered " I love your underwear" and kissed me on the cheek grinning wildly, I could have died, I went scarlet with embarrassment and looked straight at my grinning wife. With that the friend returned to her seat and they whispered and giggled together.
I left the table and sat on a settee and chatted to a couple I knew. They left so I returned to the table to see my wife with her phone showing the rest of the table the pictures. I didn’t know which way to look!!! But to their surprise, I showed no embarrassment and just smiled at them. There were lots of comments, smiles and innuendos, most of which I ignored. The party ended and we left.
On the way home my wife revealed that all but one of the women were quite taken with my pictures and lack of concern at them knowing.
I have since learned that one of the ladies has made it common knowledge at her work of our secret. Not a secret anymore. We live in a relatively small city where everybody is related, so it's only a matter of time before my family find out. There is nothing I can do now but accept it!