Those who can't satisfy women sexually have no business asserting their sexual wants into the lives of fit/sexually skilled people anymore than a fan or the owner of a professional basketball team has the right to run on the court and play in the game.
Stay off the professional court, and if you feel you must play, then do so in your own league. There are those of us who're serious about this sex game and do the work it takes to be fit enough to play it at the highest levels.
If you're fit, equipped, and can play at a high level then you have no basis to be a cuckold. If you've not done the work, or if you lost the genetic lottery, then you have no business on the court and deserve nothing but ridicule for asserting that you do.
If you're supporting your wife based on her willingness to sacrifice the best sex life she could be having and to fulfill your sexual desires, then you never wanted her as a wife, you wanted a live-in prostitute. In this case she not only has a right to lead in the bedroom, she also has a right to treat you with the same disrespect that you've treated her with and to have you sacrifice your sex life like you've asked her to do.
The good cuck who loves his wife would allow her and her bull/boyfriend to lead him into the physical and mental fitness it takes to properly pleasure women, or to otherwise be useful, respectful, and not assert himself into her sex life until he's sufficiently progressed and she asks for it.
The selfish, lazy, scorn-worthy cuck thinks he should be able to skip doing the work he needs to do to do the lady right in bed, but still have her hand over her pink gold to him. Women should have no tolerance for that, but money and fear of insecurity often chains them to these pathetic, selfish, immoral cucks. More guys like me need to stand up for these women and help them with a way out of the traps they feel they're in. Their husbands need leadership to become real men (or to accept they're better off as girls), and women often don't have it in them to do so themselves.