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Does anyone else have a fantasy of their partner leaving them for their bull?

My wife has only had one experience outside our marriage but she’s already a changed women and she talks about it all the time. The rational non horny version of me loves her and our relationship but the horny cuck in me feels there wouldn’t be a bigger turn on than my Asian wife cheating on me for a BWC bull and then leaving me for him.

Anyone else feel the same?
 
Does anyone else have a fantasy of their partner leaving them for their bull?

My wife has only had one experience outside our marriage but she’s already a changed women and she talks about it all the time. The rational non horny version of me loves her and our relationship but the horny cuck in me feels there wouldn’t be a bigger turn on than my Asian wife cheating on me for a BWC bull and then leaving me for him.

Anyone else feel the same?
In that same confusing way, fuck yeah. Some years ago Anna and I had a major rift and temporary separation - the possibility of her dating someone else during that time - then actually leaving me for him - is still hot to me.

I also love the fantasy that my wife gets a boyfriend, who becomes more and more serious, comes over more and more often... until I'm replaced, redundant. He sleeps in my bed, fucks my wife, takes her out so my friends and family see. She starts to feel like doing anything sexual or romantic with me is like cheating on her boyfriend.

I have no idea why I find such a horrible idea as the love of my life leaving me so erotic. It's way too extreme for me ever to bring up to Anna - she probably would divorce me if I did! - but it's like the most extreme version of my actual main fantasy/fetish, which is that she gets a romantic boyfriend as a secondary relationship.
 
In that same confusing way, fuck yeah. Some years ago Anna and I had a major rift and temporary separation - the possibility of her dating someone else during that time - then actually leaving me for him - is still hot to me.

I also love the fantasy that my wife gets a boyfriend, who becomes more and more serious, comes over more and more often... until I'm replaced, redundant. He sleeps in my bed, fucks my wife, takes her out so my friends and family see. She starts to feel like doing anything sexual or romantic with me is like cheating on her boyfriend.

I have no idea why I find such a horrible idea as the love of my life leaving me so erotic. It's way too extreme for me ever to bring up to Anna - she probably would divorce me if I did! - but it's like the most extreme version of my actual main fantasy/fetish, which is that she gets a romantic boyfriend as a secondary relationship.
It is crazy how it works and so many stories I've seen that people say they feel hurt but also more turned on than they've ever been by this happening.
 
It's weird. I still don't know if Anna did date anyone at that time - at the time she told me she was dating (in order to hurt me, which it did, just that wasn't the only feeling I had!), and then after we got back together she denied it. Very convincingly.

If she did, I think I have an idea who. Someone who knows us both and lives in the same small town. A guy who for some reason I have never got along with. It would have killed me to lose her, and killed me again to lose her to him.

So why am I getting so hard even now when I think about it?!
 
Twice during our marriage, J has gotten involved with a Lover seriously enough that she considered ending our relationship for them. Our situation seems to be a bit different than most here, as she needs to be emptionally attached to someone to have sex with them. We tried meaningless sex for the sake of sex, but she hated that and how she felt used by them afterwards. She needs her Lovers to actually LIKE her as a person to be involved sexually. That means there is probably a bigger risk for this happening in our case.

I have to admit that finding this out did have some "umphh" to it, knowing she was emotionally and sexually so involved with her Lover that she would give up our marriage to be with them exclusively. Oddly, the last one she was this involved with actually saved our marriage, LONG story.

Probably what helps prevent this, for us, is that when she gets THAT attached I am willing to comply with her desires to be "exclusive" to them sexually. We defined that, a long while ago, as her Lover the only one cumming inside of her so she feels exclusive, and I am relagated to condom only sex with her. We have been this way since November of 2012 when her then Boss/Lover asked her to only have sex with him. They were on a really fun sexy trip to DC together (work trip that was extended from a weekend to 10 days because it was SO MUCH fun!!) and he asked her if she would consider being exclusive to him only. She agreed then and there, and let me in on it when she got home!!!

