Trying make my wife a Hotwife - Am I on the good way?
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Thanks for your reply, I know you are a experienced male in the lifestyle. So, why do you think that?
HotAsianwife
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Once your wife starts being ejaculated in. You can then start to enjoy the silky smooth feeling of cum lubricanting the walls of her vagina. This is the gold standard by which every man aspires to. After this point. Your penis will never be the same again. You will not last inside your wife more than 2-3 minutes because you will know her pussy has become a cum dump for other men to enjoy. However, you should not get jealous of her relationship with other men. Just enjoy her body being shared and used for many men’s pleasure. It will take you time to adjust.
That’s my advice to you.
That’s my advice to you.
Excellent advice. Hope I get to share my wife soon and experience this as well.
thebeginner
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I agree with HotAsianwife. The only way to convince your 'wife' to be a 'hotwife' is building trust with her and convincing her that the experience will only strengthen your relationship. But please don't give up hope. Take it from someone that was successful in this realm.
I first brought up the idea with my wife 6 years ago. Her initial response, "...that sounds like a great fantasy for us honey, but I don't think I could do that for real". Fast forward and she had her first experience a couple months ago. She absolutely loved it. But as you can see, it didn't happen over-night. On many occasions I had given up hope. Gave up more than once in utter frustration only to continue what I began to think was an exercise in futility. And it may sound strange to some, but for me, having a hotwife is not a kink but who I am. There were times I was thinking divorce.
How did she finally make the leap? Patience and persistence. I didn't give up, but I also didn't push too hard. I asked her about her reservations, her fears. For her, it was that it might somehow damage our relationship. I kept reinforcing over and over how this would only improve and strengthen our bond. How it would improve our sex. That it was an experience we would both 'share together' as a couple. Not just an experience that one of us (primarily me) would get off on. It may sound silly, but it's like teaching someone who has a fear of water to swim. You don't do that by throwing them into the deep end of the pool.
You start by getting their feet wet, so to speak. For us, that meant the fantasy being a constant part of our sex life. We never had sex without hotwife dirty talk and role playing - which she enjoyed. It sounds like your wife is very much into these role play fantasies as well. Start there. All women have sexual fantasies, even if they are shy or reluctant to share them. When you're having sex ask her and encourage and play along. My wife is a natural sub, so she has fantasies about being used for sex by men. It was an easy place to start. I also introduced hotwife porn into our sex so she would get use to the idea of two men/one woman. And, seeing other hotwifes getting ready for a date with a bull, and seeing their happy, proud husbands.
Eventually, all this piqued her curiosity and led her to doing her own research. She started reporting back to me about how hotwifing is a very common fantasy with many men. This normalized it for her. That it wasn't something weird, or just me. And it wasn't some sort of ruse for me to have sex with other women. And by participating she would be supporting me, being a good wife, so to speak. She also started watching her own hotwife porn, and reading hot stories from other hotwifes.
The final step was finding 'the right' guy. This also took time. It's a whole other obstacle. We used a few different methods and dating sites. Once you get your wife to set up a profile, it can be transformational. Typically, women will get swamped by guys trying to sleep with them - it can really improve their sense of sexiness and attractiveness. They will get turned on by so many guys wanting them for sex.
The final key for me was letting her post and find the guy that she was attracted to the most. With the confidence of knowing they are extremely desirable, coupled with the fact that they have your consent to have sex with another guy while in a trusting and loving relationship, it will allow her to take the last step - even if it's just meeting a guy for drinks knowing he wants to fuck her. It's extremely empowering for her.
It was a lot of up-front work, but by the end, it all went pretty fast. The week she posted she was really in the mood and feeling sexy. She got a flood of responses. She found a guy that she was really attracted to and they were able to meet in short order. They met for drinks to test the chemistry - and about 2 hours later they were in our bed naked licking, sucking and fucking. I came home to cum and sweat soaked sheets.
I cannot tell you how much it was all worth the wait!!!
