We swing/share a little, so obviously the people we've had fun with. I've posted on social media some vanilla photos of a few of our visits to Hedo - got a few comments such as "heard that's a wild place" or "I didn't know you went there". No one actually asked what we did there.
One friend of mine, I've told we 'party' some. My wife has told her friend. She runs around on her husband, and is always asking my wife what to do when she has 'problems' (her husband must like it, as she often has 'problems' lol). My wife told her that I'll drive her to men's houses to get fucked, and will just watch or video. Her friend didn't believe until my wife showed her videos I took of my wife with different men. Also, she told her sister in law. I don't know what she did with that information.