Newsflash guys - a big cock isn’t everything. There are plenty of ways to absolutely please a woman without having a giant piece of meat between your legs. In fact, my experience in the past of over 20 years in the swinging lifestyle is, most guys with big meat depend solely on that meat and usually think that’s all it takes to please a woman. Truth is, my ex said guys with smaller to average sized cocks were usually better at pleasing her. Flash forward to L, in looking for a guy to be her lover almost every guy with a big cock had a crappy attitude and expected her to fall over and spre her legs solely because they had a big cock and did not want to try to excite her, talk to her or flirt. In other words, they thought a big cock was all they needed. Guess what,if that’s all you bring, a big dildo will do the same and be a lot less pain in the ass and less work.