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I thanks for your reply! Well this part "Your penis will never be the same again. You will not last inside your wife more than 2-3 minutes" that happened to me the first time I fucked her after use a big dildo 8x6in in her!! 😂 She was so wetttt, so loose, couldn't barely fell her pussy's walls. Never felt her like that before. I just came so quick!!!!
Hi, thank you for your reply! Very detailed! I speak a lot with my wife about that, mostly by text, I think she is more comfortable at beginning. And a lot of roleplay during sex sometimes. I could say I'm about your 4rd paragraph more or less. But looks like we are are on the right track lol only the future will say. But more I know about other couples it's easy to establish a comparation and looks like all of you start, more or less, with the same steps. Last night I text her about this again while she was at work. Always a turn on! She now asks me about my feelings about it too, what I would think watching her or knowing she is with another guy. Also said she would be more comfortable alone and tell me about it later and that kind of things but always finish saying she couldn't be capable to to that, she doesn't imagine herself doing that and that kind of stuff. Well, keep sow the seed 😉
So, a few nights ago my wife gone out with a friend, a single girl, she was super sexy with a very revealing cleavage. I was teasing her with messages about how she took looks from other guys and sent her some pics of hot guys with hard big ones. When she arrive I was super excited waiting and took her to my bed putt her tits out and start kiss and grab vigorous
She: are you so beautiful excited!! What you think about?
Me: I'm sure a lot of guys take a look of those beauties
She: some, and some I liked . Took my jacket to make sure the cleavage was visible
Then she slide her hand inside my shorts and started grab my ball and the stroke my hard cock
She: it looks smaller than the pics you sent
Me: what
She: it looks smaller than the pics you sent
I made silence for about 20 seconds, it was totally unexpected. She was comparing my cock to the cock she saw on the pics I sent earlier.
Me: and you would like to be fucked by a bigger one
She: maybe! Today could take anything!
Fuck , I just want fuck her, imagining she being well fucked
Took her thong and exposed her beautiful tight pussy
She: you will.slide easily inside, today could take.bigger. I'm so excited.
I slide my cock in her, balls deep
She: you are almost there!
Are you thinking another guy fucking me?
Me: yes
She: and he is fucking me good!
Me: wow yes
We did this roleplay while I fucked her. Thinking where I would be or would do while the other guy fuck her and where she would like he cums. (Btw, inside her pussy she said) It was amazing sex. She came a lot. I unload my balls deep inside her.
What do you think? Sincere opinions 😉
She: are you so beautiful excited!! What you think about?
Me: I'm sure a lot of guys take a look of those beauties
She: some, and some I liked . Took my jacket to make sure the cleavage was visible
Then she slide her hand inside my shorts and started grab my ball and the stroke my hard cock
She: it looks smaller than the pics you sent
Me: what
She: it looks smaller than the pics you sent
I made silence for about 20 seconds, it was totally unexpected. She was comparing my cock to the cock she saw on the pics I sent earlier.
Me: and you would like to be fucked by a bigger one
She: maybe! Today could take anything!
Fuck , I just want fuck her, imagining she being well fucked
Took her thong and exposed her beautiful tight pussy
She: you will.slide easily inside, today could take.bigger. I'm so excited.
I slide my cock in her, balls deep
She: you are almost there!
Are you thinking another guy fucking me?
Me: yes
She: and he is fucking me good!
Me: wow yes
We did this roleplay while I fucked her. Thinking where I would be or would do while the other guy fuck her and where she would like he cums. (Btw, inside her pussy she said) It was amazing sex. She came a lot. I unload my balls deep inside her.
What do you think? Sincere opinions 😉
Sounds like she’s had a lot of attention and flirted with her admirers. You should encourage her to go out again and this time tell her to stay out overnight in a hotel with her girlfriend, so she can really enjoy herself.
Tell her she can continue where she left off with some of the guys she liked.
Hopefully your Wife got a few contact numbers
Tell her she can continue where she left off with some of the guys she liked.