But, to the question, YES there is some kind of strange weird sensation that makes this possibility a turn on as well as a major concern. Hard to explain, but I encourage her to get as emotionally attached as she wants to with her Lovers.

CW (spelling errors corrected)
 
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Does anyone else have a fantasy of their partner leaving them for their bull?

My wife has only had one experience outside our marriage but she’s already a changed women and she talks about it all the time. The rational non horny version of me loves her and our relationship but the horny cuck in me feels there wouldn’t be a bigger turn on than my Asian wife cheating on me for a BWC bull and then leaving me for him.

Anyone else feel the same?
I originally thought that was going to happen but now we talk about everything and I feel more comfortable but don’t get me wrong I still think that she will end up leaving me for one of her guys because I see how she is with them and sex is definitely a big part of relationships but I’m hoping that she enjoys cucking me and knowing how much she enjoys me life of a Hotwife
 
I originally thought that was going to happen but now we talk about everything and I feel more comfortable but don’t get me wrong I still think that she will end up leaving me for one of her guys because I see how she is with them and sex is definitely a big part of relationships but I’m hoping that she enjoys cucking me and knowing how much she enjoys me life of a Hotwife
I think the key is the relationship being really good and strong outside of sex as that gives a reason to stick around but if it isn’t, she may want everything with her bull.
 
If my wife left me for a "bull" I would be happy and sad. Happy because clearly she didn't love me and I do t wanna waste any more time with her and sad because now I have to find another woman who would be willing to fuck me and my friends.
 
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Same here. This is exactly how we rolled and it really enhanced our marriage.. Funny how things work out. We didn't know about "cages" and all that stuff, and the term "cuckold" wasn't one we were all that familiar with. We did know and like the term "hotwife" and we liked it. We started off trying to find couples and guys in swinger publications, which yielded hundreds of cock pictures but only one prospect. Then somebody hijacked our photos and the next thing we knew the photos were in play elsewhere. So finally, we realized that her coworkers in the huge company she worked for were an unending source of players of interest. Adding men and an occasional couple to our marriage didn't weaken it. Our sex lives were enhanced and we started by playing together. My wife's feelings for the three special guys enjoyed and satisfied her over and over added to our marriage and really kept things exciting. 30+ years now! She's gone through the change and at my age I'd be a lousy lay but oh, the great times we still smile about knowingly. But we also agree, you have to marry the right person to play the way we did. Thinking we can "change" our spouse later is a misconception. Or at the very least, a tall undertaking.
 
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Yvonne took no time to get talked into the hotwife scene. she would fuck anyone, friends, strangers it didn't matter to her. She was even fucking her EX husband. She would meet guys and bring them back to her place to fuck, sometimes I would be there and sometimes not. One of the guys named Rick talked her into wanting to be with him so she married him. He then started having her come out to my place so I could fill her with cum because he wanted to clean her out. I would fill her up and no sooner pull out and she would be getting ready to go because Rick wanted it fresh. Another partner I talked into fucking guys met a fast talking used car salesman named Pino. They moved out to British Columbia, were out there a few months when Pino told her that he was going out for a drive and when he called her he was back into Ontario lol she came back to Ontario and we did a bit of fucking .but it didn't work out.
 
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Yvonne took no time to get talked into the hotwife scene. she would fuck anyone, friends, strangers it didn't matter to her. She was even fucking her EX husband. She would meet guys and bring them back to her place to fuck, sometimes I would be there and sometimes not. One of the guys named Rick talked her into wanting to be with him so she married him. He then started having her come out to my place so I could fill her with cum because he wanted to clean her out. I would fill her up and no sooner pull out and she would be getting ready to go because Rick wanted it fresh. Another partner I talked into fucking guys met a fast talking used car salesman named Pino. They moved out to British Columbia, were out there a few months when Pino told her that he was going out for a drive and when he called her he was back into Ontario lol she came back to Ontario and we did a bit of fucking .but it didn't work out.
Good times! Rick's "seconds" would have been much hotter for him had he simply brought you to his place. That way, he could have watched.
 
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