Wife’s fantasies turning into reality

[jaylre11]

Little background. My wife is in her 30s and can be very horny.
Last year I began to tell her about my fantasies involving a 3sum with another woman. At first she seemed a bit jealous but enjoyed me talking about it during intercourse. Gradually increasing the details over time until eventually she would have me fantasizing about one of her friends being with us. She would always get extremely wet just by me whispering in her ear all the details of what I’d like to do.
She’s never been in a relationship with another girl but did say she’s made out with 2 girls on different occasions when she would go out to party in her much younger days.
She’s told me she prefers cock but does think it would be fun to enjoy another woman’s body.
We also like to watch girl/girl videos together.
I find it so hot because I don’t even need to touch her. I can hear her breathing change and once I reach down between her legs I can see how wet she gets just by watching the videos.
Most of it is pure fantasy but I have had straight talks with her and these are the things she’s either agreed to or says she does want to try: nudist resort, swingers club/ cruise, exposing herself at hotel windows, share a room with a another couple but no sharing just watching eachother play.

Apart from all that lately she’s finally opened up a bit more about her fantasies and she admitted she fantasized about playing with 2 cocks and getting DP.

I think we’re on a good road to eventually move onto the next level but I don’t want to rush her or scare her off. She does get jealous and one of her concerns is thinking she is not enough and that is why I’d want another woman to join us.

Any advice on how to proceed would be great, and if you have dealt with a similar situation based on how my wife behaves does she seem like she’s really into it or just for the sake of the fantasy? Let me know! Thanks everyone

 

[Wantsomefunto]

Need to use dildos to make her imagine another guy, then start asking her if she had a chance to fuck who would it be and how.

 

[JaknSuz]

You should let her experience several new cocks to see how much fun it is for the two of you to do something like that together. It could happen at Swingers clubs that allow single guys, a bar, an adult theater or arcade, anywhere there may be a chance that a random guy could be encouraged to play with her. Get all that to be a regular fun thing for y'all and then maybe try couples swap or something. We have always been a Hotwife couple since we started, and have done plenty of the couples swap thing too. I can tell you that it is a pain in the ass to find another couple where all 4 like each other and get along really well. That is why we just enjoy being Stag/Vixen/Hotwife play people. If a single guy gets out of line, it's easy to kick his ass to the curb and pick another one from the many waiting in line. There is good and bad within every genre of this lifestyle, so don't be discouraged if something negative pops up. The main goal is for the 2 of you to have a ball at whatever your favorite kink is. Good luck to you! 🙂

 

[jaylre11]

Need to use dildos to make her imagine another guy, then start asking her if she had a chance to fuck who would it be and how.

We have a dildo we started using for DP. But she doesn’t like to say it’s another guy. She just says she imagines it’s 2 of my cocks. I don’t fully believe her but I’ll let her get comfortable first before she admits what’s she’s thinking about.
Btw she takes 2 cocks very well. She’s able to stretch and accommodate both deep inside her. Sometimes just during fantasy talk she does bring up having 2 guys inside her at the same time.

 

[jaylre11]

You should let her experience several new cocks to see how much fun it is for the two of you to do something like that together. It could happen at Swingers clubs that allow single guys, a bar, an adult theater or arcade, anywhere there may be a chance that a random guy could be encouraged to play with her. Get all that to be a regular fun thing for y'all and then maybe try couples swap or something. We have always been a Hotwife couple since we started, and have done plenty of the couples swap thing too. I can tell you that it is a pain in the ass to find another couple where all 4 like each other and get along really well. That is why we just enjoy being Stag/Vixen/Hotwife play people. If a single guy gets out of line, it's easy to kick his ass to the curb and pick another one from the many waiting in line. There is good and bad within every genre of this lifestyle, so don't be discouraged if something negative pops up. The main goal is for the 2 of you to have a ball at whatever your favorite kink is. Good luck to you! 🙂

We’re not at that point yet of actually going to any swinger or nude type places. My wife is still jealous overall and I still need to work on convincing her no other woman would take her place. Sometimes she questions my desire to add a third and asks if it’s because I don’t think she’s enough for me. So we’re not there yet.
But we have talked about going to those places in the future and she’s open to the idea. I think once we start experiencing other couples in that type of setting she’ll be more inclined to try it out. She has told me she’ll be more willing after a few drinks. So after a good time maybe she’ll open up more.
She likes the idea of having 2 cocks at the same time but I’ve asked her if it came down to it would she prefer a man or woman to join us. And she says a girl would be more fun. So I’m not sure.

 

[Ht805cpl]

We’re not at that point yet of actually going to any swinger or nude type places. My wife is still jealous overall and I still need to work on convincing her no other woman would take her place. Sometimes she questions my desire to add a third and asks if it’s because I don’t think she’s enough for me. So we’re not there yet.
But we have talked about going to those places in the future and she’s open to the idea. I think once we start experiencing other couples in that type of setting she’ll be more inclined to try it out. She has told me she’ll be more willing after a few drinks. So after a good time maybe she’ll open up more.
She likes the idea of having 2 cocks at the same time but I’ve asked her if it came down to it would she prefer a man or woman to join us. And she says a girl would be more fun. So I’m not sure.

Sounds if she is jealous of other women but interested in DP or two men, perhaps it would be better to presue either another male joining you or another couple, I think another woman if she is jealous would or may hinder her moving forward to other things.
We started with another woman, was supposed to be a couple but her husband back out but she was bi and interested in me, the bi experience was new to me but so exciting and I loved it, but every time he was with her I’d get jealous, but I enjoyed her so much I accepted it, in time we finally tried another man in a threesome at my request as I was feeling it unfair for him having other women and not me with men, well when the tables were turned, wow I loved it and having two men taking turns with me all night long was amazing and I was all in. Funny thing is he was never jealous, like I expected him to be. I truly feel if you are both on board with trying something a swing club is a good place to start, you can get the feel of things, with no obligation to play, can do s little or as much as she desires. From socializing, or watching , or being watched to playing with another man or woman or couple as you both prefer. Nude resorts tend to be strictly nudity not sexual events although not all are like that where clubs tend to be open to as little or as much as you want. Different types of porn may sway her ideas, or help, good quality conversation helps and being honest with each other as to limits and desires are important as well. If she is the jealous type as you have stated, even though she may be going wild with another man or men, don’t get too crazy with other women, enjoy them but not overly extreme as you know she is the jealous type. It took a long time for me to work through that emotion,
If you ever want to talk more in private message me, I’d be happy to share some carried experiences to explain some highs n lows that can Happen on both parts.
Wishing you the best.