Acquaintances/Friends/Co-Workers/Family???
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Some of my friends have acted as a bull for us since early in our marriage.
Only one family member we know of is a part of the lifestyle. A older cousin of mine, single. We’ve chatted before online but that’s all.
Only one family member we know of is a part of the lifestyle. A older cousin of mine, single. We’ve chatted before online but that’s all.
KK and I have had a few experiences in this area, outing, and being outed, or close-call.
Our first was early in our married life - we were still attending church then, driven by KK’s upbringing and ritual. We’d been married about 8-months at the time this occurred. Around the six month mark, I was trying to spice things up, from pillow-talk to porn in print and VHS, as well as adult theaters.
One evening I convinced KK to go across town to a movie theatre showing the “Story of O,” then X-rated and controversial. We got tickets at the window, went in, and waited in the lobby. To our mutual shock, we ran into another couple who attended bible study with us, Jeff and Michelle. It was titillating, shocking, and embarrassing. The four of us made uncomfortable small-talk while waiting for the doors to open and be seated. We ended up on opposite sides of the theatre, and didn’t run into them again until Sunday services. It was really, really awkward. Things remained awkward for weeks. The four of us finally got together for a casual dinner one Saturday, including wine. That led to an attempted, but disastrous and abortive soft swing encounter, starting out with same-room sex, until we tried swapping partners for a make-out session. KK got absolutely enraged when she saw me kiss Michelle, while Michelle had her hand down my boxers, trying to fondle my cock and balls. KK ended the session with a temper-tantrum. We never saw them again - they simply stopped coming to church. Eventually we did too.
We’ve also experienced men we know in the community, including pastors, business owners, prominent leaders who responded to KK’s Craig’s List, AFF, AM and similar posts or profiles, looking for sex with a hot wife or cuckoldress. We have slightly different takes on this - I think it is kind of hot, knowing that some acquaintance finds my wife sexually attractive and desirable. KK’s a little twisted, often fantasizing about controlling or blackmailing them, using sex as a weapon. Long before we started dating, KK had an affair with a married youth minister in her church - it was originally “marginally consensual” on her part. Since that affair, KK has often fantasized about sexually enslaving prominent, powerful married men, off-limits otherwise, but under her control, the combination of desire, lust and fear of exposure.
Our first was early in our married life - we were still attending church then, driven by KK’s upbringing and ritual. We’d been married about 8-months at the time this occurred. Around the six month mark, I was trying to spice things up, from pillow-talk to porn in print and VHS, as well as adult theaters.
One evening I convinced KK to go across town to a movie theatre showing the “Story of O,” then X-rated and controversial. We got tickets at the window, went in, and waited in the lobby. To our mutual shock, we ran into another couple who attended bible study with us, Jeff and Michelle. It was titillating, shocking, and embarrassing. The four of us made uncomfortable small-talk while waiting for the doors to open and be seated. We ended up on opposite sides of the theatre, and didn’t run into them again until Sunday services. It was really, really awkward. Things remained awkward for weeks. The four of us finally got together for a casual dinner one Saturday, including wine. That led to an attempted, but disastrous and abortive soft swing encounter, starting out with same-room sex, until we tried swapping partners for a make-out session. KK got absolutely enraged when she saw me kiss Michelle, while Michelle had her hand down my boxers, trying to fondle my cock and balls. KK ended the session with a temper-tantrum. We never saw them again - they simply stopped coming to church. Eventually we did too.
We’ve also experienced men we know in the community, including pastors, business owners, prominent leaders who responded to KK’s Craig’s List, AFF, AM and similar posts or profiles, looking for sex with a hot wife or cuckoldress. We have slightly different takes on this - I think it is kind of hot, knowing that some acquaintance finds my wife sexually attractive and desirable. KK’s a little twisted, often fantasizing about controlling or blackmailing them, using sex as a weapon. Long before we started dating, KK had an affair with a married youth minister in her church - it was originally “marginally consensual” on her part. Since that affair, KK has often fantasized about sexually enslaving prominent, powerful married men, off-limits otherwise, but under her control, the combination of desire, lust and fear of exposure.
Agreed with that. Just be adults about it. It’s only sex.
Almost all of our friends and family know we are open.
Agreed completely. Being open and honest helps with everything. Good for you two and your friends talking about it honestly.
We enjoy that also.
Great dinner topic! Much better then talking politics or other things.
I think most of my husband's friends have all used me, most several times. I've performed orally on two of our church deacons. I'm the unofficial town slut,
just not publicly admitted too. Most of my users don't seem to embarrassed by it.
just not publicly admitted too. Most of my users don't seem to embarrassed by it.