Hopefully your Wife got a few contact numbers
If the two of you watch porn together, then buy some mmf and group type dvds. Then discuss them afterwards IF she will view them with you. YOu will be able to tell if she's turned on or off by them. If she grabs the remote and turns it off....bad idea. If she is glued to the screen, then you have your opening.
Well, I'm sure the idea turn her on. If you read all the thread you will understand that too. But the idea is one thing and do is another 😉
I sent her messages saying that on that night! She replied with "lol"Sounds like she’s had a lot of attention and flirted with her admirers. You should encourage her to go out again and this time tell her to stay out overnight in a hotel with her girlfriend, so she can really enjoy herself.
Tell her she can continue where she left off with some of the guys she liked.
Hopefully your Wife got a few contact numbers
She knows it’s ok with you… next time she will be looking for ‘XXXtra’ marital assistance
Where’s your Wife’s typical night out?
I sent a quiz to my wife other night and found some great answers! Will share some
Q: how many dicks have you sucked?
A: 4
Q: how many had cum in your mouth?
A: 3
Q: did you swallow all of them?
A: yes
Q: Have you ever imagined yourself sucking someone other than your husband?
A: yes, but few times
Q: already do you imagine yourself sucking two at the same time?
A: yes, more than few times
Q: already dis you imagine imagine yourself being fucked by other guy?
A: yes, but few times
Q: if you had sex with someone else, where would you prefer him to cum?
A: inside my pussy
Q: in what position would you like your husband see you fuck?
A: doggy
Q: if you had sex with someone else, what would you prefer your husband do?
A: let him watch someone else fuck me but without participating
Q: would you prefer the other guy has the cock...
A: bigger and thicker
Q: do you consider that after being penetrated by the big dildo
A: I can fuck a well endowed easily
Q: do you consider that, immediately after being penetrated by the big dildo
A: I could barely feel my husband's cock
She makes me crazy!!!
Q: how many dicks have you sucked?
A: 4
Q: how many had cum in your mouth?
A: 3
Q: did you swallow all of them?
A: yes
Q: Have you ever imagined yourself sucking someone other than your husband?
A: yes, but few times
Q: already do you imagine yourself sucking two at the same time?
A: yes, more than few times
Q: already dis you imagine imagine yourself being fucked by other guy?
A: yes, but few times
Q: if you had sex with someone else, where would you prefer him to cum?
A: inside my pussy
Q: in what position would you like your husband see you fuck?
A: doggy
Q: if you had sex with someone else, what would you prefer your husband do?
A: let him watch someone else fuck me but without participating
Q: would you prefer the other guy has the cock...
A: bigger and thicker
Q: do you consider that after being penetrated by the big dildo
A: I can fuck a well endowed easily
Q: do you consider that, immediately after being penetrated by the big dildo
A: I could barely feel my husband's cock
She makes me crazy!!!
let me just say she is one hot lady!!! she will have someone fucking her in minutes when she is ready!!! is her girlfriend a hotwife? if so get them out at the bars more often!!! i think shes ready for other cock. it will happen fast, then all of a sudden your your a cuckold. I hope after it happens you get to watch, and maybe play with them.
Her girlfriend is a single girl, already try some few different guys and they speak about that, my wife tell me about it later. One day she even said "I could do that too if I was not married and mother" lolol that just naked me thinking.....
Do you think so? Well, I think it's been further but I'm not sure...
If she knows you’re ok with her fucking others then she has no reason not to tell you, unless she enjoys seeing your agony of not knowing.
Maybe sneak a look at her antics when she’s out with her girlfriend.
I followed my wife one night and it was an eye opener 😈
I was speaking about her gf adventures with other guys, not my wife, yet.... Lol
What did you see?
Well, hubbysexwife, you asked me whether you are on the way to fulfilling your ambition of being the cuck to a hotwife. I can’t really answer that, as I wouldn’t call myself a hotwife. But as you know, I have been shared, with my husband‘s encouragement, and from that perspective I think you are well on the road to fulfilment. With me, I said to hubby No, No, No, it’s just a nice fantasy - until the moment was right. We’ll be following your progress!
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