Ive been CD for many years - since ealry teens. Wife doesn't know but most days I'm wearing panties of some kind. Around the house if she's home then I wear black ones that at a glance wouldn't attract attention, but days when in the office I try and be more femme (like today in pic). I'm always on the lookout for ladies clothes that I think could pass at first glance. I've a few ladies tops that I wear under hoodies. I wish the gender-neutral/gender free clothes were nicer, but they tend to be hoodies, sweat pants, tees etc. V tempted to but some ladies jeans - as earlier posters have said, they're a lot nicer to wear and more flattering.