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  1. coastalkid

    Solutions

    I noticed in some users profiles they have "Solutions" listed with Messages, Reaction score, and points. What are solutions?
  2. coastalkid

    Routines and routine experiences

    I have asked this before. I have asked this question on another site as well. I have yet to get much in the way of a response. In my own personal experience routine sex with my wife greatly diminished my desire. I knew what we were going to do, how long it would last, what position we would be...
  3. coastalkid

    Too old/aged out of the game

    I've heard some people say that they have gotten too old to play. Usually it's the men, sometimes it's the husband saying that his wife felt that she was no longer attractive enough to go on. Very few times it's the wife admitting that "those days" are over. Has this happened to you? Have any of...
  4. coastalkid

    Masturbating wives

    How many wives masturbate here? Are there wives here that never masturbate? Is it more likely that a wife will be more interested in becoming a hot wife if she does masturbate?
  5. coastalkid

    Her idea

    If the initial idea is promoted and encouraged by the wife, is it still acceptable for her to deny her husband the possibility of having sex outside the marriage? Almost all the time you read, "I (the wife) can have sex with anyone at anytime I choose but I would be crushed if my husband had sex...
  6. coastalkid

    Lube

    Does anyone use edible lube (other than cum)? Ever since menopause my wife does not get wet. She likes to use lotion and that's ok but it kind of limits things. After she gets the lotion on there's no more oral for me and if I want to clean her up afterwards the lotion ruins the whole deal. What...
  7. coastalkid

    Big cock

    Is big or bigger cock always the reason a wife or girlfriend has sex with someone else? If a husband/bf has a big cock does that mean the wife/gf doesn't need or want to look elsewhere? Are there wives out there that have sex regularly with men smaller than their husbands? I've always known...
  8. coastalkid

    Squirting

    Does your wife/gf "squirt"? Does it happen a specific way (ie position or method)? Are there any husbands/bf's that have seen another man make their wife/gf squirt? Have you learned how to make your wife squirt?
  9. coastalkid

    Watching

    So many husband's/bf's want to watch their wives/gf's having sex with someone else. I've often read from some wives/gf's that even though they know it's the one thing that their husbands/bf's want the most, it is inhibiting or a problem for them. They don't want to feel like they are having to...
  10. coastalkid

    Taking over domestic duties?

    How many cuckolds have taken over all the domestic duties at home? What is the one you like the least? If you had to guess, how much time do you spend a day/week cleaning and doing chores?
  11. coastalkid

    Who initiated the idea?

    I was looking at another website with a more detailed set of answers. According to their informal poll about 75% of the time, it's the man's idea. Of those where it was the woman's idea, 44% just went ahead and cheated which lead to him allowing her to continue.
  12. coastalkid

    Noticing the little things (pun intended)!

    My wife knows I'd like her to experience a big cock. She's still firmly in the "never gonna happen" camp. This last year we've been dealing with a bunch of family related problems that have invaded our privacy and as a consequence our sex lives. We finally got an opportunity to get away to our...
  13. coastalkid

    How do you create a poll on this site?

    I can't seem to find where you go to create a poll? Can anyone help me?
  14. coastalkid

    A fantasy inspired by pictures from kort6776

    In my jacking off dreams: This is the first time I've been allowed to see my wife with her much endowed friend. Instead of being sat off to the side she lets me see up close the difference without mistake. I naturally begin to covet her/my pussy. I look over and see that cock and I know he'll...
  15. coastalkid

    Does "routine" ...... appeal?

    I often read how routine sex diminishes desire in monogamous relationships. Does this happen in hotwife/cuckold relationships too? Does the sex ever become a predictable routine that over time loses its thrill to evoke desire and interest in your husband/bf? Have any of you husbands/bfs...
  16. coastalkid

    Pussy free

    How many here are pussy free? Are you happy about it? What's the best thing about being pussy free?
  17. coastalkid

    Why does a wife saying, "you asked for this", get turned into unilateral authority to do anything? Is THAT what he asked for?

    Why does it seem that when you read threads about a gf/wife that is "asked" to become a hotwife/cuckold wife, she clears the slate oblivious to her bf/husband and sets her own absolute rules. I get that it's her body but what if it is beyond what a bf/husband "asked" for? Aren't relationships...
  18. coastalkid

    Communication

    I'm always wanting to learn from people that make their hotwife/cuckold relationship work. It's also very helpful to learn some of the hard lessons some of you have learned through failure too. Over the years of being interested in being "In the lifestyle" I've read a common trait that honest...
  19. coastalkid

    Wives/gfs, have you ever realized you took things too far or too fast for your husbands/bfs?

    I realize that most people on this site are looking for masturbation fodder. Personally, I'd like some real discussion about how any alternate lifestyle successfully functions. Knowing how it really works or fails is what my brain craves. Wives/gfs how did you feel when you realized you had...
  20. coastalkid

    Penis lengthening, penis shrinkage

    I've read a bunch of things that say that there is no way to legitimately increase a penis size. Yes, I've read about techniques or devices that claim it is possible (ie pumps, jelqing exercises, stretching devices). If you can't lengthen a penis then why would chastity shrink a penis? Does this...