#1 I'm a 31 year old male my partner is 28 we have 2 young children and our own home. Everything you could wish for. About a week ago I told my partner I would like to watch her have sex with either a man or women. I've had this desire for a little while but now it's out I'm confused. She's said yes she up for it but her condition is that it's a man first. This is so she knows that I just don't want to see another women naked and in case I join in in that situation. Also we got engaged last year but she has said she is up for it but would put any marriage planning off as she doesn't feel like this is her idea or a marriage. But will stay together and enjoy this life. I'm not sure where I go with this now especially we've never tried anything like this before. Is this fantasy of mine best kept a fantasy? I think I need the marriage side just for commitment purposes. She's been very support which for some reason makes it more difficult to decided to go ahead with it.