My ex was outed at her workplace, an Xray dept in a hospital, by a couple of guys she was swinging with in a club 2 nights before, but they were escorted out by security. My cousin knows about my ex's and my present wife and has seen all of my photos of them. The most shocked was a close friend that recently broke up with his long time partner. I consoled him by showing some photos of my ex's and of my present wife, one by accident of her sucking a different cock than mine so he asked what was going on and I explained that I had been a swinger for many years
I found out many years ago that mum and dad were also wife swapping and mum owned up to them skinny dipping quite a lot when they was younger in large groups at was is now a notorious dogging spot, maybe that's where I get my urges from
I found out many years ago that mum and dad were also wife swapping and mum owned up to them skinny dipping quite a lot when they was younger in large groups at was is now a notorious dogging spot, maybe that's where I get my urges from
My sister has an annual pool party every year, and last year one couple that has known our family for a very long time, happened to be there. Him and I started talking about his gf and told me that they like to play, and that she loves sucking cock. We started messaging each other and got together one night, and we had a blast! She definitely loves sucking cock and has a beautiful pussy! I wanted to cum in her so badly, but both him and I had too much to drink and couldn’t finish. We felt like that we had let her down and have been trying to get together again for awhile now. We keep making plans and for one reason or another, one of us has had to cancel. I’m hoping and planning on hooking up with them this weekend! Fingers crossed!
At first she said she would never go swinging again but the urges got the better of her after a few months
This whole thread makes me feel better. We used to use Craigslist a bunch for finding couples or bulls - but we always posted pics without face. Well one of the couples that responded were not just co-workers of my wife's, but their kids played baseball with ours. We ran in the same circles to put it mildly. I didn't think much of it but the wife freaked out. We pulled the ad and my wife avoided them like the plague.
A few years later my wife and the other wife became friends just thanks to how similar paths our kids took. We now not only consider them some of our best friends, but they also use my wife as their person unicorn. It took us a long time to admit that we were the ones who ghosted them on CL. Funny thing is this couple pointed out many other people and couples in our friends group who are also in the lifestyle. So I'm confident that a much larger percentage of the people in our community are open to this LS than admit it.
A few years later my wife and the other wife became friends just thanks to how similar paths our kids took. We now not only consider them some of our best friends, but they also use my wife as their person unicorn. It took us a long time to admit that we were the ones who ghosted them on CL. Funny thing is this couple pointed out many other people and couples in our friends group who are also in the lifestyle. So I'm confident that a much larger percentage of the people in our community are open to this LS than admit it.
It really does! And she’s just simply amazing! She’s very adventurous and creative and believes, you should try everything at least once. He’s a really great guy and loves to share her and is always ready to take things to another level. Gotta love it!
agreed, after all who are you going to tell without doing damage to yourself. Everyone should just enjoy knowing that the other couple is intereted in the same things you are.
Bob and I met when I was 15 (a loooong time ago). Almost from the start his brother would jokingly ask him to send a naked picture of me. A few years ago he did just that. We had our laughs and then one evening while we were playing cards my brother in law mentioned that he and his wife dabble in the lifestyle some. A sexy conversation ensued and we all ended up in bed. Me with Bobs brother and Bob with his sister in law. It's now been an ongoing thing. 
When we first started venturing into Jacklyn being a Hotwife, we had joined SLS thinking that swingers were the way to go. We had met a couple, the wife had a steady boyfriend and wasn’t looking for anyone else, but the husband and Jacklyn hit it off and were hanging out a lot. So we would routinely hang out the 4 of us together. And Rob and Jacklyn would pretty much be the “couple” for the night. But that’s not the point. So one night we got to one the SLS local group meet ups. We walk in and one of my high school girlfriends I hadn’t seen in 20 years was there, one of my former coworkers, and one of Jacklyn’s ex-husbands friends 😂
We had 3 friends that r couples that we found out r in the lifestyle and 2 family members also
Early on we played with a number of friends but I think this thread is more about ones we did not recruit
At a local fringe/fantasy fest did run into a friend of my daughters and the woman's husband. We were in street clothes but they were more dressed for the occasion , what she had on left little to the imagination. Was awkward. No the fest attracted people in all sorts of lifestyles including vanilla. I am sure she told my daughter but no big deal.
At a local fringe/fantasy fest did run into a friend of my daughters and the woman's husband. We were in street clothes but they were more dressed for the occasion , what she had on left little to the imagination. Was awkward. No the fest attracted people in all sorts of lifestyles including vanilla. I am sure she told my daughter but no big deal.
