Wife asked me about opening the relationship.

nezperce

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As the title says she asked about opening our relationship ship, we've been together for years now and she's always worried about how few relationships I've had before us, while she's had many. I'm curious if she's pushing me into finding other flings so I won't have had so few sexual partners. She did leave it open that she could as well but the topic was focused on me.
 

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If she's concerned that you haven't had you haven't had as many experiences as she has, has she said anything about being worried that you'd cheat? It's clear she knows you want more experiences. That information had to have come from previous discussions. Do you get the feeling she's downplaying her getting to play too? I would think it would be impossible for you not to consider the possibility of an ulterior motive, even if it seems unlikely.

I'm truly very interested in your conversations past and upcoming with your wife. It isn't often that you read about a wife that feels the need to "level the playing field" for her husband. I'm hoping her motives are genuine and has you at heart. You would have a remarkably rare jewel of a wife is that ends up being the case. You would literally have most men's dream wife!
 
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